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Sydney Torres

Can my ex claim Social Security spousal benefits with CSRS pension and insufficient quarters?

I'm trying to figure out a complicated Social Security situation involving my ex, our disabled adult child, and a federal pension. My ex-spouse worked for the federal government for 31 years under the Civil Service Retirement System (CSRS) and doesn't have the 40 quarters needed for Social Security benefits on his own record. We were married for 29 years before divorcing about 5 years ago, and he hasn't remarried. I've worked in the private sector my whole career and will be eligible for my own Social Security retirement benefits when I turn 62 next year. Our adult son has severe medical conditions requiring ongoing expensive treatments that are creating significant financial strain. I'm wondering if my ex would be eligible to file for Social Security ex-spouse benefits based on my earnings record once I turn 62, even with his CSRS pension? Would the Government Pension Offset (GPO) completely eliminate any potential benefits? I'm trying to explore every possible financial option to help cover our son's medical expenses. Any insights on how this works with CSRS pensions and divorced spouse benefits would be greatly appreciated.

Yes, your ex-husband could potentially file for divorced spousal benefits based on your record once you turn 62, but there's a major complication: the Government Pension Offset (GPO). For people who receive pensions from jobs not covered by Social Security (like CSRS), their Social Security spousal or survivor benefits are reduced by 2/3 of their government pension amount. With CSRS pensions typically being substantial, this often eliminates any spousal benefit completely. For example, if his CSRS pension is $3,000/month, the GPO would reduce any potential Social Security spousal benefit by $2,000. Since the maximum spousal benefit would be 50% of your full retirement age benefit (and reduced further if claimed before his full retirement age), it's unlikely he'd receive anything after the GPO reduction. However, you should look into whether your adult son might qualify for Social Security Disability (SSDI) as a Disabled Adult Child (DAC) on your record once you file.

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Sydney Torres

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Thank you for explaining the GPO situation. I was afraid that might be the case. His CSRS pension is actually around $4,200/month, so I guess that would completely wipe out any potential spousal benefit. I hadn't considered the Disabled Adult Child option for our son - can you explain more about how that works? Would he need to have become disabled before a certain age to qualify?

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Caleb Bell

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My cousin went through something similar with his ex and CSRS!! The GPO basically eliminated EVERYTHING she might have gotten. It's SO unfair how they treat government employees with that stupid offset. Has your son applied for SSI already? That might help with some expenses even though the amount is pretty low. Also, check if your state has any supplemental programs for disabled adults.

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ya the 2/3 reduction is brutal. my dad had a similar situation with a state pension that wasnt covered by SS and he got basically nothing from my moms record even after 40 yrs married. system is rigged IMO

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Rhett Bowman

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For your son to qualify as a Disabled Adult Child (DAC) on your record, he would need to meet several specific criteria: 1. His disability must have begun before age 22 2. He must meet Social Security's definition of disability 3. He must be unmarried 4. He generally can't have substantial employment If he meets these requirements, he could potentially receive up to 50% of your Primary Insurance Amount (PIA) while you're living, or 75% as a survivor benefit after your passing. This benefit would begin when you start collecting retirement benefits. The advantage of DAC benefits over SSI is there are no asset limits, and the payment is typically higher. Regarding your ex-spouse, while he is technically eligible for divorced spouse benefits (marriage over 10 years, currently unmarried), the GPO will almost certainly eliminate any payment. With a $4,200 CSRS pension, the offset would be $2,800 (2/3 of $4,200), which would exceed any potential spousal benefit he might receive.

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Sydney Torres

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This is incredibly helpful information! Our son's disabilities started when he was 17, so he would meet that age requirement. He's 32 now, unmarried, and unable to work. We've been covering his medical costs through our insurance and out of pocket, but never pursued SSDI for him. I'll definitely look into the DAC benefits when I apply for retirement next year. Thank you so much for pointing me in this direction!

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Abigail Patel

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Have you or your ex tried calling the SSA directly to ask about this? Because sometimes the rules have exceptions or weird loopholes. I spent WEEKS trying to get answers about my own situation last year but couldn't get through on the phone. So frustrating!!!!

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Nolan Carter

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wait im confused about something. i thought the 40 quarters thing only applied to retirement benefits. doesnt ur ex-husband only need 10 years of marriage to claim on your record? thats what my sister did with her ex.

