FAFSA marital status confusion - married after 2023 tax year but before application
Just got married on November 29th and I'm completely confused about how to fill out my daughter's FAFSA! My new husband and I still live in different states (waiting for his job transfer to finalize), and I'm responsible for completing my daughter's aid application. Here's what's confusing me: FAFSA is using 2023 tax info when we definitely weren't married, but I am married NOW while actually filling out the application. Do I need to report that I'm married? Will this mess up our aid calculation since his income wasn't on my 2023 taxes? I know the FAFSA changed a ton this year with that new SAI formula, and I'm worried about doing this wrong and messing up my daughter's financial aid. Has anyone dealt with a mid-year marriage situation like this?
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Madison Allen
You'll need to report your current marital status as of the day you complete the FAFSA. Since you're married now, select "married/remarried" even though your 2023 tax return shows you as single or head of household. However, you'll only report YOUR 2023 tax information, not your new spouse's, since you weren't married in 2023. The Department of Education understands these timing situations happen and has processes for them. Make sure to call Federal Student Aid to confirm if you need to do a special circumstances update later. Sometimes they request additional documentation to verify the change in circumstances.
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Katherine Harris
•Thank you so much! So I list myself as married but only include my 2023 income? That makes sense but seems so counterintuitive. I was afraid they'd automatically expect to see both our incomes combined since I'm checking the "married" box.
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Joshua Wood
my cousin had this EXACT situation last year!!! she got married in december and her son was applying for college. she put married on the form but only her income from her taxes. they got the expected amount of aid with no problems
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Katherine Harris
•That's so reassuring to hear! Did they have to provide their marriage certificate or any other documentation to verify when they got married?
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Justin Evans
i think youre supposed to use your status at the time you file. so youd be married but only use your 2023 tax info...pretty sure. the FAFSA is so complicated these days with the new SAI calculations. i miss the old EFC system honestly
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Emily Parker
•The SAI is actually better for most families than the old EFC calculation. The formula is more generous for middle-income families now. But you're right about reporting current marital status while using prior-year tax information. That's the correct approach.
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Ezra Collins
I struggled with this EXACT situation when filling out my son's FAFSA last year! The worst part is that once I listed myself as married, the system kept asking for my spouse's income anyway, even though we weren't married during the tax year. I tried calling FSA but spent TWO HOURS on hold before getting disconnected. I ended up having to submit without my husband's info and then had to go through a whole verification process that delayed my son's aid package by 3 months. The system is BROKEN!!
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Victoria Scott
•Have you tried using Claimyr to get through to Federal Student Aid? I was in the same situation with endless hold times, but their service connected me to an agent in like 10 minutes. Their website is claimyr.com and they have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ. I actually got clear answers about my daughter's SAI calculation discrepancy without wasting an entire day on hold.
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Ezra Collins
•No but I'm definitely looking into this for next year's FAFSA! My son is a freshman now and we're already dreading doing this all over again. Anything to avoid those ridiculous hold times is worth it.
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Benjamin Johnson
This is a common misunderstanding with the FAFSA. You report your marital status as of the date you complete the form, but you report tax information from the prior year. So in your case: 1. Mark "married/remarried" for your current status 2. Only report YOUR tax information from 2023 3. Leave your spouse's information blank or enter zeros where required 4. Include a note in the comments section explaining the marriage date Keep in mind that your daughter's school's financial aid office may request additional verification or documentation since there's a discrepancy between your marital status and tax filing status. Having your marriage certificate ready will help expedite this process if needed.
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Katherine Harris
•This is super helpful, thank you! I didn't know there was a comments section where I could explain the situation. That makes me feel better about the whole thing. I'll definitely have our marriage certificate ready just in case.
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Emily Parker
I work in college financial aid, and I can tell you that this situation happens quite frequently. Here's the official guidance: - You must report your marital status as of the date you submit the FAFSA - The FAFSA only asks for 2023 tax information - Since you weren't married in 2023, only your income is reported However, be aware that your daughter's SAI (Student Aid Index) may be adjusted during verification if the financial aid office determines your new spouse's income should be considered. This is called "professional judgment" and varies by institution. I recommend reaching out to the financial aid office at her prospective schools AFTER submitting the FAFSA to explain your situation. They can note your file and be prepared for any necessary adjustments.
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Katherine Harris
•Thank you for this insider perspective! I'm relieved to hear this is common. Should I be proactive and call her prospective schools' financial aid offices before they process her FAFSA, or wait until they contact us?
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Emily Parker
•I'd recommend waiting until after you've submitted the FAFSA but before aid packages are finalized. Most schools begin processing FAFSAs in January-February for the upcoming academic year. A quick email to each school's financial aid office in late January would be perfect timing.
