Will colleges adjust scholarship displacement policies with new FAFSA siblings penalty?
With the new FAFSA eliminating the sibling discount, I'm seriously worried about our family finances. We have twins heading to college next fall, and my daughter has worked SO hard to earn about $8,000 in outside scholarships. But I've heard horror stories about colleges just reducing their institutional aid dollar-for-dollar when students bring in outside scholarships! This seems especially unfair now that the FAFSA doesn't even account for multiple kids in college anymore. Has anyone successfully negotiated with their college to keep their institutional aid intact despite outside scholarships? Is this something worth fighting for with financial aid offices? We're definitely middle-income ($95k household) but with two kids in college at once, we're going to be stretched incredibly thin.
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Jacob Lee
This is absolutely something you should advocate for! I work in college advising, and many schools have different policies on scholarship displacement. Some will reduce loans first (best case), others reduce work-study, and the worst will reduce their institutional grants. With the FAFSA sibling penalty, many families are getting hit hard, so schools are actually becoming MORE flexible, not less. When you get your aid packages, immediately contact the financial aid office and specifically ask about their "outside scholarship policy" and request that they reduce loans first, not grants. Have your student make this request directly - it's often more effective coming from them.
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Ava Harris
•Thank you for this advice! Should we be contacting schools about this now, before applications are even submitted? Or wait until we get financial aid packages? I'm so nervous about the timing of everything.
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Emily Thompson
my son got hit with this last year. college took away 6k in grants when he got a 5k rotary scholarship. TOTAL BS!!!! they say its "over awarding" but its really just them being CHEAP
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Sophie Hernandez
•Was that before or after the new FAFSA changes though? I'm hearing some schools might be changing their policies because of how the new formula is impacting middle-income families with multiple children.
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Daniela Rossi
I've been through this process with three kids (last one graduating this year). Here's what you need to know about scholarship displacement: 1. Every college has a different policy - some will protect all their institutional aid, others will reduce it dollar-for-dollar 2. Most colleges first apply outside scholarships to your "unmet need" (if any exists in your package) 3. After that, better schools will reduce loans and work-study before touching grants 4. With the new FAFSA not adjusting for siblings, I've seen colleges being MORE flexible about displacement, not less Key advice: Have your daughter contact each financial aid office directly to ask about their "outside scholarship policy" in writing. Specifically request that they protect their institutional grants because of the FAFSA sibling penalty affecting your family. Be polite but persistent. Document everything. Some schools have discretionary funds specifically for these situations, but you need to ask directly.
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Emily Thompson
•this is good advice but some schools just DONT CARE. they take $ away no matter what u say
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Ryan Kim
Anyone else having trouble even getting through to financial aid offices to ask these questions? I've been trying to call our top choice school for two weeks and keep getting voicemail. So frustrating!
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Zoe Walker
•I had the same problem last semester! After weeks of trying, I used Claimyr.com to get through to my son's school's financial aid office. It basically holds your place in line and calls you when there's a real person on the line. Saved me hours of hold time. They have a video that shows how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ. This was during peak FAFSA season when it was impossible to get through otherwise.
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Elijah Brown
Financial aid director here. While I can't speak for all institutions, many colleges ARE adjusting policies due to the FAFSA changes. The removal of the sibling discount has been problematic for many families, and financial aid offices are aware of this. Here's what I recommend: 1. Ask specifically about the school's "outside scholarship policy" in writing 2. Request an adjustment based on your multiple children in college 3. Apply for a "professional judgment" review, specifically citing the FAFSA changes Some institutions are more flexible than others, but most have some discretion. The most successful families are those who provide clear documentation and make specific requests. And yes, many schools prioritize protecting institutional aid for students who have shown initiative by earning outside scholarships. But policies vary widely, so you must ask each school directly.
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Ava Harris
•Thank you for this insider perspective! The "professional judgment" review is something I hadn't heard about. Is there specific language we should use when requesting this? And should we wait until after we receive initial aid packages?
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Sophie Hernandez
Has anyone had success with any specific colleges keeping their institutional aid intact? I'd love to know which schools have more generous policies on this. We're looking at several private colleges in the Northeast, and this could really impact our decision.
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Daniela Rossi
•In my experience, smaller private liberal arts colleges tend to be more flexible with their scholarship displacement policies than large state schools. My daughter is at Wesleyan and they only reduce loans, never grants, when outside scholarships come in. My son's state university reduced grants first, which was frustrating. But definitely ask each school - policies can change year to year.
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Maria Gonzalez
i think this is all so unfair!!! my kid studied sooo hard and got 12k in scholarships and then our EFC went up because of it???? like punishing kids for doing well. the whole system is rigged against middle class families who make too much for pell grants but not enough to actually pay these crazy tuition bills
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Elijah Brown
•Just to clarify, outside scholarships shouldn't affect your EFC/SAI calculation at all. They can affect how your aid package is structured, but that's a different issue than your FAFSA-calculated contribution. If your EFC actually increased, there might be a different reason - perhaps income changes or other financial factors.
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Jacob Lee
Update from my advising experience this year: schools are DEFINITELY becoming more accommodating about outside scholarships. Several universities have announced they're implementing a "no loan" policy for families under certain income thresholds, and many are specifically addressing the sibling penalty in their institutional methodology. The landscape is changing rapidly in response to the FAFSA changes. Key tip: when you receive your financial aid packages, compare them side by side with your daughter's outside scholarships listed. Then email each financial aid office with a specific proposal for how you'd like them to integrate the scholarships. Be direct but courteous. Many will work with you if you're specific about what you're asking for.
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Ava Harris
•This is really encouraging! Thank you for sharing this update. I'm starting to feel a bit more hopeful about the process. We'll definitely make specific requests when the time comes.
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