Which address should I put on my W4 form for a new job?
Hey everyone, I feel kinda silly asking this but I just graduated and am trying to navigate the "real world" stuff now. I'm starting a new part-time job soon (my second job actually) and I'm filling out the W4 form but not sure which address to use. I'm moving to a new apartment next month in the same city as my college, but my permanent address has always been my parents' house in another city (still in the same state though). For my first job, I put my parents' address on the W4 since that's what I've always done for university jobs. Should I use the same address for this new W4 to keep things consistent? Or should I use my new apartment address since that's where I'll actually be living? Not sure if it matters for tax purposes or if I'm overthinking this completely. Any advice would be super appreciated!
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Logan Chiang
Welcome to adulting! This is actually a really common question and you're smart to ask. For your W4, you should use the address where you want to receive tax-related mail, especially your W-2 form which you'll need for filing taxes. The IRS doesn't actually care which address you use as long as you can reliably receive mail there. If you'll be at your apartment for a while and can reliably receive mail there, I'd suggest using that address. However, if you move frequently (as many recent grads do), using your parents' address might be more practical since you won't have to update your address with your employer every time you move. Just make sure whichever address you choose is where you want your W-2 sent in January. And remember, if you do change addresses, you should update your employer with the new information.
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Isla Fischer
•What if I already sent in my W4 with my old address but then I move? Do I need to fill out a whole new W4 or is there another form for just updating your address?
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Logan Chiang
•You don't need to complete an entire new W4 just for an address change. Most employers have a simple change of address form or process through their HR department or employee portal. Just reach out to HR or your manager and let them know you need to update your address. If for some reason your employer does want a new W4, that's fine too - you'd just fill it out the same way as before but with your new address. The important thing is making sure they have the correct address to send your tax documents at the beginning of next year.
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Miles Hammonds
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Ruby Blake
•How exactly does taxr.ai work? Can it actually help with stuff like figuring out where my W-2s went if they got sent to the wrong address?
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Micah Franklin
•Sounds interesting but is it secure? I'm always nervous about uploading tax docs to random websites...
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Miles Hammonds
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Micah Franklin
Just wanted to update that I checked out taxr.ai after asking about it here and it was actually super helpful! I had a couple old W-2s from college jobs that I wasn't sure if I needed to include on my taxes this year, and the document analyzer cleared it up right away. Saved me from having to pay an accountant just to ask basic questions. Definitely recommend for other new grads trying to figure this stuff out!
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Ella Harper
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PrinceJoe
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Brooklyn Knight
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Ella Harper
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Brooklyn Knight
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Owen Devar
Quick tip from someone who's been through this: If you're getting your W-2 electronically (many companies offer this now), the physical address matters a lot less. Ask your HR if they have an electronic W-2 option. It's more secure anyway!
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Abigail Spencer
•Thanks for bringing this up! I didn't even think to ask about electronic W-2s. Do most companies offer this option now?
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Owen Devar
•Many medium and large companies definitely offer electronic W-2s now. It's becoming more standard each year since it saves them money on printing and mailing. Even some smaller companies use payroll services like ADP or Paychex that have electronic W-2 options built in. Just ask your HR department or check your employee portal if there's an option to "opt in" for electronic tax documents. You usually need to explicitly consent to receiving them electronically rather than by mail.
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Daniel Rivera
Am I the only one who's had issues with mail getting lost when I use my apartment address? I always use my parents' address for important stuff because in my apartment complex packages and mail randomly disappear or get delivered to the wrong unit.
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Sophie Footman
•Nope, you're definitely not alone! I use a PO box for all important mail for this exact reason. Worth the small fee for the peace of mind knowing my tax documents aren't sitting in an unsecured mailbox or getting delivered to my neighbors.
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Gabrielle Dubois
This is such a relatable question! I went through the same confusion when I started my first "real" job after college. Here's what I learned from experience: The most important thing is consistency and reliability. If you're planning to stay at your new apartment for at least the next year (through tax season), I'd recommend using that address since it's where you'll actually be living and receiving mail daily. However, if you think there's a good chance you might move again before next January when W-2s get mailed out, stick with your parents' address. Moving is so common for recent grads, and having to chase down tax documents that got sent to an old address is a huge headache. One more thing to consider - make sure whoever's address you use knows to expect important tax mail and will forward it to you promptly if needed. I've seen friends miss tax deadlines because their parents forgot to mention a W-2 arrived! You're definitely not overthinking it - getting this stuff right from the start saves so much stress later. Good luck with the new job!
