I'm going through something similar with my ex right now! One thing I learned from my financial aid counselor is that you should also check if your state has any specific laws about divorced parents and educational expenses. In my state, the court can actually order a non-custodial parent to contribute to college costs even if it wasn't in the original divorce decree. Your ex might be getting ahead of potential legal requirements, or he could be trying to show "voluntary support" to avoid court-ordered payments later. Either way, I agree with everyone saying to document everything and have that conversation with your son ASAP. My daughter was so confused when her dad suddenly wanted to be involved financially after years of excuses. It really helped when I explained the whole situation to her beforehand so she could make informed decisions about accepting his "help.

I went through this exact situation 3 years ago! My ex suddenly wanted to take out Parent PLUS loans after being MIA financially throughout high school. Here's what I wish I had known: 1) He CAN take out the loans even though you filed the FAFSA - they're completely separate processes, 2) Make sure your son knows these are HIS DAD'S loans, not his responsibility, 3) Get everything in writing about expectations BEFORE he applies, and 4) Talk to your son's financial aid office together so he understands how this affects his overall aid package. The biggest red flag for me was the timing - my ex did this right when his new partner's kids were applying to college and he wanted to look like "father of the year." Trust your gut and protect your son from potential manipulation. The loans might be legitimate help, but make sure there aren't strings attached that could hurt your son later!

As someone new to this community and the FAFSA process, I want to thank everyone for sharing such detailed and helpful experiences! My family is in a similar boat - we submitted our FAFSA about 6 days ago and I've been checking the dashboard obsessively. Reading through all these responses has been incredibly reassuring. I had no idea that the dashboard was typically the last thing to update, or that the SAI score comes via email rather than showing up on the dashboard. The timeline insights from everyone (3-5 business days for processing, up to 2+ weeks for dashboard updates) really help set proper expectations. I'm definitely going to stop the daily checking and follow the advice about contacting our target schools' financial aid offices directly. It's such a relief to know that one week with no updates is completely normal during this busy season!

As a newcomer to both this community and the FAFSA process, I can't express how relieved I am to have found this discussion! We submitted our FAFSA exactly 8 days ago and I've been in full panic mode seeing absolutely nothing on the dashboard except "You currently don't have any federal loans or grants." I was convinced we'd done something wrong or that our application got lost in the system. Reading everyone's experiences has been like a warm hug - knowing that 1-2 weeks with no dashboard updates is completely normal, and that the dashboard is actually the LAST thing to reflect changes, has taken such a weight off my shoulders. I had no clue about the SAI coming via email instead of showing on the dashboard, or that schools often receive the data before students see any updates. The practical advice here is gold - I'm immediately setting up email notifications, switching to weekly check-ins instead of my current hourly refresh habit, and reaching out to our target schools' financial aid offices. Thank you all for sharing your knowledge and normalizing this very stressful waiting period!

Just to clarify some confusion in this thread - for the 2025-2026 FAFSA, both spouses in a married household need to be contributors and sign the application. This is true regardless of whether one or both spouses are involved in a family business. For self-employed applicants, the FAFSA will primarily use your Adjusted Gross Income (AGI) from your tax return, which already includes your business income. The system is designed to capture your household's full financial picture, which is why both spouses need to be included. If you're struggling with the contributor section, I recommend using the help text within the FAFSA application itself (look for the question mark icons) or reviewing the detailed guidance on studentaid.gov before resorting to paid services.

As someone who just went through this process last month, I can confirm that both spouses definitely need to be contributors! We're also self-employed (photography business) and initially tried to just have my wife handle everything since she does our bookkeeping. The system wouldn't let us proceed without both of us being listed. The good news is that once you both have your FSA IDs set up, the actual process is pretty smooth. Most of our business income information pulled directly from our joint tax return through the IRS Data Retrieval Tool. We did have to manually enter a few details about business assets, but nothing too complicated. One thing that helped us was doing a practice run on the FAFSA website before actually submitting. You can save your progress and come back to it, so there's no pressure to complete everything in one sitting. Good luck!

One last thing - to check if your specific program qualifies for Cal Grant C, visit the CSAC website and look for their "Priority Career Technical Programs" list. Not every vocational program qualifies - they prioritize high-demand fields like healthcare, information technology, early childhood education, and certain trades. Your financial aid office should be able to confirm if your specific program is eligible.

Great work figuring all this out! Dental assisting definitely qualifies for Cal Grant C - it's considered a high-demand healthcare program. Just a heads up that even if you missed this year's March 2nd deadline, you can still apply for next academic year. CSAC processes applications year-round, but priority funding goes to those who meet the March deadline. Also, make sure to ask your financial aid office about any state-specific deadlines or additional grants your school might offer for dental assisting students. Some community colleges have partnerships with local dental offices that provide additional funding opportunities!

UPDATE: We tried the steps that @profile2 suggested! My daughter removed me as a contributor, waited about 20 minutes, then added me again. I got a new email invitation, cleared my browser cache, and THIS TIME IT WORKED! I can now see her application and the parent contribution section to complete. I think the issue was either the system glitch they mentioned or possibly that I was clicking the old link from the first email. Either way, if anyone else has this problem, try having your student remove and re-add you as a contributor! Thank you all for your help!

So glad you got it resolved! This has been such a common issue this FAFSA cycle. For anyone else reading this thread who might run into the same problem, I'd also suggest checking that your student didn't accidentally add you as a "stepparent" or other contributor type instead of "parent" - I've seen that cause similar dashboard issues where nothing shows up. The remove/re-add solution seems to work for most of these invitation glitches though. Good luck with the rest of the process!