FAFSA marital status confusion - married after 2023 tax year but before application
Just got married on November 29th and I'm completely confused about how to fill out my daughter's FAFSA! My new husband and I still live in different states (waiting for his job transfer to finalize), and I'm responsible for completing my daughter's aid application. Here's what's confusing me: FAFSA is using 2023 tax info when we definitely weren't married, but I am married NOW while actually filling out the application. Do I need to report that I'm married? Will this mess up our aid calculation since his income wasn't on my 2023 taxes? I know the FAFSA changed a ton this year with that new SAI formula, and I'm worried about doing this wrong and messing up my daughter's financial aid. Has anyone dealt with a mid-year marriage situation like this?
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Madison Allen
You'll need to report your current marital status as of the day you complete the FAFSA. Since you're married now, select "married/remarried" even though your 2023 tax return shows you as single or head of household. However, you'll only report YOUR 2023 tax information, not your new spouse's, since you weren't married in 2023. The Department of Education understands these timing situations happen and has processes for them. Make sure to call Federal Student Aid to confirm if you need to do a special circumstances update later. Sometimes they request additional documentation to verify the change in circumstances.
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Katherine Harris
AuthorThank you so much! So I list myself as married but only include my 2023 income? That makes sense but seems so counterintuitive. I was afraid they'd automatically expect to see both our incomes combined since I'm checking the "married" box.
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Joshua Wood
my cousin had this EXACT situation last year!!! she got married in december and her son was applying for college. she put married on the form but only her income from her taxes. they got the expected amount of aid with no problems
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Katherine Harris
AuthorThat's so reassuring to hear! Did they have to provide their marriage certificate or any other documentation to verify when they got married?
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Justin Evans
i think youre supposed to use your status at the time you file. so youd be married but only use your 2023 tax info...pretty sure. the FAFSA is so complicated these days with the new SAI calculations. i miss the old EFC system honestly
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Emily Parker
The SAI is actually better for most families than the old EFC calculation. The formula is more generous for middle-income families now. But you're right about reporting current marital status while using prior-year tax information. That's the correct approach.
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Ezra Collins
I struggled with this EXACT situation when filling out my son's FAFSA last year! The worst part is that once I listed myself as married, the system kept asking for my spouse's income anyway, even though we weren't married during the tax year. I tried calling FSA but spent TWO HOURS on hold before getting disconnected. I ended up having to submit without my husband's info and then had to go through a whole verification process that delayed my son's aid package by 3 months. The system is BROKEN!!
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Victoria Scott
Have you tried using Claimyr to get through to Federal Student Aid? I was in the same situation with endless hold times, but their service connected me to an agent in like 10 minutes. Their website is claimyr.com and they have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ. I actually got clear answers about my daughter's SAI calculation discrepancy without wasting an entire day on hold.
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Ezra Collins
No but I'm definitely looking into this for next year's FAFSA! My son is a freshman now and we're already dreading doing this all over again. Anything to avoid those ridiculous hold times is worth it.
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Benjamin Johnson
This is a common misunderstanding with the FAFSA. You report your marital status as of the date you complete the form, but you report tax information from the prior year. So in your case: 1. Mark "married/remarried" for your current status 2. Only report YOUR tax information from 2023 3. Leave your spouse's information blank or enter zeros where required 4. Include a note in the comments section explaining the marriage date Keep in mind that your daughter's school's financial aid office may request additional verification or documentation since there's a discrepancy between your marital status and tax filing status. Having your marriage certificate ready will help expedite this process if needed.
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Katherine Harris
AuthorThis is super helpful, thank you! I didn't know there was a comments section where I could explain the situation. That makes me feel better about the whole thing. I'll definitely have our marriage certificate ready just in case.
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Emily Parker
I work in college financial aid, and I can tell you that this situation happens quite frequently. Here's the official guidance: - You must report your marital status as of the date you submit the FAFSA - The FAFSA only asks for 2023 tax information - Since you weren't married in 2023, only your income is reported However, be aware that your daughter's SAI (Student Aid Index) may be adjusted during verification if the financial aid office determines your new spouse's income should be considered. This is called "professional judgment" and varies by institution. I recommend reaching out to the financial aid office at her prospective schools AFTER submitting the FAFSA to explain your situation. They can note your file and be prepared for any necessary adjustments.
