Confused about Social Security survivor benefits FRA - is it 66 and 10 months or 4 months before age 67?
I'm trying to figure out exactly when my Full Retirement Age (FRA) is for survivor benefits. I spoke with someone at my local Social Security office last week, and they told me my FRA for survivors benefits is 66 and 10 months. But then I was reading through some comments on a retirement planning website and someone mentioned that FRA for survivors benefits is actually 4 months before your regular FRA of 67. Now I'm completely confused. I was born in 1959 if that helps. I lost my husband 3 years ago, and I want to start claiming survivor benefits as soon as I reach FRA next year. I don't want to claim early and get a reduced amount, but I also don't want to wait longer than necessary. Can anyone clarify when I should apply? Do I need to apply a few months before reaching FRA? I'm worried about missing out on payments if I don't time this right.
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Clarissa Flair
The SSA representative was correct. For survivor benefits, FRA is different than it is for retirement benefits. If you were born in 1959, your FRA for survivor benefits is indeed 66 and 10 months. The person whose comment you read was probably referring to someone born in a different year. Here's a quick breakdown: - For retirement benefits: If born in 1959, FRA is 66 and 10 months - For survivor benefits: If born in 1959, FRA is ALSO 66 and 10 months You should apply about 3-4 months before you reach your FRA to make sure the benefits start on time. The SSA can accept applications up to 4 months in advance.
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Eve Freeman
•Thank you! That helps clear things up. So it sounds like for me specifically, the FRA is the same for both retirement and survivors benefits. I appreciate the advice on applying 3-4 months early - I'll make a note to start the application process around March next year.
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Caden Turner
It used to be that survivor FRA was earlier than retirement FRA but now theyre the same for some birth years and different for others. Its all confusing on purpose if u ask me lol. When I got widows benefits they made me wait till I was 66 exactly but my sister inlaw only had to wait till 65 and 8 months for the same thing!
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Eve Freeman
•That's exactly what's confusing me! It seems like the rules are different depending on birth year. Did you apply right when you turned 66 or did you send in the application a few months early?
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Caden Turner
•I applied 2 months b4 and that was cutting it close! They were backed up and I almost missed a payment. Definitely apply earlier than u think u need to!!!!
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McKenzie Shade
For anyone born in 1959, your Full Retirement Age for survivor benefits is indeed 66 and 10 months. The confusion you're experiencing is because the FRA schedules for retirement and survivors benefits diverged for many years, but are now converging again. For people born 1957-1959, the FRA for retirement and survivors is actually the same. For people born in 1960 or later, survivors FRA is 66 and 8 months while retirement FRA is 67 (creating that 4-month difference the commenter mentioned). I'd recommend applying 3 months before reaching your FRA. Mark your calendar for exactly 3 months before you turn 66 and 10 months. This gives SSA enough time to process your application while ensuring you don't leave any money on the table.
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Harmony Love
•this is why i always tell people to just go into the office if they can! too many different rules and birth year scenarios to keep it all straight
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McKenzie Shade
•Going in person is certainly helpful if you can manage it. But most SSA offices are still operating with limited in-person services and long wait times. Applying online with the correct information is usually more efficient - just make sure you have accurate information about your specific situation first!
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Rudy Cenizo
I went through the EXACT same confusion last year about my survivor benefits!!! The online information is SO contradictory and the SSA phone reps told me 3 different things when I called on 3 different days. FINALLY got it sorted but what a nightmare! Just to add to what others have said - make sure you have ALL your documents ready when you apply. They wanted my marriage certificate, my late husband's death certificate, birth certificate, most recent tax return, and even our divorce papers from my first marriage even though that was 30 years ago!!! The whole process took MONTHS longer than it should have because they kept asking for more paperwork. And don't even get me started on trying to reach someone on the phone... I spent 4+ hours on hold multiple times just to get disconnected when they transferred me to a "specialist." 😡
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Eve Freeman
•Oh no, that sounds awful! Thanks for the warning about the documents. I'll start gathering everything now so I'm prepared. I'm dreading the phone calls though - did you ever find a good time of day to call when the wait wasn't so bad?