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Malik Robinson
•This is really helpful advice! I especially appreciate the point about making sure whoever's address you use knows to expect the tax documents. That's something I hadn't thought about - I can totally see how easy it would be for parents to accidentally set aside a W-2 with other mail and forget to mention it. The consistency point makes a lot of sense too. I think I'm leaning toward using my parents' address since I'm honestly not 100% sure how long I'll stay at this apartment. Better safe than sorry when it comes to tax stuff! Thanks for sharing your experience - it's reassuring to know other people have been through this same confusion!
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Louisa Ramirez
Great question! I went through this exact same situation a few years ago. Here's what I wish someone had told me: The address on your W4 is primarily for mailing purposes - it's where your employer will send your W-2 and any other tax-related correspondence. The IRS doesn't actually care which address you use as long as you can receive mail there reliably. My recommendation: Use your parents' address for now, especially since you mentioned this is only your second job and you're still transitioning into post-grad life. Here's why: 1. **Stability** - Parents' addresses tend to be more permanent than young adults' apartments 2. **Reliability** - Your parents can hold onto important documents even if you move unexpectedly 3. **Backup** - If something happens with mail delivery, your parents are more likely to notice and follow up You can always update your address with HR later if your living situation becomes more permanent. Most employers make address changes pretty straightforward. The key thing is just making sure wherever you choose, that person/place will reliably receive and hold onto your tax documents until you need them. Don't stress too much about this - you're asking the right questions and thinking ahead, which puts you ahead of a lot of people starting their first jobs!
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Fatima Al-Suwaidi
•This is such solid advice! I'm in a similar boat as a recent grad and the stability point really resonates. I've already moved twice since graduating last year and I'm so glad I kept my parents' address for all my official documents. One thing I'd add - if you do use your parents' address, make sure to give them a heads up about when to expect important tax documents (usually late January/early February for W-2s). My mom almost threw away what she thought was junk mail but it was actually my 1099 from a freelance gig! @Abigail Spencer - whatever you decide, just make sure the address you choose is somewhere you can count on getting your documents. You ve'got this! Welcome to the real "world tax" confusion club 😅
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Dmitry Smirnov
I'm dealing with a similar situation right now! Just wanted to add that if you do decide to use your apartment address, consider setting up mail forwarding with USPS as a backup plan. It's pretty inexpensive (I think around $1.10 per week) and ensures that if you do move unexpectedly, your important mail will follow you to your new address for up to a year. I learned this the hard way when I moved last spring and forgot to update my address with one of my employers. Thankfully the mail forwarding caught my W-2, but it would have been a nightmare trying to get a replacement copy. Also, since you mentioned this is your second job - make sure you're aware that you might need to adjust your withholdings on the W-4 since having multiple jobs can affect how much tax is taken out. The IRS has a pretty helpful online calculator for this if you want to double-check that you're not going to owe a bunch at tax time! Good luck with the new job - you're definitely not overthinking this. It's way better to ask these questions upfront than deal with complications later!
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Zainab Mahmoud
•This is really great practical advice! The mail forwarding tip is brilliant - I had no idea USPS offered that service for such a reasonable price. That definitely gives me more confidence about potentially using my apartment address knowing there's a safety net if I need to move unexpectedly. And thank you for bringing up the multiple jobs withholding issue! I honestly hadn't even thought about that but it makes total sense that having two jobs could affect my tax situation. I'll definitely check out that IRS calculator you mentioned - better to figure this out now than get hit with a surprise tax bill later. It's so helpful hearing from people who've actually been through these situations. Makes me feel a lot less anxious about navigating all this adult stuff!