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Zara Perez
my son's FAFSA got completely messed up becuz of something similar. ended up losing out on almost $6000 in grants becuz they counted my new husbands income even tho we weren't married during the tax year. the whole system is a SCAM designed to give u as little money as possible!!!! good luck but prepare for the worst
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Katherine Harris
•Oh no, that's exactly what I'm worried about! Did you try to appeal the decision or get it corrected? $6000 is a huge amount to lose due to a technicality!
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Zara Perez
•we tried appealing but got nowhere. spent weeks going back and forth with the financial aid office. they just kept saying "these are the federal guidelines" blah blah blah. total nightmare.
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Madison Allen
Quick update on this topic since there's some misinformation in the thread: The 2024-2025 FAFSA specifically addresses this situation. You do mark yourself as married, but there's a specific question asking if your marital status changed after December 31, 2023. If you answer yes, you'll only need to provide your income information, not your spouse's. This is different from previous years, so some of the experiences shared here may not apply to the current FAFSA. The Department of Education made these changes specifically to address situations like yours.
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Katherine Harris
•Thank you for clarifying! I was getting confused with the conflicting advice. I'll look for that specific question about marital status changes. That makes the whole process much clearer.
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Ezra Collins
Just FYI my daughter's college required a "special circumstances" form because of our mid-year marriage last year. Be prepared to provide extra documentation like your marriage certificate and possibly your new spouse's income information even though it's not on the FAFSA. Different schools handle these situations differently, so check with each college she's applying to!
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Katherine Harris
•That's really good to know - I'll make sure to have all our documentation ready. Did completing the special circumstances form change your daughter's aid amount significantly?
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Ezra Collins
•In our case it actually increased her aid because my new husband has less income than me! But I've heard stories going both ways. Depends on your specific financial situation.
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Daniela Rossi
I'm in a very similar situation - got married in October and my son is applying for college! Reading through all these responses has been incredibly helpful. It sounds like the key is marking "married" for current status but only reporting my 2023 income since we weren't married then. One thing I'm wondering about that I haven't seen mentioned - do we need to update our FAFSA later in the year if our new spouse's income affects our tax filing for 2024? Or does that only matter for next year's FAFSA application? I'm trying to plan ahead since this whole process is so confusing! Also, @Madison Allen, thank you for mentioning that specific question about marital status changes - I'll definitely look for that when I'm filling out the form. It's reassuring to know they've addressed this exact situation in the current FAFSA.
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Melissa Lin
•Welcome to the confusing world of FAFSA with mid-year marriages! I'm new to this whole process myself, but from what I'm reading here, it sounds like you won't need to update your current FAFSA for this academic year - the 2024 income changes would only affect next year's application when you file the 2025-2026 FAFSA using your 2024 tax information. I'm dealing with something similar (just got married in November) and feeling overwhelmed by all the different advice out there. It's helpful to see that others have navigated this successfully, even if some had more complications than others. Good luck with your son's applications!
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Dylan Baskin
As someone who just went through this exact situation last month, I wanted to share my experience! I got married in September and completed my daughter's FAFSA in December. Here's what actually happened when I followed the advice in this thread: 1. I marked "married" for current status 2. Only included MY 2023 tax information (since we weren't married then) 3. Left spouse income fields blank/zero 4. Added a note in the comments explaining our marriage date The FAFSA processed without any issues, and my daughter received her Student Aid Report showing her SAI calculation based only on my income. Two of her prospective schools did request our marriage certificate during verification, but it was a simple process - just uploaded it to their portal. One tip I'd add: make sure you have digital copies of your marriage certificate ready before you start the FAFSA. Some schools want it immediately to verify the discrepancy between marital status and tax filing status. Having it ready saved us weeks of back-and-forth! @Madison Allen's point about the specific question regarding marital status changes is spot on - that question made the whole process much clearer than I expected based on horror stories I'd heard about previous years.
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Jamal Anderson
•This is exactly the kind of real-world experience I was hoping to hear! Thank you for sharing the step-by-step process and how it actually worked out. It's so reassuring to know that the FAFSA processed smoothly and that having the marriage certificate ready digitally made verification easy. I'm definitely going to scan our certificate before I start filling out the form. Did you find that most schools requested it, or just a couple? I'm trying to get a sense of whether this is routine verification or if it varies by school.