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Natalie Khan
•I had the same nightmare with wait times! After 3 days of trying, I found this service called Claimyr that got me through to an SSA agent in under 20 minutes. Saved me hours of frustration when I needed to sort out my RIB application. They have a video that shows how it works here: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU Their website is claimyr.com - definitely worth it when you're dealing with something as important as survivor benefits where you need to speak to an actual person. I spent two weeks trying on my own before using them.
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McKenzie Shade
One more important point: If you're still working, be aware of the earnings test. Even if you wait until your FRA for survivor benefits, if you earn above certain thresholds before the year you reach FRA, your benefits could be reduced. For 2025, if you're reaching FRA during the year but haven't reached it yet, you can earn up to $59,520 in the months before reaching FRA without reduction (this is an estimate based on current trends; the exact 2025 limit hasn't been announced yet). After you reach FRA, there's no earnings limit, so you can earn any amount without reduction of benefits.
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Eve Freeman
•That's really helpful information. I'm working part-time right now and make about $35,000 annually, so it sounds like I should be under that threshold. Is the earnings test based on yearly income or just the months before reaching FRA?
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McKenzie Shade
•It's based on earnings in the months before you reach FRA in the year you reach FRA. So if you turn 66 and 10 months in July 2025, only your earnings from January through July would count toward that higher threshold. At $35,000 annually (roughly $2,917/month), you should be well under the limit even if you only work for half the year before reaching FRA. You're in good shape with those earnings!
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Daryl Bright
my wife got survivors last year after my brother died and SSA made a HUGE MESS of the whole thing!!! they calculated it wrong first time then fixed it then said they overpaid her by $4,200 then said nevermind that was their mistake too!!! it was a nightmare for 5 months!!! dont trust anything they tell you first time, always double check the math yourself!!!
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Rudy Cenizo
•THIS!!! They did the same thing to my sister - first underpaid, then suddenly claimed she was overpaid by $3,750, then admitted it was their mistake after she spent WEEKS trying to prove she hadn't done anything wrong. The system is broken!!!
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Harmony Love
have u checked your my social security account? might show ur exact fra date on there
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Eve Freeman
•I did check my account, but it only shows my retirement FRA. I couldn't find specific information about survivor benefits in my account, which is part of why I'm confused.
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Clarissa Flair
To summarize what's been discussed and provide clear direction: 1. Since you were born in 1959, your FRA for survivor benefits is indeed 66 and 10 months 2. Apply 3-4 months before reaching that age to ensure timely processing 3. Gather all your documentation now: marriage certificate, spouse's death certificate, birth certificates, possibly prior marriage/divorce papers, and recent tax returns 4. With your current part-time income of $35,000, you should be under the earnings limit and won't face benefit reductions 5. After you reach your FRA of 66 and 10 months, you can earn unlimited income without affecting your survivor benefits You're doing the right thing by researching this in advance. Planning ahead will make the process much smoother!
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Eve Freeman
•Thank you so much for this clear summary! I feel much more confident now about what to do and when. I'll mark my calendar to apply 3 months before I turn 66 and 10 months, and I'll start gathering all my documentation right away.
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Diego Mendoza
One thing I'd add that hasn't been mentioned yet - consider whether you might benefit from a "restricted application" strategy if you're eligible for benefits on your own work record too. Sometimes it makes sense to claim survivor benefits first and let your own retirement benefits grow with delayed retirement credits until age 70, or vice versa. Since you're planning to claim at FRA next year, you might want to ask SSA to run the numbers on both scenarios during your application appointment. The difference could be significant over your lifetime, especially if your own benefit would be higher than the survivor benefit. Also, don't forget that survivor benefits can be backdated up to 6 months if you're past your FRA when you apply, but there's no advantage to waiting beyond FRA for survivor benefits (unlike retirement benefits which grow until age 70). So definitely apply right at FRA as you're planning!