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Mateo Lopez
I'm actually going through this exact same situation right now! Just started my first full-time job after graduation and was so confused about the address thing on my W4. Reading through all these responses has been super helpful - I love how supportive this community is for us new grads trying to figure everything out. I think I'm going to go with my parents' address for now since I'm still in that "young adult nomad" phase where I might end up moving again in the next year or two. One thing that's been stressing me out though is making sure I don't mess up anything else on the W4. Are there any other common mistakes new grads make on these forms that I should watch out for? I keep second-guessing myself on every line! Thanks for creating such a helpful thread @Abigail Spencer - it's nice to know we're all fumbling through adulting together! 😊
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Miguel Castro
•@Mateo Lopez Congrats on the new job! You re'definitely not alone in feeling overwhelmed by the W4 - I remember staring at mine for like an hour trying to make sure I didn t'mess anything up 😅 A few things that tripped me up when I was filling out my first W4: - The dependents "section" - if you re'single and your parents still claim you as a dependent on their taxes, you typically wouldn t'claim yourself - Step 2 multiple (jobs -) since you mentioned this, make sure you check the box if you have more than one job or your spouse works - Don t'overthink the extra "withholding section" unless you have a specific reason to withhold more The good news is that W4s aren t'permanent! You can always submit a new one to HR if your situation changes or if you realize you made a mistake. Most employers are pretty understanding about new grads needing to make adjustments. Also, keep your first paystub when you get it and double-check that the right amount of taxes are being withheld - if something looks off, that s'when you d'want to submit an updated W4. You ve'got this! The fact that you re'asking questions and being thoughtful about it means you re'already ahead of the game! 🙌
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Carmella Popescu
As someone who's been helping people navigate tax issues for years, I wanted to jump in with a practical perspective on this address question. The consensus here is spot-on - use whichever address ensures you'll reliably receive your tax documents. But I'd add one more consideration: if you're planning to itemize deductions (which is less common for new grads but worth mentioning), your actual residence address can matter for certain state and local tax deductions. For most recent grads in your situation, I'd recommend the parents' address approach for the reasons others have mentioned - stability and reliability trump everything else when it comes to tax documents. One pro tip: Regardless of which address you choose, set a calendar reminder for late January to follow up and make sure your W-2 arrived. I've seen too many people scramble in March because they assumed their W-2 was delivered when it actually got lost in the mail or sent to an old address. Also, since you mentioned you're navigating "real world" stuff - consider this your first lesson in documentation! Keep a copy of your completed W4 for your records, along with any address change notifications you submit later. Having that paper trail can save you headaches down the road. You're asking all the right questions - that attention to detail will serve you well as you navigate your career!
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Luca Romano
•This is such valuable advice, especially the calendar reminder tip! I never would have thought to proactively follow up on my W-2 arrival, but that makes so much sense. It's way better to catch a delivery issue in February than scramble in April when you're trying to file. The documentation point is really smart too - I'm definitely going to start keeping copies of all these forms. It sounds like building good record-keeping habits early will pay off big time later on. Thanks for sharing your professional perspective on this! It's reassuring to hear from someone with experience that we're all thinking about this the right way. The "stability and reliability trump everything" advice really crystallizes what everyone's been saying. I feel so much more confident about tackling my W-4 now after reading through all these responses. This community is amazing for helping new grads like us figure out all this adulting stuff! 🙏
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Zoe Papadakis
Hey @Abigail Spencer! Don't feel silly at all - this is exactly the kind of question we should all be asking when starting out. I'm also a recent grad and went through this same dilemma last year. From reading all the great advice here, it sounds like you've got two solid options. Given that you mentioned you're not sure how permanent your apartment situation will be, I'd lean toward using your parents' address for consistency. The peace of mind of knowing your tax documents will definitely reach you (through your parents) is worth a lot. One thing I'd add that hasn't been mentioned yet - if you do go with your parents' address, maybe set up a shared Google calendar event or reminder system with them for tax season. That way they'll know to expect your W-2 in January and can give you a heads up right away when it arrives. Also, definitely ask your new employer about electronic W-2 delivery like @Owen Devar suggested. More and more companies are offering this option and it completely eliminates the address concern! You're being really smart by thinking through all of this upfront. Welcome to the working world - you're going to do great! 🎉
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Talia Klein
•@Zoe Papadakis That shared calendar idea with parents is genius! I never thought about setting up a system like that but it makes total sense - especially since my parents aren t'always the best at remembering to tell me when important mail arrives 😅 I m'definitely going to ask about electronic W-2 delivery at my new job. It seems like such an obvious solution that I can t'believe I didn t'think of it before. Plus it s'probably more secure than having paper documents floating around in the mail system. Thanks for the encouragement too! It s'so nice to connect with other recent grads going through the same stuff. Sometimes I feel like I m'the only one who has no idea what I m'doing, but threads like this remind me we re'all figuring it out together. Really appreciate everyone sharing their experiences and advice - this community rocks! 💪
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Liam Mendez
This is such a helpful thread! As another recent grad who just went through this same confusion, I wanted to share what ended up working for me. I initially used my apartment address on my W4 because I thought that's what you're "supposed" to do, but then I moved unexpectedly in November and completely forgot to update my address with HR. When January rolled around, my W-2 got sent to my old apartment and the new tenants weren't very helpful about forwarding mail. I ended up having to contact my employer's payroll department to get a duplicate W-2 sent to my new address, which delayed my tax filing by almost a month. Such a headache that could have been easily avoided! Now I use my parents' address for all tax-related documents, even though I live independently. It's just so much more reliable, especially when you're in that post-grad phase where living situations can change quickly. The electronic W-2 suggestion that others mentioned is also brilliant - I switched to that option this year and it's so much more convenient. No worrying about mail delivery at all! @Abigail Spencer you're definitely not overthinking this - getting it right the first time will save you so much stress later. Good luck with the new job!
