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Diego Fisher

Do I need to provide divorce papers when applying for Social Security benefits?

I'm planning to apply for my Social Security retirement benefits next month when I turn 62. I've been divorced for about 9 years (married for 15) and I'm wondering if I need to track down my divorce decree to include with my application? The divorce happened in another state and I'm not sure where those papers are anymore. Will SSA reject my application without divorce documentation? I'm applying for my own benefits, not ex-spouse benefits. Just want to make sure I have everything ready before I start the process!

It depends on which type of Social Security benefits you're applying for. If you're applying for retirement benefits based solely on your own work record, you typically don't need to provide divorce papers. However, if you're applying for benefits based on an ex-spouse's record, then yes, you would need to provide proof of marriage and divorce. Since you mentioned you're applying for your own benefits, you shouldn't need the divorce decree. The main documents you'll need are: - Your original birth certificate or other proof of birth - Your Social Security card or number - Your most recent W-2 forms or tax returns

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Thank you! That's a relief. I do have my birth certificate and SS card ready. I was just worried because on some checklist I saw online it mentioned marriage/divorce documents and I panicked a bit.

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when i applied last year they didnt ask me for any divorce stuff just my drivers license and birth certificate. took like 20 minutes online

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That's good to know it was quick! Did you do it all online or did you have to go into an office at any point?

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They might ask for it even if you're claiming on your own record! My sister applied last year and they requested her divorce decree even though she wasn't claiming on her ex's record. Something about verifying her name change history. Better safe than sorry!

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This is accurate. SSA sometimes requests divorce decrees even for your own retirement benefits if you've had name changes due to marriage/divorce. It's for identity verification purposes. They don't always ask, but they might. If you have access to those documents, it's good to have them ready just in case.

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I went through this exact situation in January. You don't INITIALLY need the divorce decree when applying for your own retirement benefits. However, if there's anything in your earnings record that has different names (like if you used your married name for some years), they MIGHT request it later to verify your identity and name changes. If you can't find your divorce decree, you can get a certified copy from the court where your divorce was finalized. Most counties have a process for requesting these documents even if you're out of state now. It usually costs around $20-30 for a certified copy.

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That's really helpful info! My work record does have years under both my maiden and married names, so maybe I should try to get a copy just to be safe. I'll look into requesting it from the county court.

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I SPENT THREE WEEKS trying to get through to Social Security about this exact question last year!!! Their phone system is HORRIBLE and I kept getting disconnected after waiting for hours. When I finally got someone, they told me I didn't need divorce papers for my own retirement benefits, but then when I applied online, the system flagged my application for review because of name discrepancies and I ended up having to provide the divorce decree anyway. The whole system is designed to make you give up!!!

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I had the same awful experience trying to call SSA! After getting disconnected multiple times, I found this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that helped me get through to an agent without the endless waiting. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU Saved me so much frustration, especially when I needed to ask specific questions about documents for my application. The agent I spoke with told me to have my divorce decree ready just in case, even though it wasn't required for the initial application.

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my aunt just applied and she needed her divorce papers cause she changed her name back after the divorce. so it depends on your situation i think

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what about if u want to claim on your ex's record? my friend makes more $ that way and shes trying to figure out if she needs permission from him or something

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For ex-spouse benefits, you definitely need to provide marriage and divorce documentation, but you do NOT need your ex's permission or cooperation. As long as you were married for at least 10 years, you can claim on their record without them even knowing about it. Your friend would need: - Proof of marriage (marriage certificate) - Proof of divorce (divorce decree) - Their own ID and SS card - Ex's Social Security number (or enough information for SSA to identify them

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Social Security retirement specialist here. For clarification: 1. For your OWN retirement benefits: Divorce decree typically not required initially, but may be requested if there are name discrepancies in your earnings record 2. For EX-SPOUSE benefits: Divorce decree and marriage certificate are required, along with proof the marriage lasted at least 10 years 3. For SURVIVORS benefits (if ex-spouse died): Divorce decree, marriage certificate, and death certificate required If you don't have your divorce decree, contact the court in the county where your divorce was finalized. Most have procedures for obtaining certified copies even from out-of-state. Start this process early as it can take several weeks. Tip: When applying, have your SS card, birth certificate, and a government-issued photo ID (like a driver's license) ready. If you've changed names multiple times, having documentation of all name changes is helpful.

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Thank you for this detailed breakdown! Since my work history does have different names, I'll go ahead and order the divorce decree just to be prepared. Better to have it and not need it than need it and have my application delayed.

