Confused about SAI score - is this really what I'm expected to pay for college?
Just got my SAI score after submitting my FAFSA and I'm totally confused. My SAI came back as $14,872 but there's absolutely NO WAY my family can afford to pay that much per year!!! I thought financial aid was supposed to HELP students? My parents make about $68k combined but we have a lot of debt and my mom's medical bills are insane. Does the SAI number mean we're literally expected to pay that exact amount out of pocket?? Or is there more to this calculation that I'm missing? My dream school costs $32k per year so if we really have to pay almost $15k, I might as well give up now... 😭
37 comments


Muhammad Hobbs
The SAI (Student Aid Index) isn't necessarily the exact amount you'll pay out of pocket. It's a number colleges use to determine your financial need. Your actual cost will depend on each school's total cost of attendance minus any grants, scholarships, and other aid you receive. Many schools will work with your family's specific situation, especially with medical expenses. Don't give up hope yet!
0 coins
Sasha Reese
•So if my school costs $32k and my SAI is $14,872, does that mean I should expect around $17k in aid? That still seems like a lot for us to cover... Do most people actually pay their full SAI amount?
0 coins
Noland Curtis
SAI is NOT what u pay!!!! Schools use it diferently. My SAI was $22k but i only paid like $8k after scholarships + grants. apply EVERYWHERE and compare financial aid packages!!
0 coins
Sasha Reese
•That's a huge difference! Did you have to negotiate with the schools or did they just offer that much in aid automatically? I'm worried because my parents are terrible at this kind of stuff and won't know how to ask for more money.
0 coins
Diez Ellis
Your SAI (Student Aid Index) is simply a number that helps schools determine your financial need. The calculation to determine what aid you'll receive typically works like this: Cost of Attendance (COA) - Student Aid Index (SAI) = Financial Need Your financial need is what institutions use to award need-based aid like Pell Grants, work-study, and subsidized loans. However, each school has different resources and approaches to meeting that need. Some schools might offer grants to cover most of your need, while others might offer more loans. Also, if your family has unusual circumstances like high medical expenses, you should absolutely file a special circumstances appeal with each financial aid office. Those medical bills aren't fully captured in the standard FAFSA formula.
0 coins
Sasha Reese
•Thank you for explaining it so clearly! This makes me feel a little better. So I should wait to see what each school actually offers before panicking? And I'll definitely look into the special circumstances appeal - do I need to gather all my mom's medical bills for that?
0 coins
Vanessa Figueroa
When i got my SAI last year it was way higher than we could afford too... college is just expensive now no matter what anyone says about "financial aid"... ended up going to community college instead
0 coins
Sasha Reese
•Community college is my backup plan, but I really had my heart set on this school. Did you find a way to transfer to a 4-year after community college that wasn't as expensive?
0 coins
Abby Marshall
The whole FAFSA system is designed to extract the maximum possible payment from families. Your SAI is basically what the government thinks you can pay based on some ridiculous formula created decades ago that doesn't account for real life expenses. They expect families to drain savings, take out equity loans on homes, max credit cards, etc. The system is fundamentally broken. That said, your $14,872 SAI doesn't mean every school will charge you that. Some schools with good endowments might go well below your SAI. But state schools and less-wealthy private colleges will probably expect close to that amount (or more through loans).
0 coins
Sasha Reese
•That's depressing but helpful to know. I'll try to stay positive but prepare for the worst. Maybe I should be looking at schools with better reputations for financial aid too.
0 coins
Sadie Benitez
Has anyone else been trying to call Federal Student Aid to ask questions about their SAI calculation? I've been trying for days and can't get through. So frustrating!
0 coins
Drew Hathaway
•I was in the same boat last month - spent hours on hold and kept getting disconnected. Then I found this service called Claimyr that got me through to an actual person at FSA in under 30 minutes. It basically holds your place in line and calls you when an agent is available. Saved me so much frustration! Their site is claimyr.com and they have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ The agent I spoke with was actually super helpful in explaining how medical expenses can be factored into my aid calculation through the special circumstances process.