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Carlos Mendoza
•This is excellent advice about considering both benefit options! I hadn't thought about comparing my own retirement benefits to the survivor benefits. My husband had a higher income than me throughout most of our marriage, so I assumed the survivor benefits would be better, but you're right that I should have SSA run the actual numbers. Is there a way to get this comparison done before I submit my application, or do I need to wait until my appointment?
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Emma Wilson
•You can actually get a benefit estimate before your formal application! Log into your my Social Security account online and look for the "Retirement Estimator" - it will show your projected retirement benefits at different claiming ages. For survivor benefits, you'll need to call SSA or visit an office since those calculations aren't available online. I'd recommend calling about 4-5 months before your FRA to get both estimates, then you can make an informed decision about which strategy works best for your situation. The SSA representative can walk you through the "what if" scenarios over the phone without you having to commit to anything. @Diego Mendoza is absolutely right about the delayed retirement credits too - if your own benefit would be substantially higher at age 70, it might be worth claiming survivor benefits first and switching later.
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Zainab Abdulrahman
I'm so glad you asked this question because I was in almost the exact same situation two years ago! Born in 1958, lost my husband, and got completely different information from different SSA representatives. What finally helped me was requesting a written estimate of my survivor benefits directly from SSA about 6 months before my FRA. They can provide this in writing, which eliminates the confusion from different phone reps giving different answers. The written estimate will show your exact FRA date and benefit amount. One tip that saved me stress: when you do apply, ask for a receipt or confirmation number for your application. I applied online but the system glitched and I had no proof I'd submitted it. Had to start over and lost a month in processing time. Also, if you have any old W-2s or earnings statements from your husband's work, gather those too. Sometimes SSA's records are incomplete and having backup documentation can prevent delays if they need to verify his earnings history. You're smart to plan ahead - it really does make all the difference in getting this process right the first time!
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Charlie Yang
•This is such helpful advice, thank you! I really like the idea of getting a written estimate - that would definitely give me more confidence than relying on what different phone representatives tell me. I'll make sure to request that about 6 months before my FRA. The tip about keeping a confirmation number is really smart too. I've heard so many stories about applications getting lost in the system. Did you end up applying online again or did you go in person the second time? I think I have most of my husband's old paperwork stored away, including some W-2s from his last few years of work. I'll dig those out and organize everything now so I'm not scrambling later. It sounds like being over-prepared is better than being caught off guard!
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Dana Doyle
•I applied online again the second time, but I took screenshots of every single page as I went through the process! I also printed out the final confirmation page immediately. The online system actually worked fine the second time - I think I just got unlucky with a technical glitch the first time around. One more thing I forgot to mention - when you're gathering those old W-2s and documents, make copies of everything before you submit anything to SSA. They sometimes request original documents and don't always return them promptly. I learned this the hard way when they held onto my husband's death certificate for three months! Having copies saved me from having to order duplicates from the county. You definitely have the right approach with being over-prepared. The whole process is stressful enough without having to hunt down missing paperwork in the middle of it. Good luck with everything!
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Noah Irving
Just want to add one more piece of advice that helped me when I went through this process - keep a detailed log of every interaction you have with SSA! Write down the date, time, who you spoke with (get their name if possible), and exactly what they told you. I had to reference this log multiple times when I got conflicting information, and it really helped when I needed to escalate an issue. When one representative told me something completely different from what I'd been told the week before, I was able to say "On [date], [name] told me X, but you're telling me Y - can you help me understand which is correct?" Also, if you do end up calling SSA, try calling right when they open (8am local time) or around 3-4pm. Those seemed to be the times when wait times were shortest in my experience. Avoid Mondays and the days right after holidays if possible - those are always the worst for wait times. You're going to do great with all this preparation! Having a clear plan and timeline like you do puts you way ahead of where most people are when they start this process.