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One other thing to consider - if you're planning to file at 62, make sure you understand that your benefit will be permanently reduced by about 30% compared to waiting until your Full Retirement Age (which would be 67 if you're turning 62 now). Not trying to talk you out of it, just making sure you're aware of the reduction.

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Yes, I've calculated the reduction. My FRA is 66 and 10 months, and I know I'm taking about a 29% cut by filing early. I've got some health issues and frankly, I'd rather have the money now. I've run the numbers and break-even point is around 80 years old - if I live longer than that I'd have been better off waiting, but that's a gamble I'm willing to take.

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make sure u check if ur eligible for any other benefits too... my neighbor thought she could only get her own retirement but turns out she qualified for some of her ex husbands benefits too and gets an extra $300/month

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Just wanted to add something that might be helpful - when you do apply (whether online or in person), the SSA system will automatically cross-reference your earnings record with the name/SSN combination you provide. If there are any discrepancies or periods where you worked under a different name, their system will flag it for manual review even if you don't initially need to provide divorce papers. I'd recommend calling ahead to your local SSA office (or using one of those callback services mentioned earlier) to ask them to review your earnings record before you apply. They can tell you if there are any name issues that might cause delays. This way you'll know for sure whether to get that divorce decree beforehand or if you can proceed without it. Also, since you mentioned health issues in another comment - if your condition worsens, you might want to look into applying for disability benefits instead of or in addition to early retirement. The disability process takes longer but doesn't have the permanent reduction that early retirement does.

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This is really good advice about checking your earnings record beforehand! I hadn't thought about calling ahead to have them review it. That could definitely save me time and stress later. The disability benefits suggestion is interesting too - I hadn't considered that option. My health issues are manageable right now but it's good to know there are other pathways if things change. Thanks for the thorough response!

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Just went through this process myself last month! For your own retirement benefits, you typically don't need divorce papers upfront. However, I'd recommend having them ready just in case, especially since you mentioned having work history under different names. A few practical tips from my experience: - The online application is pretty straightforward and takes about 30-45 minutes - If you can't find your divorce decree, most courts have online portals now where you can request certified copies for around $25-35 - SSA's "my Social Security" website lets you review your earnings record beforehand - this helped me spot a name discrepancy that would have caused delays One thing that surprised me was they asked for bank account info during the application for direct deposit setup, so have that handy too. Good luck with your application!

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This is super helpful, especially the tip about checking the earnings record online first! I didn't know about the "my Social Security" website - that sounds like it could save me a lot of headaches. And good point about having bank account info ready for direct deposit. I'll definitely set up an account on their website to review my record before applying. Thanks for sharing your recent experience!

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I just want to echo what several others have said about having your divorce decree ready even if you don't initially need it. I applied for my own retirement benefits last year and didn't think I'd need mine since I was applying on my own record. But because I had worked under both my maiden name and married name over the years, SSA requested it about 3 weeks after I submitted my application. The delay was frustrating because I had to scramble to get a certified copy from the courthouse in my former state. It added about 6 weeks to my processing time. If I had just gotten it beforehand, my benefits would have started much sooner. Since you mentioned your divorce was in another state, I'd suggest starting that process now. Most county clerk offices have online request forms, and you can usually get certified copies mailed to you for around $20-30. It's a small cost that could save you months of delays later. Better to be over-prepared than caught off guard!

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This is exactly the kind of experience I was hoping to learn from! Six weeks of delays sounds awful, especially when you're counting on those benefits to start. I'm definitely convinced now that I should get the divorce decree ahead of time. My divorce was finalized in Texas and I'm in Florida now, but I'll look into their online request process. Even if it costs $30 and I end up not needing it, that's way better than having my application held up for weeks or months. Thanks for sharing your story - it really helps to hear from someone who went through the exact same situation!

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As someone who works with SSA applications regularly, I'd recommend getting your divorce decree proactively. Even though you're applying for benefits based on your own work record, SSA's system has become more strict about verifying identity and name changes in recent years. Since you mentioned being divorced for 9 years after a 15-year marriage, there's a good chance you have earnings under both names in your work history. This will almost certainly trigger a request for documentation later, which could delay your benefits by 4-8 weeks. Most county courthouses now have online portals for requesting certified copies of divorce decrees. Since your divorce was in another state, you can usually: 1. Search "[county name] clerk of court" online 2. Look for their records request section 3. Submit a request with a small fee (usually $20-35) 4. Have it mailed to your current address This small upfront effort could save you significant delays and stress later. Plus, it's good to have a certified copy on hand for other potential needs (updating beneficiaries, property matters, etc.).