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Ethan Clark
As someone who works as a financial aid counselor, I want to clarify a few things I'm seeing in this thread that might be causing confusion: The 2024-25 FAFSA does have that specific question about marital status changes after December 31, 2023, which is exactly what you need. When you answer "yes" to that question, the system will only ask for YOUR tax information, not your spouse's. However, I want to address some concerns about verification - about 30% of FAFSAs are selected for verification regardless of circumstances, so don't panic if you're selected. The marriage certificate request is standard procedure when there's a discrepancy between marital status and tax filing status. One important thing to note: if your new spouse has significant assets or income, some schools may use "professional judgment" to adjust your daughter's aid package even though it's not required on the federal form. This isn't common, but it's worth being prepared for. My advice: complete the FAFSA as described (married status, only your 2023 income), keep that marriage certificate handy, and don't stress too much about the process. The Department of Education has really improved how they handle these situations compared to previous years!
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Dylan Campbell
•Thank you so much for this professional insight! It's really reassuring to hear from someone who works in financial aid and can confirm that the Department of Education has improved this process. The 30% verification rate is good to know - I was worried that being selected would automatically mean there was a problem with our application. One quick follow-up question: when you mention that some schools might use professional judgment for significant spouse assets/income, is there a general threshold where this becomes more likely? My new husband does have a decent income, so I want to be mentally prepared if schools decide to factor that in even though we weren't married during the tax year. Thanks again for taking the time to provide such detailed guidance - it's exactly what confused parents like us need to hear!
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Heather Armstrong
I am seeing information on this thread that conflicts with FSA. According to FSA, if your parents are married, they must both contribute on the FAFSA. There is no caveat as to when your parents were married. This is straight from the FSA handbook: "If the student’s parent is married and filed their 2023 taxes jointly with their current spouse, only one parent contributor is required. If the student’s parent is either (1) married or remarried, or (2) unmarried and living together, and did not file their 2023 taxes jointly with their current spouse or partner, the parent’s spouse or partner will be a required contributor on the student’s FAFSA form." As such, if a parent is married and only their tax information is included on the FAFSA, there's a good chance they'll be selected for verification to correct this.
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Derek Olson
•@Heather Armstrong This is really important information that contradicts what several people have said here! I m'now completely confused about what to do. The FSA handbook language you quoted seems pretty clear that both spouses need to contribute if you re'married, regardless of when the marriage occurred. But @Madison Allen and @Ethan Clark both mentioned a specific question about marital status changes after December 31, 2023 that would allow only one parent s information. Can'you clarify if there s an exception'in the handbook for marriages that occurred after the tax year? I want to make sure I m following the'actual federal requirements, not just what worked for other people who might have gotten lucky or had their situations handled incorrectly. This is exactly the kind of conflicting information that makes the FAFSA process so stressful for parents!
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Nick Kravitz
•@Heather Armstrong Thank you for bringing up the official FSA handbook language - this is exactly why I ve'been so confused! As someone new to this process, I m'really struggling with the conflicting information here. The handbook language you quoted does seem very clear that married parents must both contribute regardless of when they got married. But I m'wondering if there s'been a recent update or if the specific question about marital status changes that others mentioned creates an exception to this rule? @Madison Allen @Ethan Clark - could you help clarify this discrepancy? Are you referring to a different section of the FAFSA or handbook that addresses mid-year marriage situations specifically? I want to make sure I m not setting'myself up for problems by following advice that might not align with current federal requirements. This is exactly why the FAFSA process feels so overwhelming - even well-meaning advice from people who ve been through'it can conflict with official guidelines!
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Daryl Bright
•@Heather Armstrong This is really concerning - thank you for providing the actual FSA handbook language! I was about to follow the advice about only including my income, but now I m'worried I could get in serious trouble for not including my new husband s'information. Could you point me to the specific section of the FSA handbook where this is stated? I want to read the full context to make sure I understand the requirements correctly. It sounds like regardless of when we got married, if I m'married NOW when filling out the FAFSA, both of our incomes need to be included even though we weren t'married during the 2023 tax year? This completely changes my understanding of the process. I really appreciate you bringing up the official guidelines rather than just anecdotal experiences. Better to get it right the first time than deal with verification issues later!
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Jamal Harris
•@Heather Armstrong Thank you for providing that official language - this is exactly the kind of authoritative source we need! I m'also now concerned about the conflicting advice in this thread. As a newcomer trying to navigate this for the first time, could you help clarify one thing? The handbook language you quoted mentions parents who did "not file their 2023 taxes jointly -" in cases where parents got married after the 2023 tax year ended, they obviously couldn t'have filed jointly since they weren t'married yet. Does this mean they would fall into the category requiring both spouse contributions, or is there a separate provision for mid-year marriages? I want to make sure I m'interpreting the FSA guidelines correctly rather than relying on anecdotal experiences that might not reflect current federal requirements. Do you happen to know if there s'a specific section in the handbook that addresses timing of marriages relative to the tax year being used?
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