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Sophie Footman
•This is such excellent advice about keeping a detailed log! I wish I had thought of that from the beginning. I've already had a few conversations with different SSA reps and I'm starting to forget exactly what each one told me. I'm definitely going to start documenting everything going forward. The timing tips for calling are really helpful too. I was planning to just call whenever I had time, but it makes total sense that certain times would be less busy. I'll try the 8am or 3-4pm windows you mentioned. Thank you for taking the time to share all these practical tips from your own experience. It's so reassuring to hear from people who have actually been through this process successfully. I'm feeling much more prepared and confident about tackling this now!
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Mateo Hernandez
I went through a very similar situation last year and want to emphasize something that really helped me - don't just rely on one source of information! I made the mistake of trusting the first SSA rep I spoke with, and it turned out they gave me incorrect information about my application timeline. What I ended up doing was creating a checklist based on all the advice here: 1. Get written benefit estimates from SSA (both survivor and retirement benefits) 2. Apply exactly 3 months before FRA (mark this date on your calendar NOW) 3. Gather ALL documents ahead of time and make copies 4. Keep a detailed log of every SSA interaction 5. Take screenshots/print confirmations of online applications The written estimate was a game-changer for me - it eliminated all the confusion from different phone reps giving different answers. When you request it, specifically ask them to confirm your FRA date for survivor benefits in writing. Also, since you're born in 1959, you're in that sweet spot where your retirement FRA and survivor FRA are the same (66 and 10 months). For people born after 1960, there's a difference, which is probably where some of the conflicting information you found online was coming from. You're being so smart by planning this far ahead. Most people wait until the last minute and then panic when things don't go smoothly!
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Sophia Rodriguez
•This checklist approach is brilliant! I'm definitely going to create something similar to keep myself organized. You're absolutely right about not relying on just one source - I've already experienced firsthand how different SSA representatives can give completely different information. I'm really glad you mentioned that I'm in the "sweet spot" birth year where both FRAs are the same. That explains why I was finding conflicting information online - some of it was probably meant for people born in different years where the rules are different. The written estimate seems to be the key to cutting through all the confusion. I'm going to request that as soon as I'm 6 months out from my FRA. Having everything documented officially will give me so much more peace of mind than trying to remember what different phone representatives told me. Thank you for sharing your experience and for that practical checklist! It's incredibly helpful to hear from someone who actually navigated this successfully. I'm feeling much more confident about the whole process now.
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QuantumQuester
I just want to say thank you to everyone who has shared their experiences and advice in this thread! As someone who will be going through this process myself in a few years, I'm taking notes on all of these practical tips. The consensus seems really clear: for someone born in 1959, the FRA for survivor benefits is 66 and 10 months, and you should apply 3-4 months early to ensure timely processing. The advice about getting a written estimate from SSA to eliminate confusion from different phone reps is particularly valuable. One question I have for those who have been through this - when you requested the written benefit estimate from SSA, did you have to visit an office in person or were you able to get it by phone? I'm wondering about the best way to request this documentation. Also, for @Eve Freeman - it sounds like you have a solid plan now! Your situation helped clarify so much for all of us who might face similar circumstances. Best of luck with your application process next year!
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Keisha Robinson
•I'm new to this community but found this thread incredibly helpful! I'm in a similar situation to Eve - born in 1960 and widowed last year. Reading through all these responses has been so educational. To answer your question about the written estimate - I actually just went through this process a few months ago. I was able to request the written benefit estimate over the phone, but I had to be very specific about what I wanted. I told them "I need a written estimate of my survivor benefits showing my exact FRA date and benefit amount, mailed to my address on file." They were able to send it within about 2 weeks. The key is being persistent and asking specifically for it in writing. Some phone reps will try to just give you the information verbally, but as everyone here has mentioned, having it documented eliminates so much confusion later. @Eve Freeman your thorough preparation is inspiring! This whole thread has given me a roadmap for when I need to apply next year. Thank you for asking the question that helped so many of us!