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You're partially correct. The ex-spouse doesn't need 40 quarters on their own record to claim divorced spouse benefits - they just need the marriage to have lasted at least 10 years (which it did in this case at 29 years). The 40 quarters (10 years) of work requirement applies to the person whose earnings record is being claimed against (the original poster in this case). The complication here isn't quarters of coverage but rather the Government Pension Offset that applies because the ex-spouse receives a pension from work not covered by Social Security.

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Caleb Bell

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I just remembered something!! Check if your state has a Medicaid waiver program for disabled adults! My nephew gets services through something called the Home and Community Based Services waiver and it covers a TON of his medical expenses that regular insurance doesn't. The waiting lists can be long in some states but its worth getting on them ASAP!!

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Sydney Torres

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Thank you! We're in Ohio and I've heard about waiver programs but never fully investigated them. I'll definitely look into this right away. At this point, we need to explore every possible option for assistance with his care costs.

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sounds like ur worried mostly about ur sons expenses? u might want to also think about setting up a special needs trust for him. doesnt help now but for future planning its important. thats what my sister did for my nephew

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Sydney Torres

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Yes, we're definitely concerned about his long-term care. We have started exploring special needs trusts but haven't set one up yet. Did your sister work with a specific type of attorney for that? The whole process seems complicated.

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Rhett Bowman

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One other aspect to consider regarding your son's situation: If he qualifies for DAC benefits on your record, he would also become eligible for Medicare after receiving SSDI for 24 months, regardless of his age. This could significantly help with his medical expenses. Also, while your ex-spouse likely won't receive benefits due to GPO, it's still worth having him check with SSA directly about his specific situation. The calculations can be complex, especially with the interplay between CSRS, divorced spouse benefits, and how GPO is precisely applied. Occasionally, if someone has some quarters of Social Security coverage (even if less than 40), the calculation might result in a small benefit remaining after GPO.

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Caleb Bell

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The Medicare eligibility is HUGE!!!! My brother is on DAC benefits and the Medicare coverage made a MASSIVE difference for his healthcare. Definitely look into this!!

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Emma Taylor

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As someone who went through a similar situation with my disabled daughter, I can't stress enough how important it is to pursue the DAC benefits that others have mentioned! The Medicare eligibility after 24 months of SSDI is absolutely life-changing for covering medical expenses. One thing I learned the hard way - start the DAC application process as soon as possible after you file for retirement benefits. The paperwork can take months to process, and you'll want to gather all medical documentation showing your son's disability onset before age 22. Also, regarding the special needs trust question - we worked with an elder law attorney who specializes in disability planning. They're usually more knowledgeable about the specific rules that protect benefits eligibility. The National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys has a good directory on their website. For your ex-spouse, even though the GPO will likely eliminate benefits, it might still be worth having him apply just to get an official determination. Sometimes there are small amounts that survive the offset, and you never know until you get the actual calculation from SSA.

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This is such valuable advice, thank you! I'm feeling much more hopeful about the DAC benefits for our son after reading everyone's responses. Can you tell me more about what specific medical documentation I should start gathering? We have years of records from multiple specialists, but I want to make sure I'm focusing on the right things to prove his disability onset before age 22. Also, do you remember roughly how long the DAC application process took in your daughter's case?

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Chloe Zhang

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I'm sorry, but I think there might be some confusion in the conversation. Looking back at the original post, Sydney Torres (the original poster) mentioned that her son is 32 years old and has severe medical conditions that started when he was 17. Oliver Alexander seems to be asking about gathering documentation, but he's not the original poster - Sydney is the one who would need to apply for DAC benefits for her son. To clarify for Sydney: You'll want to gather medical records from when your son was 17 showing the onset of his disabilities, along with any psychological evaluations, treatment records, and statements from doctors about his functional limitations. The key is proving continuous disability from before age 22. You should also collect any educational records (like IEP documents) that show his limitations during school years. Start with your son's primary care physician and any specialists who treated him during his teenage years - they can provide crucial documentation for the DAC application.

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Thank you for clearing that up! You're absolutely right - I got confused about who was asking what. As the original poster Sydney, I really appreciate all the detailed advice about the DAC benefits. I'll definitely start gathering those medical records from when our son was 17, including his IEP documents from high school. His pediatric neurologist and the developmental pediatrician who first diagnosed his conditions should have the key records showing the onset. This whole thread has been incredibly helpful - I had no idea about DAC benefits before today, and now it seems like our best path forward for getting him some financial assistance and eventually Medicare coverage.

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