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Social Security survivor benefits after ex-spouse death - work until 70 or claim now with health issues?

Just found out my ex-husband passed away in April and I'm trying to figure out my Social Security options. I'm 64, divorced (marriage lasted 21 years, divorced for 20), and never remarried. I work full-time at a job I've had for 16 years that pays well, but my health isn't great lately. I know my FRA is 67 and I can earn unlimited income while collecting at that point. But what are the advantages of waiting until 70? With my ex passing, do I qualify for survivor benefits even though we've been divorced so long? Should I keep working and delay benefits given my health concerns? I'm trying to balance maximizing my benefit amount versus the reality that my health might limit how long I'll collect. Any advice from those who've navigated this type of situation?

Chloe Zhang

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Since you were married more than 10 years and didn't remarry, you DO qualify for survivor benefits from your ex-husband. This is completely separate from your own retirement benefit. The smart play might be to take the survivor benefit now at 64 (you'll get a reduced amount since you're before FRA) and then switch to your own retirement benefit at 70 when it's maximized with delayed retirement credits (32% increase over your FRA amount). This strategy lets you get some money now while still maximizing your own benefit later.

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Sophia Carter

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Thank you! I had no idea I could take survivor benefits now and then switch later. Do you know if my current earnings would reduce those survivor benefits since I'm under FRA? And would I need to apply for both benefits separately or do they automatically check for all benefits I qualify for?

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my mom went thru something like this!! she took her ex's benefit when he died but she waited til EXACTLY full retirement age so she didn't lose any money. but the SSA office gave her wrong info twice before someone finally told her the right thing. def go IN PERSON if u can, the phone ppl sometimes dont know what there talking about

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Adriana Cohn

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Going in person is TERRIBLE advice right now! Have you tried getting an appointment lately? It's a 3-4 month wait in most offices! And half the time they cancel on you anyway. The system is COMPLETELY BROKEN since COVID. Phone is just as bad - I've tried calling 37 times in one day and couldn't get through!

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Jace Caspullo

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You've got a great opportunity for maximizing benefits here. With the survivor benefit from your ex-husband, you're subject to the earnings test if you're working and under FRA. In 2025, you'll lose $1 in benefits for every $2 you earn above $23,500 (approximate - they adjust annually). But here's the important part: those survivor benefits aren't lost forever. SSA recalculates your benefit once you reach FRA to credit back withheld amounts. For your own retirement benefit, waiting until 70 gives you an 8% increase for each year beyond FRA. That's a lifetime 24% increase over your FRA amount. Given your health concerns, I'd run the numbers both ways - calculate your break-even point (usually around 80-82 years old) to see if delaying makes sense for your situation.

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Melody Miles

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Wait I thought survivor benefits aren't affected by the earnings test? Someone told me that was only for retirement benefits? This is so confusing!

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Jace Caspullo

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Unfortunately, that's incorrect. Both retirement and survivor benefits are subject to the earnings test if you're under Full Retirement Age. Many people confuse this with the rules about collecting spousal benefits, which work differently. This is why it's critical to speak directly with SSA about your specific situation.

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I'm curious about this too - I'm in a similar situation but I'm 62 and working part time. Following for the responses!

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Eva St. Cyr

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After dealing with similar issues last year, I gave up trying to reach SSA by phone after spending weeks getting busy signals and disconnections. I found a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me through to an agent in under 20 minutes. They have a video showing how it works at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU For complex situations like yours involving survivor benefits plus your own record, speaking directly with an SSA representative is crucial. They can run calculations showing different filing scenarios based on your specific earnings record.

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Sophia Carter

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Thanks for this suggestion. I've been trying to get through to SSA for days with no luck. Did they explain all your options clearly when you finally got through?

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Eva St. Cyr

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Yes, the SSA rep was able to see all my records and explained three different filing strategies with actual dollar amounts. Made the decision much clearer. Just be sure to take detailed notes because they won't put these projections in writing.

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i think ur lucky ur still working! i had to quit at 61 cause of my back. if ur healths not good maybe u should just take the benefits now? my sister waited and then got cancer and only collected for 2 years before she passed

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Sophia Carter

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I'm sorry about your sister. That's exactly what I'm worried about. Did she regret waiting to file?

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Adriana Cohn

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The ENTIRE system is designed to MAKE YOU WAIT and then you DIE before collecting what you're owed!!! That's their WHOLE PLAN! Take whatever you can RIGHT NOW. I've been fighting with these people for THREE YEARS over my husband's benefits. They keep "losing" paperwork and making "mistakes" in their calculations. DON'T TRUST THEM TO DO ANYTHING RIGHT!!!

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That's scary. I'm sorry you've had such a bad experience. Do you think it depends on which office you deal with?

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Chloe Zhang

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Regarding your health concerns - this is something many people don't consider properly when planning. The standard advice to delay to 70 works best if you'll live well into your 80s. For someone with serious health issues, claiming earlier can make more sense. One approach: Get an appointment with SSA to calculate the exact survivor benefit amount you'd receive now. Then compare that to what your own retirement benefit would be at 67 (FRA) and at 70. If your own benefit at 70 would be substantially higher than the survivor benefit, the strategy of claiming survivor now and switching later makes sense. Also important: You can apply for survivor benefits up to 6 months retroactively from when you apply, so don't delay your appointment too long.

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Sophia Carter

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This is really helpful, thank you. I didn't know about the 6-month retroactive filing option. I'll try to get an appointment ASAP to see the actual benefit amounts.

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Melody Miles

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My husband worked at ssa before retiring and he always told folks that if you've got health problems don't wait til 70!!! The break even point is usually around 80-82 years old. So if you don't think you'll make it that long then take it earlier. Also check if your survivor benefit might be higher than your own benefit - it depends on what your ex was earning

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thats what i keep telling people!! my brother in law waited til 70 and then died at 72, basically left thousands on the table

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Jace Caspullo

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Since you mentioned your health isn't the best, here's another strategy to consider: Apply for reduced survivor benefits now, but ALSO apply for SSDI (disability benefits). If approved for SSDI, you'd receive your full retirement benefit amount without reduction. The SSDI approval process is lengthy and often involves appeals, but it's worth pursuing if your health condition is documented and severe enough to limit your ability to work. You can apply for both benefits simultaneously. This approach gives you some income now through survivor benefits while potentially securing your full retirement rate through SSDI if your health deteriorates further.

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Can you really apply for SSDI if you're currently working full-time? I thought that automatically disqualified you?

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Jace Caspullo

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You're right - if you're engaging in Substantial Gainful Activity (SGA), currently $1,550/month in 2025 for non-blind individuals, you wouldn't qualify for SSDI. I should have been clearer that this option would only work if the health issues forced a reduction in work hours or stopping work entirely.

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Sophia Carter

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Thank you all for the helpful advice. I've scheduled an appointment with SSA (took forever to get through) to review my specific numbers. Going to get documentation of all my options before making a decision. I think I'm leaning toward taking the survivor benefit now and then switching to my own retirement benefit at 70, but I want to see the actual dollar amounts first. Will update once I have more information!

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Melody Miles

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Good luck with your appointment! Hope you get someone who knows what they're talking about!

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