0 coins
Muhammad Hobbs
One important thing to remember is that your SAI is just one part of the equation. Every school has their own method for awarding institutional aid (scholarships and grants directly from the college). For example, if your dream school costs $32k and your SAI is $14,872: - Federal calculation says your need is $17,128 - You might get a Pell Grant if you qualify (up to $7,395 for 2025-2026) - The school might offer institutional grants or scholarships - You might qualify for state grants - Work-study could provide another $1,500-3,000 After all these sources of aid, your actual out-of-pocket cost could be much lower than your SAI. But you won't know until you receive your financial aid award letters from each school.
0 coins
Sasha Reese
•This breakdown is so helpful! I didn't realize there were so many different sources of aid. Do you know when schools typically send out their award letters? I submitted my FAFSA in October.
0 coins
Diez Ellis
To answer your question about medical expenses for a special circumstances appeal - yes, you should gather documentation. Typically you'll need: 1. A detailed letter explaining the situation 2. Copies of major medical bills 3. Documentation of ongoing medical expenses 4. Insurance statements showing what wasn't covered 5. Any documentation of reduced work hours/income due to medical issues Each school handles these appeals differently, but having thorough documentation ready will help. Once you receive your financial aid offers, contact each school's financial aid office about their special circumstances process.
0 coins
Sasha Reese
•Thank you! I'll start collecting these documents now so we're ready. My mom's bills are from a chronic condition so we have tons of paperwork from the last few years. Hopefully that helps our case.
0 coins
Noland Curtis
also apply for like a MILLION outside scholarships!!! my freind got her SAI down by getting random scholarships from her mom's work, local businesses, even got $2500 from an essay contest thing. google "scholarships for [your major/interests/background]" and apply to EVERYTHING
0 coins
Sasha Reese
•That's a great idea! I've been so focused on the FAFSA that I haven't really looked into other scholarships. I'll start researching tonight. Thank you!
0 coins
Vanessa Figueroa
my brother's SAI was way to high for are family 2 and he ended up having to take out loads of loans... sucks but thats just how it is sometimes
0 coins
Alexander Evans
Hey Sasha! I just went through this same confusion last year and I totally get how overwhelming it feels. Your SAI isn't a bill - it's more like a starting point for schools to figure out your aid package. I had a similar SAI ($16k) with parents making around $70k, and I was panicking too. But here's what actually happened: my state school ended up costing me only $9k out of pocket after grants and scholarships, and a private school I applied to brought it down to $11k with their institutional aid. The key is applying to multiple schools and comparing their actual offers, not just looking at the SAI number. Also, definitely pursue that special circumstances appeal for your mom's medical bills - it made a $3k difference in my aid package. Don't give up on your dream school yet! Wait to see what they actually offer before making any decisions.
0 coins
Adrian Connor
•Thank you so much Alexander! Your story gives me hope - it's really reassuring to hear from someone who was in a similar situation. $9k-$11k is still a lot but way more manageable than what I was imagining. I'm definitely going to wait for all the award letters before making any decisions. Did you have to do anything special to get better offers, or did the schools just automatically give you good aid packages? Also, do you have any tips for writing the special circumstances appeal letter?
0 coins
TommyKapitz
@Sasha, I know this feels overwhelming right now, but try not to panic! Your SAI is definitely not what you'll actually pay. I'm a financial aid counselor and I see this confusion all the time. Here's the reality: schools use your SAI to calculate need, but what you actually pay depends on each school's financial aid policies and available funds. With your family income of $68k and high medical expenses, you'll likely qualify for significant need-based aid. Make sure to apply to a mix of schools - some with generous aid reputations and some safety schools. State schools often have good aid for in-state students, and some private schools have excellent need-based grant programs. Most importantly, when you get your aid packages, don't just accept the first offer - you can appeal and negotiate, especially with documentation of those medical expenses. I've seen students with similar profiles end up paying $5k-8k out of pocket at schools that cost $30k+. Keep your chin up!
