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Ezra Beard

FAFSA child support reporting: Actual amount received vs court-ordered amount?

I'm filling out the 2025-2026 FAFSA for my daughter and I'm stuck on the child support question. My ex is supposed to pay $875/month according to our court agreement, but I only received about $5,200 total last year (he's always "between jobs"). Do I report what I actually received or what I was supposed to get according to the court order? I don't want to get flagged for verification or look like I'm hiding income. Has anyone dealt with this before?

You should report only the actual amount of child support that you received during the tax year. The FAFSA is looking for the real dollar amount that came into your household, not what was ordered by the court. So in your case, you would report the $5,200 you actually received, not the $10,500 ($875 x 12) that was ordered. This is considered untaxed income on the FAFSA.

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Ezra Beard

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Thank you! That makes sense. I was worried about getting in trouble if they somehow cross-referenced with the court records. Do you know if they ever verify the child support amounts with the state child support enforcement agency?

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i got confused about this too last year! def put what u actually got not what ur supposed to get. my ex is trash with payments too

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Ezra Beard

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Thanks for sharing your experience! Makes me feel better knowing I'm not the only one dealing with inconsistent payments.

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Aria Khan

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Make sure you're keeping good records of what you received. My friend got selected for verification and had to provide bank statements showing the deposits from her ex. So accurate reporting is important!

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Ezra Beard

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Oh that's good to know! I do have a separate account where the support goes in, so I can pull those statements if needed. Thanks for the heads up!

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Everett Tutum

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The FAFSA specifically asks for \

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Ezra Beard

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I didn't realize that! I do have a younger son too, and I get about the same inconsistent payments for him. So I should add both amounts together then?

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Everett Tutum

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Yes, exactly! Add up all child support received for all children in your household. And remember, only count what you actually received, not what was ordered by the court.

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Sunny Wang

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THIS SYSTEM IS SO FRUSTRATING!!! My ex owes me over $16,000 in back child support but I can't count ANY of that on FAFSA even though it's legally owed to me! Meanwhile I'm struggling to pay bills and my daughter might not get enough aid because they don't consider the MISSING support that should be in our household income. The system punishes the parent who actually takes care of the kids!!!!

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same boat here... 3 years trying to get enforcement to do ANYTHING about my ex's missed payments. sucks that fafsa doesn't care about what we're owed 😞

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Sunny Wang

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Exactly! And then our kids get less financial aid because we're working extra jobs to make up for the missing child support. So unfair.

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I experienced this exact thing when filling out FAFSA for my son. Was getting sporadic payments that were way less than the court order. When I called the Federal Student Aid hotline to ask, they told me to only report what was actually received.\n\nBut I kept getting disconnected and was on hold for 2+ hours when trying to get answers about how this would affect my son's aid calculation. I finally used Claimyr (claimyr.com) to get through to an actual human at FSA who confirmed I was reporting correctly. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ. Saved me so much stress since my son's aid package was time-sensitive.

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Ezra Beard

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Thanks for the resource! I've been trying to call FSA about a couple different questions actually, and it's been impossible to get through. I'll check out that service if I can't get answers online.

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Everett Tutum

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One more important thing to understand: Child support is reported on the FAFSA as untaxed income, but it doesn't impact your AGI (Adjusted Gross Income) because it's not taxable. So it affects the FAFSA calculation but not your tax return. I've seen people get confused about this distinction when reporting.

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wait thats actually super helpful! i always wondered why it didnt show up on my tax forms but was on the fafsa. makes sense now!

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my daughters dad hasnt paid anything in 2 yrs so i put $0 and got flagged for verification last time... had to get a letter from child support enforcement office confirming i got nothing. what a pain 🙄

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Ezra Beard

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Ugh, that sounds like a hassle! I hope I don't get flagged, but at least I'll know what documentation to get if I do. Thanks for sharing.

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Omar Farouk

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I'm new to this whole FAFSA process and this thread has been incredibly helpful! My situation is similar - my ex is supposed to pay $650/month but only sent about $3,800 last year. I was so confused about what to report, but now I understand I should only put the actual amount received. One quick question though - if I received some payments late (like December 2023 payment came in January 2024), should I count that based on when it was due or when I actually got it in my account?