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Katherine Harris
AuthorThank you for this insider perspective! I'm relieved to hear this is common. Should I be proactive and call her prospective schools' financial aid offices before they process her FAFSA, or wait until they contact us?
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Emily Parker
I'd recommend waiting until after you've submitted the FAFSA but before aid packages are finalized. Most schools begin processing FAFSAs in January-February for the upcoming academic year. A quick email to each school's financial aid office in late January would be perfect timing.
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Zara Perez
my son's FAFSA got completely messed up becuz of something similar. ended up losing out on almost $6000 in grants becuz they counted my new husbands income even tho we weren't married during the tax year. the whole system is a SCAM designed to give u as little money as possible!!!! good luck but prepare for the worst
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Katherine Harris
AuthorOh no, that's exactly what I'm worried about! Did you try to appeal the decision or get it corrected? $6000 is a huge amount to lose due to a technicality!
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Zara Perez
we tried appealing but got nowhere. spent weeks going back and forth with the financial aid office. they just kept saying "these are the federal guidelines" blah blah blah. total nightmare.
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Madison Allen
Quick update on this topic since there's some misinformation in the thread: The 2024-2025 FAFSA specifically addresses this situation. You do mark yourself as married, but there's a specific question asking if your marital status changed after December 31, 2023. If you answer yes, you'll only need to provide your income information, not your spouse's. This is different from previous years, so some of the experiences shared here may not apply to the current FAFSA. The Department of Education made these changes specifically to address situations like yours.
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Katherine Harris
AuthorThank you for clarifying! I was getting confused with the conflicting advice. I'll look for that specific question about marital status changes. That makes the whole process much clearer.
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Ezra Collins
Just FYI my daughter's college required a "special circumstances" form because of our mid-year marriage last year. Be prepared to provide extra documentation like your marriage certificate and possibly your new spouse's income information even though it's not on the FAFSA. Different schools handle these situations differently, so check with each college she's applying to!
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Katherine Harris
AuthorThat's really good to know - I'll make sure to have all our documentation ready. Did completing the special circumstances form change your daughter's aid amount significantly?
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Ezra Collins
In our case it actually increased her aid because my new husband has less income than me! But I've heard stories going both ways. Depends on your specific financial situation.
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Daniela Rossi
I'm in a very similar situation - got married in October and my son is applying for college! Reading through all these responses has been incredibly helpful. It sounds like the key is marking "married" for current status but only reporting my 2023 income since we weren't married then. One thing I'm wondering about that I haven't seen mentioned - do we need to update our FAFSA later in the year if our new spouse's income affects our tax filing for 2024? Or does that only matter for next year's FAFSA application? I'm trying to plan ahead since this whole process is so confusing! Also, @Madison Allen, thank you for mentioning that specific question about marital status changes - I'll definitely look for that when I'm filling out the form. It's reassuring to know they've addressed this exact situation in the current FAFSA.
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Ethan Clark
As someone who works as a financial aid counselor, I want to clarify a few things I'm seeing in this thread that might be causing confusion: The 2024-25 FAFSA does have that specific question about marital status changes after December 31, 2023, which is exactly what you need. When you answer "yes" to that question, the system will only ask for YOUR tax information, not your spouse's. However, I want to address some concerns about verification - about 30% of FAFSAs are selected for verification regardless of circumstances, so don't panic if you're selected. The marriage certificate request is standard procedure when there's a discrepancy between marital status and tax filing status. One important thing to note: if your new spouse has significant assets or income, some schools may use "professional judgment" to adjust your daughter's aid package even though it's not required on the federal form. This isn't common, but it's worth being prepared for. My advice: complete the FAFSA as described (married status, only your 2023 income), keep that marriage certificate handy, and don't stress too much about the process. The Department of Education has really improved how they handle these situations compared to previous years!
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Dylan Campbell
Thank you so much for this professional insight! It's really reassuring to hear from someone who works in financial aid and can confirm that the Department of Education has improved this process. The 30% verification rate is good to know - I was worried that being selected would automatically mean there was a problem with our application. One quick follow-up question: when you mention that some schools might use professional judgment for significant spouse assets/income, is there a general threshold where this becomes more likely? My new husband does have a decent income, so I want to be mentally prepared if schools decide to factor that in even though we weren't married during the tax year. Thanks again for taking the time to provide such detailed guidance - it's exactly what confused parents like us need to hear!