0 coins
Emma Morales
•Thank you so much TommyKapitz! As someone who works in financial aid, your perspective is really valuable and reassuring. I'm feeling a lot more hopeful after reading everyone's responses today. I definitely plan to apply to a good mix of schools now, including some state options I hadn't seriously considered before. Can I ask - when you mention appealing and negotiating aid packages, is there a specific time frame I should do that in? And are there any particular ways to approach schools that tend to work better than others? I want to make sure I don't mess up any opportunities by not knowing the right process.
0 coins
Jeremiah Brown
Hey Sasha! I totally understand your panic - I went through the exact same thing two years ago when my SAI came back higher than what my family could realistically afford. Here's what I wish someone had told me then: your SAI is NOT your final bill! It's just a number that helps schools calculate how much aid to offer you. My situation was similar - family income around $65k, SAI of $12,500, and I was freaking out because my target schools cost $28k-35k. But here's what actually happened: after all the grants, scholarships, and aid packages, I ended up paying between $6k-10k out of pocket at different schools. The variation was huge! A few practical tips: 1) Apply to schools known for good financial aid (look up their "net price calculators" online), 2) Don't forget about state schools - they often have great aid for residents, 3) Cast a wide net with applications so you have options to compare, and 4) DEFINITELY file that special circumstances appeal for your mom's medical bills. Most schools send award letters between March-May, so you'll know your real costs soon. Don't give up on your dream school yet - wait to see what they offer! The difference between schools can be thousands of dollars in aid.
0 coins
Sean Kelly
•Jeremiah, thank you so much for sharing your experience! It's incredibly helpful to hear from someone who went through this exact situation. Your outcome gives me so much hope - going from a $12,500 SAI to only paying $6k-10k is amazing! I'm definitely going to look up those net price calculators you mentioned for all the schools I'm considering. Can I ask which types of schools ended up giving you the best aid packages? Were private schools more generous than state schools, or was it really just school-specific? Also, how long did the special circumstances appeal process take? I want to make sure I give myself enough time if I need to gather more documentation.
0 coins
Ava Hernandez
Hey Sasha! I completely understand your panic - I had the exact same reaction when I first saw my SAI last year. It felt like this impossibly high number that would crush my college dreams. But here's the thing that nobody explains clearly: your SAI is NOT what you'll actually pay out of pocket! Think of it more like this - if your dream school costs $32k and your SAI is $14,872, that means you have a "financial need" of about $17k. Schools will try to meet that need through grants, scholarships, work-study, and loans. The actual amount YOU pay depends entirely on each school's financial aid policies. I ended up at a school that costs $29k per year, my SAI was $13,500, but I only pay about $7k out of pocket after all aid. The rest came from federal grants, state grants, and the school's own scholarship money. Your family's medical expenses are exactly the kind of thing special circumstances appeals are for - that's not fully captured in the standard FAFSA formula. Start gathering those medical bills now because you'll want to submit appeals to every school that accepts you. Don't give up on your dreams yet! Wait to see what the schools actually offer before making any decisions. You might be pleasantly surprised.
0 coins
Jordan Walker
•Ava, thank you so much for breaking this down! Your example of only paying $7k out of a $29k school cost is exactly what I needed to hear. I've been spiraling thinking my SAI was some kind of minimum payment, but hearing all these real examples from people who've been through this is making me feel so much more optimistic. I'm definitely going to start organizing all of my mom's medical documentation this weekend - we have bills going back years from her chronic condition, so hopefully that will make a strong case for the special circumstances appeal. It's such a relief to know there are people who understand how scary and confusing this whole process is. I'm feeling much more hopeful about my college options now!