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Emma Davis

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Welcome to the FAFSA journey! For your question about timing - you should report the child support based on when you actually received it in your account, not when it was due. So that December 2023 payment that came in January 2024 would count toward your 2024 tax year, not 2023. The FAFSA follows the same calendar year as your tax return, so it's all about actual receipt dates. This is similar to how other income works - if your paycheck is dated December 31st but doesn't hit your account until January 2nd, it counts as income for the new year.

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Amara Nnamani

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I went through this same confusion last year! The key thing to remember is that the FAFSA wants to know your actual financial situation, not what it should have been on paper. So definitely report only what you actually received ($5,200). I had a similar gap between what was ordered ($900/month) and what I actually got (about $6,400 for the year). When I spoke with my daughter's financial aid office, they confirmed this was the right approach. They said the FAFSA is designed to reflect your real household income, and unfortunately inconsistent child support payments are more common than people realize. Just keep good records in case you get selected for verification - I saved all my bank statements showing the actual deposits.

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Jasmine Quinn

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This is so reassuring to hear from someone who went through the same thing! I was really worried I might be doing something wrong by not reporting the full court-ordered amount. It's unfortunate that so many of us are dealing with inconsistent payments, but it helps to know the FAFSA process accounts for this reality. I'll definitely keep all my bank records organized just in case. Thanks for sharing your experience - it gives me confidence I'm on the right track with my daughter's application!

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Olivia Garcia

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Just wanted to add my experience to this helpful thread! I dealt with a similar situation last year where my ex was supposed to pay $725/month but I only received about $4,300 total. I reported the actual amount received and everything went smoothly - no verification issues. One thing that helped me was creating a simple spreadsheet tracking each payment with the date and amount, which made it easy to calculate the annual total. Also, if you use a child support payment app like SupportPay or similar, those can generate reports that show exactly what you received during the tax year. Good luck with your daughter's FAFSA!

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Yara Sayegh

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Thanks for sharing that tip about the spreadsheet - that's really smart! I've been keeping track in a pretty disorganized way, so creating a proper spreadsheet with dates and amounts sounds like it would make things much clearer. I haven't heard of SupportPay before, but I'll definitely look into payment tracking apps since my ex sends payments through different methods (sometimes Venmo, sometimes checks). Having an organized report would probably save me a lot of time if I do get selected for verification. Really appreciate all the practical advice from everyone who's been through this process!

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Kai Rivera

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I'm going through this exact same situation right now! My ex is supposed to pay $800/month but I've only received about $4,500 this past year due to his "job changes" (sound familiar?). Reading through everyone's responses has been so helpful - I was definitely overthinking this and worried about reporting the wrong amount. It's frustrating that we have to deal with unreliable payments AND navigate the FAFSA confusion on top of it, but I feel much more confident now about just reporting what I actually received. Thanks to everyone who shared their experiences - it's reassuring to know I'm not alone in this situation and that the FAFSA process does account for our reality of inconsistent support payments!

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Diego Ramirez

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I totally understand that frustration! It's like we're being penalized twice - once by the inconsistent payments and then again by having to figure out how to handle it on the FAFSA. I'm glad this thread helped clarify things for you too. The "job changes" excuse sounds all too familiar - seems like there's always some reason why they can't make the full payments. At least now we know we're doing it right by reporting what we actually received. Wishing you and your child the best with the financial aid process!

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Omar Zaki

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As someone who's been through this process multiple times with two kids, I can confirm what everyone else is saying - definitely report only the actual amount you received ($5,200). The FAFSA instructions are clear that child support should reflect what actually came into your household, not court-ordered amounts. I've dealt with similar inconsistent payments over the years and have never had issues reporting the actual received amounts. One tip: if you have direct deposits, your bank can usually provide a year-end summary of deposits from your ex's account, which makes the calculation super easy. Also, don't stress too much about verification - if you get selected, just provide your bank statements showing the actual deposits. The financial aid offices understand that many parents struggle with consistent child support payments, so you're not alone in this situation!

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Luca Bianchi

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That's such a helpful tip about getting the year-end deposit summary from the bank! I never thought to ask for that - it would definitely make things easier than going through months of statements manually. It's also reassuring to hear from someone who's been through this process multiple times that reporting actual amounts is the way to go. I really appreciate everyone in this thread sharing their experiences - it's made what seemed like a confusing situation much clearer. The support and practical advice from this community has been amazing!

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