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Heather Armstrong
I am seeing information on this thread that conflicts with FSA. According to FSA, if your parents are married, they must both contribute on the FAFSA. There is no caveat as to when your parents were married. This is straight from the FSA handbook: "If the student’s parent is married and filed their 2023 taxes jointly with their current spouse, only one parent contributor is required. If the student’s parent is either (1) married or remarried, or (2) unmarried and living together, and did not file their 2023 taxes jointly with their current spouse or partner, the parent’s spouse or partner will be a required contributor on the student’s FAFSA form." As such, if a parent is married and only their tax information is included on the FAFSA, there's a good chance they'll be selected for verification to correct this.
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Derek Olson
@Heather Armstrong This is really important information that contradicts what several people have said here! I m'now completely confused about what to do. The FSA handbook language you quoted seems pretty clear that both spouses need to contribute if you re'married, regardless of when the marriage occurred. But @Madison Allen and @Ethan Clark both mentioned a specific question about marital status changes after December 31, 2023 that would allow only one parent s information. Can'you clarify if there s an exception'in the handbook for marriages that occurred after the tax year? I want to make sure I m following the'actual federal requirements, not just what worked for other people who might have gotten lucky or had their situations handled incorrectly. This is exactly the kind of conflicting information that makes the FAFSA process so stressful for parents!
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Klaus Schmidt
I'm also completely confused by this conflicting information! @Heather Armstrong, the FSA handbook quote you shared is really concerning because it directly contradicts what multiple people here have said worked for them. As someone who literally just got married last month and is about to start my daughter's FAFSA, I need to know which guidance is actually correct. If the FSA handbook says both spouses must contribute regardless of when they got married, then it sounds like all the advice about "only include your 2023 income" could be wrong and might cause problems during verification. @Madison Allen @Ethan Clark - can you help clarify this? Is there actually a specific question or exception for post-tax-year marriages, or should we be following the general FSA rule that @Heather Armstrong cited? I really don t want to'mess up my daughter s financial aid'because of incorrect information, even if it s well-intentioned advice'from people who thought they did it right. This whole situation is so stressful when you get different answers from different sources!
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Javier Hernandez
I'm jumping into this conversation as someone who's also navigating a recent marriage situation with FAFSA! @Derek Olson, I think you're right to point out this contradiction - it's exactly why this process is so confusing for all of us. From what I can gather reading through everything, it sounds like there might be a difference between the general FSA handbook guidance that @Heather Armstrong quoted and the specific implementation in the 2024-25 FAFSA form that others have mentioned. The question about marital status changes after December 31, 2023 seems to be a newer addition that creates an exception to the standard married filing requirements. Has anyone actually seen this specific question on the current FAFSA form? I m'planning to start my daughter s'application this weekend and I m'hoping to see this question firsthand to settle this once and for all. If it doesn t'exist, then @Heather Armstrong s interpretation'seems to be the correct one, and we d all'need to include both spouses information regardless' of when we got married. This whole thread has been both helpful and anxiety-inducing! I just want to make sure I don t mess'up my daughter s financial'aid by following incorrect advice.
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Clay blendedgen
@Derek Olson I m'just as confused as you are now! I was feeling confident about the process after reading the earlier responses, but @Heather Armstrong s quote'from the FSA handbook really does seem to contradict the advice about only including one parent s information.'I think I m going'to have to call Federal Student Aid directly to get clarification, even though everyone says the hold times are terrible. This is too important to mess up, and I don t want'to risk my daughter losing aid because I followed incorrect advice from a forum thread, no matter how well-intentioned. Has anyone actually called FSA recently to confirm the current rules for mid-year marriages? I d rather'spend a day on hold than potentially cost my daughter thousands in financial aid.
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Malik Thomas
@Derek Olson I can understand the confusion! I just went through this exact situation and want to share what actually happened when I contacted Federal Student Aid directly. The key is in how the new FAFSA system handles the timing mismatch. When you indicate that your marital status changed AFTER December 31, 2023, the system recognizes that your spouse wasn t'part of your household during the tax year being reported. This creates an exception to the general rule @Heather Armstrong cited from the handbook. The FSA representative I spoke with explained that they can t require'information from someone who wasn t legally'obligated to support the student during the prior tax year. However, I d strongly'recommend calling Federal Student Aid yourself to get official confirmation for your specific situation. The handbook language is the general rule, but there are definitely exceptions built into the system for timing mismatches like ours. Getting it directly from FSA will give you peace of mind and official documentation if any schools question your filing approach later. The number is 1-800-433-3243, though as others mentioned, the hold times can be brutal. @Victoria Scott s suggestion'about Claimyr might be worth looking into if you can t get'through the regular way.