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Paolo Rizzo
•@Liam Mendez Oh wow, that s'exactly the kind of nightmare scenario I was worried about! Thanks for sharing that experience - it really drives home why so many people are recommending the parents address' route. Having to chase down tax documents and delay filing sounds incredibly stressful. Your story is a perfect example of why the reliability "over everything else advice" makes so much sense. Even when we think we re'being responsible by using our actual residence address, life happens and situations change unexpectedly. I m'definitely going to ask about electronic W-2s at my new job after reading all these responses. It seems like the best of both worlds - no address concerns AND more secure than paper mail. Thanks for taking the time to share your experience - these real-world examples are so much more helpful than just reading generic advice online. It s'really reassuring to know that even when things go wrong with tax documents, there are ways to fix it even (if it s'a hassle .)You ve'convinced me that going with my parents address' is probably the safest bet for now!
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Yuki Ito
This thread has been incredibly helpful! As someone who's also navigating the transition from college to "real world" employment, I really appreciate how everyone has shared their experiences and practical advice. From everything I've read here, it seems like the key factors to consider are: 1. **Reliability** - Choose the address where you're most confident you'll receive important tax documents 2. **Stability** - Consider how likely you are to move in the next year 3. **Communication** - Make sure whoever receives mail at that address will promptly notify you when tax documents arrive The electronic W-2 option that several people mentioned sounds like a game-changer for avoiding these address concerns altogether. I had no idea so many employers offered this now! I also love the practical tips people shared, like setting calendar reminders to follow up on W-2 delivery and the mail forwarding service from USPS as a backup plan. These are exactly the kinds of "adulting" strategies I wish someone had taught me earlier. @Abigail Spencer - after reading all these responses, it sounds like you really can't go wrong either way as long as you choose the address where you'll most reliably receive your documents. The fact that you're asking these questions upfront shows you're thinking about this the right way. Best of luck with your new job!
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Nadia Zaldivar
•@Yuki Ito This is such a great summary of all the key points from this discussion! I love how you organized the main factors to consider - it really helps clarify the decision-making process. As someone who s'also new to all this tax stuff, I m'finding this whole conversation super educational. The electronic W-2 option especially seems like such a smart solution that I wish more people knew about. I m'definitely going to make that one of my first questions when I start my new job next month. The reliability factor really stands out to me after reading @Liam Mendez s story'about his W-2 getting sent to the wrong address. It s such'a simple thing but can cause major headaches if it goes wrong during tax season. @Abigail Spencer - I hope all this advice has helped you feel more confident about your decision! It s honestly so'reassuring to see other recent grads going through the same questions and concerns. Makes me feel less alone in trying to figure out all this adult stuff. Good "luck" with your new job - you ve got this!'🎉
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Diego Castillo
Hey @Abigail Spencer! Congrats on the new job! 🎉 This is definitely not a silly question at all - I remember being so confused about this exact same thing when I started my first job after college. The W-4 address situation is something they really should teach us in school but never do! After reading through all the great advice here, I think the consensus is pretty clear: go with reliability over technicalities. Since you mentioned you're not sure how permanent your apartment situation will be, using your parents' address sounds like the smartest move. You can always update it later if your living situation becomes more stable. I especially liked the point someone made about setting up communication with your parents so they know to expect tax documents and will let you know right away when they arrive. Maybe even ask them to text you a photo of any tax-related mail so you know it's there! Also definitely ask your new employer about electronic W-2 delivery - it sounds like more and more companies are offering this option and it would completely eliminate the address concerns. You're being really smart by thinking through all of this ahead of time. Most people just fill out the W-4 without giving it much thought and then run into problems later. The fact that you're asking questions shows you're going to handle this whole "adulting" thing just fine! Good luck with everything! 😊
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Ethan Anderson
