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Oliver Schulz

FAFSA: Can universities offer additional aid when siblings attend same school?

My twins just got accepted to their dream university (YAY!) but our FAFSA showed we don't qualify for any federal aid. We're paying for 6 kids total including the twins, but the SAI formula doesn't seem to account for our actual financial reality. Someone at my husband's office mentioned we should directly appeal to the university's financial aid office for additional institutional scholarships since we'll have multiple kids attending simultaneously. Has anyone successfully negotiated for more money in this situation? What approach worked? Did you need to provide additional documentation beyond the FAFSA? Really nervous about covering double tuition without going completely broke.

Yes! This is absolutely something you should do! Universities often have specific scholarship programs for families with multiple kids attending at the same time. These are typically called "sibling discounts" or "family grants" and aren't part of federal aid, so they won't show up on your FAFSA results. I've worked in higher education for years, and here's what I recommend: 1. Contact the financial aid office AND the admissions department (sometimes they have separate scholarship pools) 2. Specifically mention that you have twins attending simultaneously 3. Ask if they have institutional scholarships for families with multiple enrolled students 4. Be prepared to provide documentation proving both students are from the same household Many schools offer 10-25% tuition reduction for the second student. Worth asking!

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Oliver Schulz

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Thank you so much! This gives me hope. Do you think I should call or email first? And should we wait until they've officially committed to the school before asking?

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Javier Cruz

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we did this last yr!! got extra $4k per kid when financial aid office realized we had 3 in college same time. but u have to ASK they wont just give it to u

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Oliver Schulz

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That's amazing! Did you just call them up or did you have to write a formal appeal letter? I'm trying to figure out the best approach.

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Emma Wilson

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The system is completely RIGGED against families with multiple children! We have 4 kids, 3 in college right now, and our FAFSA EFC was still ridiculously high. The formula basically assumes you can just multiply your contribution infinitely! When I called Student Aid about this, they basically said "too bad." The whole system needs to be torn down and rebuilt from scratch. The new SAI calculation is even WORSE for larger families like ours. 😡

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Malik Thomas

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i feel u! my parents make decent $ on paper but with 5 kids they still cant afford tuition. SAI makes no sense

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NeonNebula

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You absolutely need to contact the university directly. FAFSA/SAI calculations are just federal guidelines - individual schools have significant discretion for their institutional aid packages. Here's what worked for my family: 1. Schedule an in-person meeting with a financial aid counselor (much more effective than email) 2. Bring documentation of your total household size and expenses 3. Create a simple spreadsheet showing what percentage of income would go to tuition for both children 4. Specifically ask about sibling discounts, legacy scholarships, and special circumstance adjustments 5. If initially denied, request a formal financial aid appeal process Many universities have specific policies for multiple children from the same family. In our case, we received a 15% reduction for our second child after the appeal.

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Javier Cruz

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thx for the tip! calling financial aid is literally the WORST

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Oliver Schulz

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Oh this is helpful! I've been trying the university's main financial aid line and keep getting bounced around. I'll check this out - we really need to talk to a real person who can help with our specific situation.

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Ravi Malhotra

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Just wondering... did u have the kids apply to different schools too? Sometimes u can use competing offers to get more money. My son got way more scholarship $ when I showed his first choice what his second choice offered him lol

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Oliver Schulz

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They did apply to a few others, but this one is really their top choice because of the specific program. I hadn't thought about using the other offers as leverage - that's smart!

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To answer your question about timing - I would recommend contacting the financial aid office AFTER your children have been accepted but BEFORE they formally commit/deposit. This gives you some negotiating room before you're fully committed. And definitely start with a phone call to get the process going, then follow up with a formal email or letter documenting your specific situation with the 6 kids and multiple students attending simultaneously. Universities deal with these special circumstances all the time, but they need families to actively advocate for themselves.

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Malik Thomas

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my cousin got a special scholarship cuz her brother was already there. they called it a legacy family grant or something. wasn't advertised anywhere on their website had to ask for it

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Oliver Schulz

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UPDATE: Thank you all SO MUCH for the advice! I called the university's financial aid office this morning and was able to speak with an advisor. She confirmed they do have a sibling discount program that reduces tuition by 20% for the second student when siblings attend simultaneously! This wasn't mentioned anywhere in their initial materials. We need to submit a special form along with our acceptance letters. This will save us about $12,000 per year!! I'm so glad I asked - this makes a huge difference for our family.

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NeonNebula

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Excellent news! This is exactly why it's so important to advocate for yourself in the financial aid process. Most universities have these policies but don't advertise them prominently. Make sure to get that agreement in writing for all four years so the discount continues throughout their enrollment. Congratulations!

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Emma Wilson

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That's great but STILL ridiculous they hide these programs instead of making them clearly available to all families. Why should we have to beg for affordable education?! 🙄

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Paolo Moretti

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Wow, this is such encouraging news! As someone new to navigating college financial aid, I'm amazed at how many "hidden" opportunities exist that aren't clearly advertised. Your success story gives me hope for my own situation - I have twins who will be starting college next year and I had no idea sibling discounts were even a thing. Thank you for sharing the update and for everyone's helpful advice in this thread. I'm definitely going to be more proactive about calling financial aid offices directly rather than just relying on what's posted online. Sometimes you really do have to ask the right questions to get the help you need!

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