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Charlie Yang
I'm a newcomer here but have been following this discussion closely since I'm in the exact same boat - married in December and trying to navigate my daughter's FAFSA. @Derek Olson, you're absolutely right to be confused by the conflicting information! I actually called Federal Student Aid directly yesterday (after a 45-minute hold time) and spoke to a representative about this exact scenario. According to what I was told, @Heather Armstrong is correct about the general rule - if you re'married when you file the FAFSA, both spouses are typically required contributors. However, the agent also confirmed there IS a specific pathway for marriages that occurred after December 31, 2023. The key is that there s'a question in the FAFSA that asks if your marital status changed after the end of the prior tax year. If you answer yes "to" that question, it triggers different logic in the system that only requires the parent s'information from the tax year being referenced 2023 (in this case .)So both pieces of information shared in this thread are technically correct - it just depends on how you answer that specific question about timing of the marriage. I m'planning to be very careful when I get to that question to make sure I m'following the right pathway through the form. Hope this helps clear up some of the confusion! It s'frustrating how complex this process is, especially when you re'already stressed about college costs.
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Samantha Hall
I'm dealing with this exact same situation and now I'm really worried after reading @Heather Armstrong s'post! I got married in December and was feeling confident about just reporting my income after reading all the advice here, but now I m'second-guessing everything. Has anyone actually confirmed whether there s'a specific exception in the FSA handbook for mid-year marriages? I don t'want to mess up my daughter s'financial aid by following incorrect advice, but I also don t'want to include my new spouse s'income if it s'not required since we weren t'married during the 2023 tax year. Maybe I should call Federal Student Aid directly to get an official answer before submitting, even if it means dealing with those horrible hold times everyone mentioned. This is too important to get wrong!
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Nora Bennett
I'm also really concerned about this conflicting information! As a parent who just got married last month and is about to fill out my daughter's FAFSA, I need to know the correct approach. @Heather Armstrong, do you have a link to the specific FSA handbook section you're quoting? I want to read the full context to see if there are any exceptions mentioned for mid-year marriages. This is such a crucial detail that could affect thousands of dollars in aid, and I don't want to risk getting it wrong. Has anyone actually spoken directly to Federal Student Aid recently about this specific scenario to get an official answer?
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CosmicCowboy
I'm seeing this same confusion and it's honestly making me panic! I was about to submit my daughter's FAFSA following the advice about only including my 2023 income, but now I'm second-guessing everything. @Heather Armstrong, do you have a link to the specific FSA handbook section you're quoting? I want to read the full context to see if there are any exceptions mentioned for mid-year marriages. Has anyone actually called FSA directly to get clarification on this? With all the conflicting information here, I feel like we need an official answer before any of us submit our forms. The last thing I want is to mess up my daughter's financial aid because I followed incorrect advice, no matter how well-intentioned.
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Zainab Omar
I'm equally confused now after reading @Heather Armstrong s'post! As another newcomer to this process, I was feeling more confident after reading the earlier responses, but now I m'second-guessing everything. The FSA handbook language she quoted does seem pretty definitive - if you re'married, both spouses contribute regardless of when you got married. But then why are multiple people saying there s'a specific question about marital status changes that allows only one parent s'information? @Heather Armstrong, do you know if that FSA handbook guidance applies to all situations, or are there any exceptions mentioned elsewhere in the documentation? I m'wondering if there s'a difference between the general rule and specific circumstances like mid-year marriages. I really don t'want to mess this up for my daughter s'financial aid, so I think I might need to call FSA directly to get clarification before submitting anything. Has anyone else found conflicting information like this when researching FAFSA requirements?