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This is really solid advice from someone who clearly knows the system well! I appreciate the specific steps for requesting the divorce decree online - that makes it seem much more manageable. You're absolutely right that having a certified copy on hand could be useful for other situations too. I hadn't thought about things like updating beneficiaries, but that's a good point. I'm convinced - I'll start the process of getting my divorce decree from Texas this week. Better to spend the $30 now than deal with months of delays when I'm ready to start collecting benefits. Thanks for the professional insight!

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Hey Diego! I'm in a similar boat - turning 62 next year and also divorced with work history under different names. Reading through all these responses has been super helpful! Based on what everyone's shared, it sounds like the consensus is pretty clear: while divorce papers aren't technically required upfront for your own retirement benefits, having them ready is definitely the smart move given that you worked under both names during your marriage. I especially appreciated the advice about checking your earnings record on the "my Social Security" website first - that's brilliant! You can see exactly what names are associated with your work history and get a sense of whether SSA might flag your application for review. The stories about 6-week delays really drove the point home for me. Spending $30 now to get a certified copy seems like cheap insurance against months of frustration later. Plus, as someone mentioned, it's good to have on hand for other situations too. Good luck with your application! Sounds like you've got a solid plan now with all this great advice from the community.

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Thanks Isabella! It's really reassuring to connect with someone in such a similar situation. This thread has been incredibly valuable - I came in just worried about one document and now I have a whole roadmap for the application process! I'm definitely going to start with checking my earnings record on the SSA website like several people suggested. That seems like the smartest first step to see exactly what I'm dealing with name-wise. Then I'll get that divorce decree from Texas while I'm waiting to turn 62 next month. The community here has been amazing with sharing real experiences rather than just generic advice. Hearing about actual delays and processing times really helps set expectations. Hope your application goes smoothly when you get to that point next year! Feel free to reach out if you run into any issues - I'll be going through this process soon so maybe I can return the favor with some firsthand experience.

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I went through this exact same situation about 8 months ago! Like you, I was applying for my own retirement benefits at 62 and wasn't sure about the divorce papers. Here's what I learned: While SSA doesn't technically require divorce documents upfront for your own retirement benefits, they absolutely will ask for them later if your earnings record shows different names. Since you were married for 15 years, you almost certainly have work history under both your maiden and married names, which will trigger their system to request verification. My advice? Get that divorce decree now before you apply. I made the mistake of not having it ready and ended up waiting an extra 7 weeks for my benefits to start while I scrambled to get a certified copy from another state. The $25 I spent on the document could have saved me nearly 2 months of delayed benefits. Most states have online request systems now - just search for your divorce county's clerk of court website. They usually process these requests pretty quickly, especially if you pay for expedited service. It's such a small cost compared to the potential delays! Also, definitely create an account on SSA's "my Social Security" website first to review your earnings record. You'll be able to see exactly what names are associated with your work history, which will help you prepare the right documents. Good luck with your application! The early retirement decision is tough but sometimes the right call given health considerations.

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Thank you for sharing your experience, Olivia! Your story really drives home the point that it's worth getting the divorce decree proactively. Seven weeks of delayed benefits would be so stressful, especially when you're counting on that income to start. I'm definitely going to follow your advice and get the document from Texas before I apply. It sounds like the online request process has gotten much easier than it used to be. The fact that you only paid $25 and it could have saved you nearly 2 months of benefits really puts it in perspective - that's an incredible return on investment! I also appreciate the tip about creating the "my Social Security" account first. It makes so much sense to see exactly what's in my earnings record before applying. That way I'll know for sure whether I have the name discrepancies that trigger their system to ask for documents later. It's really helpful to hear from someone who went through this recently and can share the actual timeline and costs. Thanks for taking the time to help out a newcomer to this process!

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This thread has been incredibly helpful! I'm in a very similar situation - turning 62 in a few months and divorced about 8 years ago after a 12-year marriage. Like you, I've been trying to figure out what documents I actually need. Based on everyone's experiences here, it's clear that getting your divorce decree ahead of time is the smart move, even if it's not technically required initially. The stories about 6-7 week delays really convinced me - spending $30 now is so much better than having benefits delayed for months. I also love the suggestion about checking your earnings record on the "my Social Security" website first. That seems like such a logical first step to see exactly what names are in your work history before you even apply. Thanks to everyone who shared their real experiences rather than just generic advice. This kind of practical information from people who've actually been through the process is invaluable! Diego, sounds like you've got a great plan now with all this guidance.