•@Diego Castillo Thanks for the encouragement and congrats! You re'absolutely right that this stuff should be taught in school - I feel like there are so many basic "adult" things that we re'just expected to figure out on our own. The photo suggestion is really smart! My parents are pretty good about letting me know when important mail arrives, but having them send a quick photo would give me peace of mind and help me keep track of what documents I m'expecting. Reading through everyone s'experiences in this thread has been so reassuring. It s'amazing how many people have gone through this exact same confusion and came out just fine. I m'feeling much more confident about my decision now - I think I ll'go with my parents address' for the W4 and definitely ask about electronic delivery options too. Thanks to everyone who shared their advice and experiences! This community is seriously the best for helping us navigate all this new territory. Now I just need to actually fill out the form and stop overthinking it! 😅
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Jabari-Jo
Hey @Abigail Spencer! First off, congrats on the new job - that's so exciting! 🎉 I totally get why this feels overwhelming, but honestly you're asking exactly the right questions. I went through this same situation when I graduated and it's definitely not something they prepare you for in college! After reading through all the great advice here, I think everyone's hit on the key point: reliability is everything when it comes to tax documents. Since you mentioned you're moving next month and aren't sure how long you'll stay at the new apartment, I'd definitely recommend going with your parents' address for now. Here's what worked for me: I used my parents' address for the first couple years after graduation while I was still figuring out my living situation. It gave me so much peace of mind knowing my W-2 would definitely reach me, especially during that phase where I moved twice in one year! You can always update your address with HR later once you're more settled. Also, definitely take the advice about asking for electronic W-2 delivery if your employer offers it. That completely eliminates the whole address concern and is way more secure than paper mail. The fact that you're thinking through all of this ahead of time shows you're going to handle the transition to working life really well. Don't stress too much about getting everything perfect right away - we're all learning as we go! Good luck with everything! 😊
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Paolo Longo
•@Jabari-Jo Thank you so much for the congrats and encouragement! It's honestly been such a relief reading through everyone's responses - I was definitely overthinking this way more than I needed to. The reliability point really resonates with me after hearing all these stories about W-2s getting lost or sent to old addresses. I think you're absolutely right that using my parents' address makes the most sense for now, especially since I am planning to move next month and who knows what might happen after that! I love how supportive everyone has been in this thread. It's so nice to know that other people have gone through this exact same confusion and everything worked out fine. Makes me feel way less anxious about navigating all this new "adult" stuff. I'm definitely going to ask about electronic W-2 delivery at my new job - that seems like such an obvious solution that I can't believe I didn't think of it before. Thanks again for taking the time to share your experience! This community is seriously amazing for helping us recent grads figure things out. 🙏
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Isabella Silva
Welcome to the working world, @Abigail Spencer! This is definitely not a silly question at all - I think most of us have been in this exact situation. I went through something very similar when I graduated. What helped me decide was thinking about it from a practical standpoint: where will I most reliably receive important mail over the next year? Since you mentioned you're moving next month and this is still a relatively new living situation, I'd lean toward using your parents' address for consistency. The W-4 address is really just about where you want your tax documents mailed, and the IRS doesn't care which one you choose as long as you can actually receive the mail there. Since young professionals tend to move around more frequently (I moved three times in my first two years after college!), having that stable "home base" address can be really valuable. One thing I'd definitely recommend is asking your new employer about electronic W-2 delivery if they offer it. That completely eliminates the address concern and you'll get your tax documents faster and more securely. Many companies are moving toward this option now. Whatever you decide, just make sure to communicate with whoever will be receiving mail at that address so they know to expect tax documents in January. And remember, you can always update your address with HR if your situation changes! You're being really thoughtful about this - that attention to detail will serve you well in your career. Good luck with the new job! 🎉
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