0 coins
Carmen Lopez
Hey Sasha! I completely understand your panic about the SAI - I had the exact same reaction when I got mine. Your $14,872 SAI definitely does NOT mean you'll pay that much out of pocket! Here's what helped me understand it better: your SAI is like a starting point that schools use to calculate how much aid you need. So if your dream school costs $32k and your SAI is $14,872, your "financial need" is about $17k. Schools then try to meet that need with grants, scholarships, work-study, and sometimes loans. The actual amount you pay varies HUGELY between schools. Some might give you enough grants to bring your cost down to $8k, others might only get it down to $12k. That's why applying to multiple schools and comparing their actual aid offers is so important. With your family income of $68k and those medical bills, you should qualify for good need-based aid. Plus, those medical expenses are perfect for a special circumstances appeal - definitely pursue that at every school! The standard FAFSA formula doesn't capture unusual medical costs very well. Don't give up on your dreams yet - wait to see what schools actually offer before making any decisions. You might be surprised at how affordable some options become!
0 coins
CosmicCowboy
•Carmen, this is such a helpful explanation! I'm starting to realize that I was completely misunderstanding what the SAI actually means. Everyone's stories about their actual out-of-pocket costs being so much lower than their SAI are really encouraging. I feel like I can breathe again knowing this isn't some fixed amount I have to pay! I'm definitely going to apply to a bunch of different schools now to see what kind of aid packages they offer. Quick question - when you did your special circumstances appeal for medical expenses, did you submit it to all the schools you applied to, or just your top choices? I'm wondering if it's worth doing the paperwork for every single school or if I should focus on the ones I'm most interested in attending.
0 coins
Lim Wong
Hey Sasha! I can totally relate to your panic - when I first saw my SAI number, I thought it was game over for my college dreams too. But here's the thing everyone's trying to tell you that I wish someone had explained to me more clearly: your SAI is basically just a number that helps determine how much aid you QUALIFY for, not what you'll actually pay. Think of it this way - colleges look at their total cost, subtract your SAI, and that gap is what they try to fill with aid. So your $32k school minus your $14,872 SAI equals about $17k in potential aid. Different schools will fill that gap differently - some might give you $15k in grants (meaning you pay about $17k total), others might give you $12k in grants plus work-study and loans. The key is that most families don't actually end up paying their full SAI amount. With your parents' income and those medical bills, you're likely looking at much less out of pocket than you think. I'd definitely recommend running the net price calculators on each school's website - they'll give you a more realistic estimate of what you might actually pay. And yes, absolutely pursue that special circumstances appeal! Medical debt is exactly what those are designed for. Don't give up hope yet - wait to see what your actual aid offers look like!
0 coins
Keisha Taylor
•Lim, thank you so much for explaining this in such a clear way! The way you broke down the math - $32k school cost minus $14,872 SAI equals potential aid - finally makes it click for me. I've been thinking about this completely backwards! I'm definitely going to spend time this weekend running those net price calculators for all the schools I'm interested in. It sounds like they'll give me a much more realistic picture of what I might actually end up paying. Reading everyone's responses today has been such a relief - I went from feeling completely hopeless to actually being excited to see what my aid packages will look like. I never expected to get this much helpful advice and encouragement from posting here. Thank you all so much for taking the time to share your experiences and calm down a very stressed high school senior! 😊
0 coins
Miguel Alvarez
Hey Sasha! I know you're getting tons of great advice here, but I wanted to add one more perspective that might help ease your worries. I'm a parent who went through this process with my daughter last year, and I remember feeling exactly the same way when we saw her SAI. Here's what I learned: the FAFSA is just the beginning, not the end. Your $14,872 SAI with a $68k family income actually puts you in a good position for need-based aid, especially with those medical expenses. My daughter's SAI was similar, and she ended up with aid packages ranging from schools wanting $6k out of pocket to others wanting $13k - huge variation! A few parent tips: 1) Start organizing those medical bills NOW - we had to scramble to find everything, 2) Don't be afraid to call financial aid offices with questions - they're usually very helpful, 3) Consider having your parents fill out the CSS Profile if any schools require it (captures more financial nuances), and 4) Apply for EVERYTHING - merit scholarships, local scholarships, employer scholarships. The most important thing is to stay positive and keep your options open. The number of success stories in this thread should tell you that your situation is far from hopeless. You've got this! 💪