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I'm so glad this thread has been helpful for you too, Ethan! It's amazing how many of us are in similar situations - seems like there are a lot of people hitting 62 with divorce situations to navigate. What really stands out to me from all these responses is how consistent the advice has been from people who've actually gone through this process recently. The message is clear: even though divorce papers aren't technically required upfront for your own benefits, the reality is that if you have work history under different names (which most of us divorced folks do), you're almost certainly going to be asked for them later. The cost-benefit analysis is so obvious when you put it in perspective - spend $25-35 now to avoid potentially months of delayed benefits. Plus, as several people mentioned, having a certified copy of your divorce decree on hand is useful for other life situations too. I think we're all walking away from this discussion with a much clearer action plan: check earnings record online first, get divorce decree proactively, then apply with confidence. Thanks to everyone who shared their real experiences - this community is fantastic!

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As someone who recently went through the SS application process, I can't stress enough how valuable this discussion has been! Reading through everyone's experiences really shows the importance of community knowledge sharing. The pattern is crystal clear from all the real-world experiences shared here: while divorce papers technically aren't required initially for your own retirement benefits, if you have ANY work history under different names (which is super common for divorced people), SSA's system will almost certainly flag your application for manual review and request those documents later. The math is simple - spend $25-35 now for a certified divorce decree copy vs. potentially waiting 6-8 weeks for delayed benefits while scrambling to get documents. That's potentially thousands of dollars in delayed benefits over a $30 document! My top recommendations based on this thread: 1. Create a "my Social Security" account FIRST to review your earnings record 2. If you see different names in your work history, proactively get your divorce decree 3. Most county courts have online request portals now - much easier than it used to be 4. Have all your basic docs ready: birth certificate, SS card, ID, and bank info for direct deposit Diego, you came in with one question and now have a complete roadmap thanks to this amazing community. That's what I love about this group - real people sharing real experiences to help each other navigate these complex systems. Best of luck with your application next month!

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This is such a comprehensive summary of everything we've learned in this thread! You've really captured the key takeaways perfectly. As someone new to this whole Social Security process, I came into this discussion feeling pretty overwhelmed, but now I feel like I have a clear, step-by-step plan. The community knowledge here has been absolutely invaluable - there's such a difference between reading generic government websites and hearing from real people who've actually navigated this recently. The consistency of everyone's advice about getting the divorce decree proactively really drives home that this is the smart approach. I love your four-step recommendation list - that's exactly the roadmap I needed! I'm definitely going to start with checking my earnings record online this week, then get that divorce decree from Texas while I wait to turn 62 next month. Thanks to everyone who took the time to share their experiences. This thread should honestly be pinned as a resource for anyone in similar situations. The real-world timelines, costs, and potential delays you all shared are the kind of practical information that makes all the difference. Here's hoping my application goes smoothly thanks to all this great advice!

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I just wanted to add one more perspective as someone who works in benefits administration (not SSA, but similar processes). The advice in this thread has been spot-on, especially about being proactive with documentation. One thing I'd emphasize is that SSA's verification systems have gotten much more sophisticated in recent years. They automatically cross-reference earnings records, name histories, and identity markers. If there are ANY inconsistencies - even minor ones like a hyphenated vs. non-hyphenated married name - it can trigger a manual review. The delay stories shared here (6-8 weeks) are actually pretty typical. What makes it worse is that once your application goes into manual review, it's much harder to get status updates or expedite the process. The customer service challenges people mentioned are real - it's incredibly difficult to reach someone who can actually help move your case along. So Diego, based on your 15-year marriage and 9 years since divorce, I'd bet money that you have earnings under at least two different name variations. Getting that Texas divorce decree now is definitely the right call. Most Texas counties have online portals - search for "[county name] district clerk records" and you should find their request system. One final tip: when you do get the certified copy, make sure to order 2-3 copies while you're at it. They're usually only a few dollars each when ordered together, and having extras can be helpful for other situations down the road (estate planning, property matters, etc.).