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Olivia Clark
As someone who just completed the survivor benefits application process earlier this year, I wanted to add a few practical tips that really helped me navigate the system smoothly. First, when you call SSA to request that written benefit estimate, ask them to mail it to you AND email it if possible. Having both copies saved me when I misplaced the mailed version right before my application appointment. Second, consider setting up automatic reminders on your phone for key dates - not just when to apply, but also when to start gathering documents, when to call for estimates, etc. I set reminders 6 months out, 4 months out, and 3 months out, which kept me on track without last-minute stress. One thing that surprised me was that SSA actually has a "survivorship checklist" they can send you along with the benefit estimate. It lists exactly what documents you'll need for your specific situation. This was incredibly helpful because it was personalized to my circumstances rather than generic advice. Also, if you have any questions about your late husband's work history or earnings record, now is a good time to request his Social Security Statement. Sometimes there are gaps or errors in their records that are easier to correct before you apply rather than during the application process. Your birth year of 1959 puts you in a straightforward situation with the FRA being 66 and 10 months for both retirement and survivor benefits. You're going to do great with all this advance planning!
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QuantumQuasar
•This is such valuable information! I had no idea they could email the benefit estimate too - that's a great backup to have. And the automatic phone reminders are brilliant - I'm definitely going to set those up right away so I don't accidentally miss any important deadlines. I'm particularly interested in that "survivorship checklist" you mentioned. That sounds so much more helpful than trying to guess what documents I might need based on generic online information. When you called to request your benefit estimate, did you specifically ask for the checklist or did they offer it automatically? The tip about requesting my husband's Social Security Statement is really smart too. I want to make sure everything is accurate before I start the application process. Is there a specific way to request a deceased spouse's statement, or is it the same process as requesting your own? Thank you so much for sharing these practical details from your recent experience! It's so helpful to hear from someone who just went through this process successfully.
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Lydia Bailey
•I specifically asked for the survivorship checklist when I called - they don't automatically offer it, but once I requested it, the representative was very helpful in explaining what it included. Just say something like "Can you also send me the survivorship checklist that shows what documents I'll need for my specific situation?" For your husband's Social Security Statement, you'll need to call SSA directly since you can't access a deceased person's online account. Have his Social Security number ready, along with your marriage certificate information, and they can mail you his earnings record. This helped me catch a missing year of earnings that would have reduced my benefit calculation. One more tip - when you do call for the benefit estimate and checklist, ask them to note in your file that you've requested these documents. That way if you need to call back with questions, any representative can see your previous interactions and pick up where you left off. It saved me from having to re-explain my situation multiple times!
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Emma Davis
I'm really grateful that this thread has become such a comprehensive resource! As someone who will need to navigate this process in the future, I'm bookmarking all of these practical tips. One thing I wanted to add that might be helpful - I recently attended a free Social Security workshop at my local senior center, and they mentioned that some areas have volunteer SHINE counselors (Serving Health Information Needs of Everyone) who can help with Social Security questions at no cost. They're trained volunteers who can review your specific situation and help you understand your options. It might be worth checking if your area has SHINE counselors or similar volunteer programs. Having someone knowledgeable review your plans before you apply could provide additional peace of mind, especially with all the different strategies mentioned here about comparing survivor benefits vs. your own retirement benefits. The workshop leader also emphasized keeping copies of EVERYTHING you submit to SSA, which echoes what several people here have mentioned. She said to treat it like a business transaction and maintain your own complete file of all interactions and documents. @Eve Freeman, you're so well-prepared now with everyone's advice! This thread should be required reading for anyone approaching survivor benefits decisions.
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Kiara Fisherman
•Thank you for mentioning SHINE counselors! I had never heard of that program before but it sounds like exactly the kind of free, knowledgeable help that could be really valuable when navigating these complex decisions. I'll definitely look into whether there are any SHINE counselors in my area. The idea of having someone review my plans before I apply is really appealing, especially after reading about all the different strategies people have mentioned here. With questions about whether to claim survivor benefits first or my own retirement benefits, having an expert opinion could save me from making the wrong choice. I'm absolutely going to treat this like a business transaction as your workshop leader suggested. After hearing all the stories about SSA losing documents or making calculation errors, keeping my own complete file seems essential for protecting myself. This whole thread has been incredibly educational - I feel like I have a complete roadmap now thanks to everyone's shared experiences and advice!
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