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Everett Tutum

What happens if someone gifts me a large sum of money and they pass away before paying gift taxes?

My aunt recently gave me a substantial amount of money (over $17,000) as a gift to help with my student loans. The thing is, she unexpectedly passed away about three weeks after sending me the money. I'm pretty sure she didn't file any gift tax paperwork or pay taxes on it since everything happened so quickly and her death was unexpected. I'm completely lost about what happens in this situation. Does the IRS somehow track these large gifts? Will I be responsible for paying the gift tax she would have owed? Or does it somehow get handled through her estate? I don't want to get into trouble with the IRS, but I also don't know what steps I need to take or if I should just leave it alone. Any advice would be really appreciated because I've been stressing about this for weeks.

Sunny Wang

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The good news is that as the recipient, you're not responsible for paying gift tax - that falls on the person making the gift (in this case, your aunt). Gift tax is the responsibility of the giver, not the receiver. Here's what typically happens: Your aunt's executor or personal representative would need to file a gift tax return (Form 709) for the year in which she made the gift. This would be part of settling her estate. The gift would count against her lifetime gift and estate tax exemption, which is quite substantial - $12.92 million per individual for 2023 (and likely higher for 2025). Most people never exceed this amount, so no actual tax might be owed. Regardless, you don't have to worry about paying the gift tax yourself. The money you received is not considered taxable income to you. Your responsibility in this situation is simply to provide information about the gift if the executor asks, as they'll need it for proper reporting.

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Thank you for the information! I'm the executor of her estate (I'm her only living relative besides her brother who is elderly). Does this mean I need to file the Form 709 when I do her final tax return? And do I just include the amount she gifted me, or do I need to list any other gifts she might have given to others that I don't know about?

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Sunny Wang

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Yes, as the executor, you should file Form 709 (United States Gift Tax Return) for your aunt. This would be separate from her final income tax return (Form 1040). You would include the gift she made to you on this form. You should make a reasonable effort to identify any other substantial gifts she may have made during the same calendar year. Check her bank statements for large withdrawals or transfers. If she had an accountant or financial advisor, they might have information about other gifts. The form requires reporting of gifts above the annual exclusion amount (which was $17,000 per recipient for 2023), so you only need to report gifts that exceeded that threshold.

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Just want to add a quick note - make sure you check if your state has its own gift tax too! The federal rules are one thing, but some states have additional requirements. Where I live, there was a separate state gift tax form that had to be filed even though no federal tax was owed. Easy to overlook!

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Caden Turner

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Really? Which states still have gift taxes? I thought most had gotten rid of them years ago.

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You're right that most states have eliminated their gift taxes. Currently, only Connecticut still has a separate gift tax. I should have been more specific - what I encountered was that some states consider gifts made shortly before death to be part of the estate for state inheritance tax purposes (called "contemplation of death" rules). In my case, it was Minnesota, which doesn't have a gift tax but does have estate tax implications for certain gifts made within three years of death. Always good to check your specific state's rules!

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Do you know the total amount of gifts your aunt gave throughout her lifetime? The lifetime exemption is pretty high (over $12 million), but if she was very wealthy and had already used up a lot of her exemption, it could affect the tax situation for her estate.

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Everett Tutum

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I really don't know how much she gave in her lifetime. She wasn't super wealthy or anything - she was a retired school teacher, but she was really good with saving and investing. This gift to me was about $22,000, which I know is over the annual limit. I don't think she made many other large gifts that I know of, but I'm not 100% sure.

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Since you mentioned your aunt was a retired teacher who was good with saving and investing, it's very unlikely she exceeded the lifetime gift and estate tax exemption. Even if she made occasional large gifts over the years, the current exemption is $13.61 million per person for 2024 (and will be even higher for 2025), so most people never come close to owing actual gift tax. As the executor, you'll want to look through her financial records to see if she ever filed Form 709 in previous years - that would tell you if she made other large gifts that used up part of her exemption. But honestly, with a $22,000 gift being notable enough for you to worry about, it sounds like she probably stayed well within the exemption limits. The main thing is just making sure you file that Form 709 for the year she made the gift to you, even if no tax is actually owed. It's more about proper documentation than owing money to the IRS.

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This is really helpful context! I was worried about the tax implications but it sounds like for someone with her background, we're probably nowhere near those exemption limits. I'll definitely look through her papers to see if she filed any Form 709s before - that's a great suggestion I hadn't thought of. Quick question though - when I file the Form 709 for her, do I need to estimate what her total lifetime gifts were, or can I just report the gift she made to me and note that I don't have complete records of other potential gifts? I'm trying to be thorough but also don't want to make things more complicated than they need to be.

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