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This professional perspective really adds a lot of credibility to all the advice we've been getting! It's reassuring to hear from someone who works in benefits administration that the experiences shared here are typical and the advice is sound. Your point about SSA's verification systems becoming more sophisticated really explains why so many people are running into these documentation requests even when they're not technically required upfront. It makes total sense that even small variations in how names appear (like hyphenated vs non-hyphenated) could trigger their system. The tip about ordering multiple certified copies is brilliant! For just a few extra dollars, having 2-3 copies on hand could save so much hassle down the road. Plus, as you mentioned, there are other situations where having certified divorce documentation could be useful. I'm definitely going to look up the Texas district clerk records portal this week. With a 15-year marriage, I'm sure you're right that I have earnings under different name variations. Better to spend the money now and have everything ready than deal with weeks of uncertainty and delayed benefits later. Thanks for adding your professional insight to this discussion - it really helps to understand why these delays happen and confirms that being proactive is the smart approach!

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Just wanted to share my experience from applying last month! I was in almost the exact same situation - divorced 10 years ago after a 14-year marriage, applying for my own retirement benefits at 62. I initially didn't think I'd need my divorce papers either since I was applying on my own work record. Long story short, I wish I had found this thread before applying! SSA requested my divorce decree about 4 weeks after I submitted my application because my earnings record showed work under both my maiden and married names. The delay was frustrating because I had to contact the courthouse in another state to get a certified copy. The good news is that once I provided the document, my benefits were approved quickly and I even got backpay for the weeks I was waiting. But if I had just gotten the divorce decree ahead of time like everyone here is recommending, I could have avoided that whole stressful period. So definitely listen to the advice here - spend the $30 now to get that certified copy from Texas. The peace of mind alone is worth it, and you'll avoid any potential delays. The online court portals really do make it pretty easy these days. Good luck with your application next month!

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Carmen, thank you so much for sharing your recent experience! It's really helpful to hear from someone who just went through this exact situation last month. Your story perfectly illustrates what everyone else has been saying - even though the divorce papers aren't technically required upfront, the reality is that they'll almost certainly be requested later if you have work history under different names. I'm glad to hear you eventually got approved with backpay, but I can only imagine how stressful those 4 weeks of waiting must have been! That really reinforces my decision to be proactive and get the divorce decree from Texas before I apply next month. It's amazing how consistent everyone's experiences have been in this thread - the pattern is so clear that it's definitely worth spending the money upfront to avoid delays. Thanks for taking the time to share your story and add to this incredibly valuable discussion. It's given me so much confidence in my plan moving forward!

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Wow, this thread has been an absolute goldmine of practical advice! As someone who's been putting off my Social Security application because I wasn't sure about the documentation requirements, reading through everyone's real experiences has been incredibly valuable. The consensus is crystal clear: while divorce papers aren't technically required initially for your own retirement benefits, if you have ANY work history under different names (which most divorced people do), you're almost guaranteed to have your application flagged for review later. The stories of 6-8 week delays are compelling enough to make the $25-35 investment in getting a certified divorce decree upfront a no-brainer. I especially appreciate the practical tips about: - Checking your earnings record first on the "my Social Security" website - Using online court portals to request certified copies (much easier than I expected!) - Ordering multiple copies while you're at it for future needs - Having all your basic documents ready (birth certificate, SS card, ID, bank info) Diego, you asked one simple question and got a complete roadmap from this amazing community! The fact that so many people took time to share their actual experiences rather than just generic advice really shows the value of forums like this. Thanks everyone for creating such a helpful resource for those of us navigating this process!

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As a newcomer to this whole Social Security process, I have to say this thread has been absolutely incredible! I'm 61 and will be eligible next year, and I've been dreading navigating all the paperwork and requirements. Reading through everyone's real-world experiences has been so much more helpful than trying to decipher the official SSA website. The pattern from everyone's stories is unmistakable - even though divorce papers aren't technically required upfront for your own retirement benefits, the reality is that SSA's system will almost certainly request them later if you have any work history under different names. The cost-benefit analysis is so obvious: spend $30 now vs. potentially wait 6-8 weeks for delayed benefits worth thousands of dollars. I love the actionable advice people have shared: - Start by reviewing your earnings record on "my Social Security" website - Use online county court portals to request certified divorce copies (who knew this was so easy now!) - Order multiple copies while you're at it - Have all your basic docs ready before applying Diego, you've gotten such a comprehensive roadmap from this community! And to everyone who shared their actual experiences - thank you for taking the time to help newcomers like us understand what to really expect. This is exactly the kind of practical guidance that makes all the difference when dealing with government processes.

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