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This thread is a lifesaver! I'm dealing with this exact same issue right now with my son's FAFSA. We've been trying to submit for two days and couldn't figure out why the system kept asking for a parent signature when we were already logged in. I had no idea I needed my own separate FSA ID - the FAFSA website really doesn't make this clear at all. I'm creating my account tonight so we can finally get this submitted before his school's priority deadline. Thank you everyone for sharing your experiences and solutions!
You're definitely not alone in this confusion! I just went through the exact same thing with my daughter. The timing worked out perfectly for us - I created my FSA ID in the evening and was verified instantly, then we were able to complete everything the next morning. Just make sure to have all your tax information handy when you do your contributor section. The whole process actually goes pretty quickly once you get past this initial hurdle. Hope you make your priority deadline!
This exact same thing happened to me and my daughter last year! We spent hours trying to figure out why we couldn't submit, and it was so frustrating because nowhere in the initial setup does it clearly explain that parents need their own FSA ID. We kept thinking there was a technical glitch or that we had missed a step somewhere. One thing I'll add that helped us - when you create your FSA ID as a parent, make sure you're using your legal name exactly as it appears on your tax returns and Social Security records. I initially used a nickname and had to go back and fix it, which added another day to the process. Also, keep your FSA ID login info somewhere really secure because you'll need it every year your child is in college, not just this once. The good news is that once you get through this initial confusion, the actual parent contributor section is pretty straightforward. Most of the heavy lifting is already done in your daughter's portion of the application. You've got this!
One more thing - create a college spreadsheet NOW in 8th grade. Track potential schools with these columns: - Sticker price (tuition, room, board, fees) - Average merit award for students with your child's academic profile - Special scholarship programs they offer - Net price calculator results - Application requirements and deadlines This helps avoid senior year panic and makes it easier to compare options. You'd be surprised how many "expensive" private schools end up cheaper than state options once merit aid is applied. Oh, and have your student take the PSAT seriously in 11th grade - National Merit status can trigger big scholarships!
As someone who just went through this process with twins (both now college sophomores), I can't emphasize enough how much the landscape has changed even in the last few years. A few things I wish I'd known earlier: 1. Don't overlook regional private colleges - they often have more flexibility with merit aid than big-name schools. My daughter got a better package from a smaller liberal arts college than from our state flagship. 2. Consider the "demonstrated interest" factor. Some schools track whether you've visited, attended virtual sessions, or engaged with admissions. This can impact merit aid decisions. 3. Look into Presidential/Chancellor scholarships at target schools - these are often full or near-full rides based on academics and leadership, not financial need. 4. Start building the "whole student" profile now - colleges want well-rounded applicants for their top merit scholarships. Community service, leadership positions, and unique experiences matter as much as grades. The stress is real, but starting early like you are puts you way ahead of most families! Focus on building your daughter's academic profile while researching schools that align with both her interests and your financial strategy.
This is incredibly helpful, thank you! The "demonstrated interest" point is something I hadn't considered at all. How early should we start showing interest - is 8th grade too early, or should we wait until high school? And do you have any specific examples of what kinds of community service or leadership activities made the biggest difference for your twins when it came to merit scholarships?
The demonstrated interest tracking is fascinating - I had no idea schools were doing this! For your twins, did you find that certain types of engagement (campus visits vs. virtual sessions) carried more weight? And with starting in 8th grade, I'm wondering if we should begin with general college exploration or wait until we have a clearer sense of her academic interests and potential major areas.
UPDATE: I checked the dashboard like someone suggested, and it does show "Processed" with the SAI number matching the email. I think we really are done! Thanks everyone for helping calm my paranoia. I'll still check with her schools next week just to be 100% sure they received everything.
Congrats on getting through the FAFSA gauntlet! I totally understand the anxiety - after all the horror stories from previous years, it's hard to trust that anything with FAFSA actually works smoothly. The green check + SAI number combo is indeed the finish line for the federal side. Just went through this with my daughter last month and had the same "is this really it??" moment. One thing I'd add to the great advice already given: keep screenshots of everything! Your confirmation email, the dashboard showing "Processed" status, the SAI number - everything. If any issues pop up later (hopefully they won't!), having that paper trail will save you hours of explaining to various offices what happened and when. The waiting for financial aid packages is its own special kind of torture, but at least the FAFSA nightmare is behind you! 🎉
Yes, screenshots are such a good point! I learned that lesson the hard way last year when we had issues and couldn't prove what we had submitted or when. This time I'm documenting everything - even took photos of my computer screen with my phone as backup 😅 The paranoia is definitely justified given how many people have had problems, but it sounds like we're finally in the clear. Thanks for the encouragement!
just fyi my nephew tried the dependency override thing and got rejected even with tons of documentation so dont get ur hopes up too much. the system really sucks for middle income families
While dependency overrides can be difficult to obtain, they're evaluated case-by-case. Success often depends on how the situation is presented and documented, as well as the specific financial aid office policies. It's absolutely worth trying, especially with the combination of factors mentioned (early college entry, documented disability, financial strain).
I'm so sorry you're going through this financial stress - it's heartbreaking to see parents sacrifice everything for their children's education. As someone who works with families in similar situations, I want to add a few practical suggestions: First, contact your state's vocational rehabilitation (VR) services immediately. Since your son has a documented ADHD diagnosis, he likely qualifies for VR support which can include tuition assistance, books, transportation, and even assistive technology. Each state runs this differently, but you can find your local office through your state's disability services website. Second, look into your state's developmental disabilities council - many have scholarship programs specifically for students with ADHD/learning disabilities that aren't well-publicized. Third, if your son is considering changing majors again, community college might be a strategic option for completing prerequisites while you sort out the financial aid situation. The credits transfer and it's much more affordable. Finally, document EVERYTHING related to his medical expenses and your financial hardship. Keep receipts for ADHD medications, therapy sessions, tutoring - all of this can support a professional judgment review or dependency override request. You're doing an amazing job advocating for your son. Don't give up hope - there are resources out there, they're just not always easy to find.
CosmicCadet
Great to hear you resolved it! Just a heads-up for the future - once your husband completes his section, make sure your son goes back in to review and finalize the FAFSA. Many students don't realize they need to complete that final submission step after all contributors finish their parts. The 2025-2026 FAFSA won't be considered complete until the student gives that final approval.
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Ravi Choudhury
•Thank you for that tip! I'll make sure to remind my son to go back in after we're both done. This whole process is so much more complicated than when I went to college!
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Abigail bergen
So glad to see you got it working! This thread is super helpful - I'm bookmarking it because I have a feeling I'll be dealing with similar issues when my youngest applies next year. The FSA ID system really seems to be a common pain point for families. Thanks to everyone who shared their troubleshooting tips, especially the specific steps about username recovery first then waiting before password reset. It's crazy that both parents have to do separate forms even with joint filing, but at least now I know what to expect!
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Tony Brooks
•Yes, definitely bookmark this! I'm new to all this FAFSA stuff since my daughter is just starting to look at colleges, and reading through everyone's experiences here has been so eye-opening. I had no idea both parents needed separate accounts even when filing jointly - that seems like such an unnecessary complication! The technical troubleshooting tips everyone shared are gold. I'm going to make sure we create our FSA IDs well in advance to avoid any last-minute panic like what happened here.
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