0 coins
Kingston Bellamy
•Miguel, thank you so much for the parent perspective! It's really helpful to hear from someone who went through this from the other side. The range of $6k to $13k out of pocket that your daughter experienced gives me such hope - that's exactly the kind of variation everyone's been talking about. I'm definitely going to start getting organized with those medical bills this weekend, and I'll look into whether any of my schools require the CSS Profile too. It's so reassuring to know that financial aid offices are helpful when you call - I was worried they'd just brush off questions. Reading all these success stories today has completely changed my outlook on this whole situation. I went from thinking college was impossible to actually feeling excited about my options again. Thank you for taking the time to share your experience and encouragement! 😊
0 coins
Lucas Notre-Dame
Hey Sasha! I just wanted to jump in and say that reading through all these responses has been so encouraging - it's clear you've gotten amazing advice from people who really understand what you're going through! As someone who also panicked about my SAI last year, I can tell you that the anxiety you're feeling right now is totally normal, but it's also premature. One thing I'd add to all the great advice here is to make sure you're looking at schools' "average net price" data when researching - this shows what families in different income brackets actually end up paying after aid, not the sticker price. For families making $60-75k like yours, many schools end up costing way less than you'd expect. Also, don't forget about your state's grant programs! Depending on where you live, there might be additional state aid available that works on top of federal aid. Some states have really generous programs for families in your income range. You're going to be amazed at how different your actual aid offers are from what you're imagining right now. Hang in there - the hardest part is this waiting period before you know what schools will actually offer you! 🤞
0 coins
Jackie Martinez
•Lucas, thank you so much for mentioning the state grant programs - I honestly hadn't even thought about that! I'll definitely research what's available in my state. It's incredible how many different sources of aid there are that I didn't know about. Looking up the "average net price" data is a great tip too - I want to get the most realistic picture possible of what I might actually pay at different schools. Reading through everyone's responses today has been such an emotional rollercoaster in the best way - I went from complete panic to feeling genuinely hopeful about my future. It's amazing how much perspective and encouragement you can get from people who've actually been through this process. I feel like I have a real game plan now instead of just freaking out about a number I didn't understand. Thank you all for being so generous with your time and advice! This community is incredible! ❤️
0 coins
Charlotte White
Hey Sasha! I can totally understand your panic - that SAI number is SO misleading when you first see it! I went through the exact same thing two years ago and thought my college dreams were over. But here's the reality: your SAI is NOT your bill - it's just a starting point for schools to calculate your aid. With your family's income of $68k and those medical expenses, you're actually in a really good position for need-based aid. I had a similar situation (SAI of $16k, parents making $72k) and ended up paying only $8,500 out of pocket at a school that costs $31k per year after all grants and aid kicked in. The key is applying to multiple schools because their aid offers will vary wildly. Some gave me packages where I'd pay $12k, others brought it down to $6k. Also, those medical bills are PERFECT for special circumstances appeals - that's exactly what they're designed for and can make a huge difference in your final aid package. Don't give up on your dream school yet! Wait to see what they actually offer before making any decisions. Run their net price calculator online for a more realistic estimate than your SAI. You've got this! 💪
0 coins
Owen Jenkins
•Charlotte, thank you so much for sharing your experience! Your story is so similar to mine that it gives me incredible hope - going from a $16k SAI to only paying $8,500 out of pocket is exactly the kind of outcome I'm praying for. It's such a relief to hear from someone who had almost identical circumstances and came out with such a great result. I'm definitely going to apply to a bunch of different schools now to compare aid packages like you suggested. The fact that your offers ranged from $6k to $12k really shows how much school choice matters! I'm feeling so much more confident about pursuing that special circumstances appeal for my mom's medical bills too. Everyone's success stories today have completely changed my perspective - I went from thinking college was financially impossible to actually being excited to see what opportunities open up. Thank you for taking the time to encourage a stressed senior! 😊
0 coins