ESD denied my claim in adjudication - will my appeal details be shared with employer I'm trying to get rehired by?
I got denied unemployment benefits after being in adjudication and I'm stuck in a really awkward situation. I had to leave my job last September to care for my two kids who needed intensive medical treatments (ended up being 8+ months of appointments, hospital stays, etc). The adjudicator denied my claim saying I "didn't make reasonable attempts to preserve my employment relationship" before quitting. Here's my dilemma - I'm currently trying to get rehired by this same employer (they're practically the only major company in my field in this region), but it's a super competitive job market right now with barely any openings. If I appeal the ESD decision, will they share all my appeal statements/documents with my former employer? I really don't want to burn bridges or get into some ugly back-and-forth while I'm trying to get rehired. The only things I feel the company did "wrong" was mislead me about how easy it would be to return after my leave and HR never mentioned FMLA or PFML options to me. I know I should have researched more myself, but with everything going on with my kids, I was overwhelmed. Has anyone been through an appeal while trying to maintain a good relationship with their former employer? Any advice appreciated!
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Zara Mirza
YES they absolutely share EVERYTHING with your employer during appeals!!! I went through this last year when I got denied and appealed. The OAH sent ALL my statements to my old boss who then showed up at the hearing with printouts of what I said about them. It was mortifying. If you're trying to get rehired DO NOT say anything in your appeal that would make them mad.
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Luca Russo
•omg that sounds awful. thx for the warning
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Sean Kelly
•Oh no, that sounds horrible! Did you win your appeal at least? I'm wondering if there's any way to appeal without making it adversarial. I just want to explain that I truly had no other options with my kids' medical situation.
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Nia Harris
Why didnt you just apply for FMLA? Most companies have to give you that by law and its job protected for up to 12 weeks. Sounds like you just quit without looking into options. Not trying to be harsh but the ESD decision kinda makes sense from what you said.
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Sean Kelly
•You're right, I should have applied for FMLA. I think I was just so overwhelmed with my kids' medical emergencies that I wasn't thinking clearly. I knew FMLA existed but didn't realize I qualified. I wish HR had mentioned it when I told them about the situation but ultimately that's on me. The thing is, my kids ended up needing care for 8+ months which is longer than FMLA would have covered anyway.
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GalaxyGazer
•Just want to add that FMLA only gives 12 weeks and OP needed 8+ months. Even with FMLA they would have been in the same situation eventually. Also, WA state has Paid Family Medical Leave (PFML) which can sometimes be used after FMLA expires in certain situations. Companies aren't always great about informing employees about these options, which is unfortunate.
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Mateo Sanchez
I went through an appeal after being denied for a somewhat similar reason. Yes, ESD does provide all documentation to your former employer and they have the right to participate in any hearings. However, from my experience, you can approach this tactfully. When writing your appeal, focus on the FACTS rather than accusations. Instead of saying "they didn't tell me about FMLA" you might say "I was unaware of FMLA options at the time due to the emergency nature of my children's medical situation." Also, emphasize the extraordinary circumstances - 8 months of intensive medical care for children goes beyond what most standard leave policies cover. The key is to not make it about blaming the employer but about clarifying your situation. I'd suggest getting a free consultation with an unemployment lawyer before proceeding. They can give you specific advice for your situation.
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Sean Kelly
•Thank you! This is really helpful advice. I like the idea of focusing on facts rather than blame. You're right that the 8-month duration is the key point - even with FMLA/PFML, I would have exceeded the protected time. Do you know any resources for finding unemployment lawyers who do free consultations?
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Aisha Mahmood
Have you tried calling ESD directly to ask about the appeal process and whether your statements would be shared? I've been trying to get through to them for 2 weeks about my own claim issue and it's IMPOSSIBLE. Always busy signals or it hangs up automatically saying "call volume too high" 🤬
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Ethan Moore
•Try using Claimyr (claimyr.com) - I was in the same boat trying to reach ESD for weeks. They got me connected to an actual ESD agent in less than 30 minutes. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/7DieNd3C7zQ?si=26TzE_zGms-DODN3 It saved me so much frustration, especially when dealing with my adjudication questions that couldn't be answered through the online portal.
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GalaxyGazer
To directly answer your question: Yes, your appeal statements/documents are shared with your former employer, and they have the right to participate in any appeal hearing. This is standard procedure for the Office of Administrative Hearings (OAH). However, here's something important to consider: If you're trying to get rehired, an appeal might actually help clarify the situation with your former employer in a structured way. The appeals process isn't necessarily adversarial. It's about determining eligibility based on facts. In your case, there's a specific legal point that might help: Did your employer clearly inform you about your leave options? Employers have certain notification requirements regarding FMLA/PFML. If they failed to provide required notifications, this could potentially strengthen your case without creating animosity. For appeals involving family care issues, make sure to gather all medical documentation showing the necessity and duration of care required. The fact that you needed 8+ months (beyond standard FMLA coverage) is significant. Also, be aware that there's a limited timeframe to file an appeal - typically 30 days from the date of the determination letter.
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Sean Kelly
•Thank you for this thorough answer. I've been so worried about making things worse with my former employer, but you make a good point that this could actually help clarify things. My determination letter came last week, so I still have time to decide. Do you know if there's any way to find out how this specific employer typically handles unemployment appeals? Like whether they actively participate or just let the process happen? I know that's probably hard to determine, but thought I'd ask.
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GalaxyGazer
•Unfortunately, there's no way to know in advance how actively an employer will participate in an appeal. Some employers routinely contest all claims, while others only participate if they strongly disagree with something specific. Large companies often have dedicated staff or third-party administrators who handle these matters. One option is to contact the employer's HR department and have an honest conversation about your situation before filing an appeal. Sometimes clearing the air directly can resolve misunderstandings without going through the formal appeal process. If you're already in discussions about being rehired, this approach might make sense.
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Luca Russo
i had something similar happen and won my appeal even tho my boss fought it! the judge was super understanding about my family situation. don't give up!! 👍
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Zara Mirza
•What kind of evidence did you need to provide? I've heard those judges can be really strict about documentation.
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Mateo Sanchez
One thing that hasn't been mentioned yet: if you do appeal, make sure you keep filing your weekly claims during the entire appeal process. If you win your appeal but haven't been filing weekly claims, you won't receive benefits for those weeks. This is a common mistake people make during appeals.
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Sean Kelly
•Thank you for this tip! I wouldn't have thought to keep filing during the appeal. Does that mean I need to keep doing the job search activities too, even while the claim is being appealed?
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GalaxyGazer
•Yes, you must continue all job search activities and documentation during the appeal process. The requirement is still 3 job search activities per week that you must log either in the ESD system or your own records. If you win your appeal but haven't been conducting and documenting job searches, those weeks could still be denied.
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Zara Mirza
THE SYSTEM IS RIGGED!!! Sorry but I've been through the appeals process twice and it's totally set up to favor employers. They don't care about your family emergency, they only care about technicalities and rules. You probably won't win anyway so why risk making your old company mad if you're trying to get hired back?
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Nia Harris
•not helpful to just be negative. plenty of people win appeals if they have a good case
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