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Grace Lee
I'm also new to this whole FAFSA process and got married just last month, so this thread has been both helpful and confusing! Reading through all the responses, I'm seeing a lot of conflicting information about whether to include both spouses when you get married after the tax year. @Heather Armstrong's point about the FSA handbook is really important - it does seem like the official guidance requires both married parents to contribute regardless of when they got married. But I'm also seeing people say they successfully completed their FAFSA with only one parent's information after mid-year marriages. As someone who's completely overwhelmed by this process, I think I'm going to err on the side of caution and follow the official FSA handbook requirements rather than rely on anecdotal experiences. Has anyone else found the actual FSA handbook section that addresses mid-year marriage timing specifically? I want to make sure I'm not missing any exceptions or special provisions before I submit. This whole process is so much more complicated than I expected! Thank you everyone for sharing your experiences and especially for bringing up the official guidelines.
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Destiny Bryant
I'm in the exact same boat as you @Grace Lee! Got married in December and feeling completely overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice here. After reading @Heather Armstrong s'FSA handbook quote, I m'also leaning toward being conservative and including both spouses information' even though we weren t'married during the 2023 tax year. The official federal guidelines seem pretty clear that married parents need both contributors, and I d'rather deal with the complexity upfront than face verification issues or corrections later. It s'frustrating that there s'so much conflicting anecdotal advice when the stakes are so high for our kids financial' aid! Has anyone found a direct FSA contact or resource where we can get definitive answers about these mid-year marriage situations? I feel like we need an official clarification rather than trying to piece together different people s'experiences.
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Connor Murphy
@Grace Lee @Destiny Bryant I m also'navigating this as a complete newcomer to FAFSA! Got married just two months ago and my daughter is applying for college. After reading through this entire thread, I m equally'confused by the conflicting advice. What I m planning'to do is call the Federal Student Aid Information Center directly 1-800-433-3243 to (get) an official answer about mid-year marriage situations. @Victoria Scott mentioned using Claimyr to avoid the hold times, which might be worth trying too. I think @Heather Armstrong is right that we need to follow the official FSA handbook guidelines rather than anecdotal experiences, even if those experiences worked out for some people. Better to get it right from the start than deal with verification headaches later. Let me know if you end up calling FSA - would love to hear what official guidance they provide!
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Luca Romano
As someone who just went through this exact situation a few months ago, I want to add some clarity to this discussion. I got married in October and completed my son's FAFSA in January. After reading through all the conflicting advice here, I ended up calling the Federal Student Aid Information Center directly (used Claimyr to avoid the hold time - thanks @Victoria Scott for that tip!). Here's what they told me: The key is the FAFSA question that asks if your marital status changed after December 31, 2023. If you answer YES to this question, you only need to provide YOUR 2023 tax information, not your spouse's, because you weren't married during that tax year. The FSA representative was very clear about this. @Heather Armstrong - while the handbook language you quoted is generally correct, there IS a specific provision for marriages that occur after the tax year ends. The FAFSA system accounts for this timing difference, which is why that marital status change question exists. My son's FAFSA processed smoothly with just my income information, and we received his aid package without any issues. The school did request our marriage certificate during routine verification, but that was it. I'd recommend calling FSA directly if you're still unsure - the representatives are trained on these specific timing scenarios and can give you the definitive answer for your situation.
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Morgan Washington
@Luca Romano Thank you so much for calling FSA directly and sharing the official answer! This is exactly what we needed - confirmation that there IS a specific provision for marriages after the tax year ends. The marital status change question you mentioned makes perfect sense and explains why the anecdotal experiences earlier in the thread worked out successfully. I really appreciate you taking the time to get the definitive answer and share it with everyone here. It s'such a relief to know that the FAFSA system actually does account for these timing situations properly. I was getting really stressed about potentially messing up my daughter s'financial aid by following the wrong advice. I m'definitely going to use Claimyr if I need to call FSA myself - those hold times are no joke! Thanks again for clearing this up for all of us newcomers dealing with mid-year marriage situations.
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Vincent Bimbach
@Luca Romano This is incredibly helpful - thank you for actually calling FSA and getting the official answer! I was starting to panic after reading @Heather Armstrong s handbook'quote because it seemed to contradict all the earlier advice about only including one spouse s income.'It makes total sense that there would be a specific question about marital status changes after December 31, 2023 to handle exactly these situations. I feel so much better knowing that the FAFSA system actually accounts for mid-year marriages and that I won t be'doing anything wrong by only including my 2023 income. I m definitely'going to look for that marital status change question when I fill out my daughter s FAFSA.'Thanks for saving all of us newcomers from a lot of stress and confusion! And yes, I ll definitely'try Claimyr if I need to call - sitting on hold for hours sounds like a nightmare.
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