Understanding Tax-Free Gift Rules - Can Spouses Each Give $18K to the Same Person?

Yes, you absolutely can do this! This is called "gift splitting" and it's perfectly legal. Each spouse can give up to the annual exclusion amount ($18K in 2025) to any number of recipients. So you can give $18K and your husband can give $18K to your daughter, for a total of $36K with no gift tax consequences. And yes, you can do it again in January since that's a new tax year. So technically, if you give $36K in December 2025 and another $36K in January 2026, you could transfer $72K within a span of just a few weeks, all gift-tax free! Just remember that these gifts aren't tax deductions for you - they're just exempt from gift tax. The recipient (your daughter) never has to pay income tax on gifts received, regardless of the amount.

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Don't forget that if you're helping with a home purchase, you can also pay the mortgage lender or title company directly for your daughter's benefit, and that amount won't count toward your annual gift exclusion! This is because payments made directly to educational institutions or medical facilities (including some housing-related expenses) are exempt from gift tax regardless of amount. So theoretically, you could give $36K directly to your daughter ($18K from each parent) AND pay some closing costs directly to the title company without hitting gift tax limits. This is how my parents helped us with our home purchase last year.

One thing nobody has mentioned yet - if you do end up giving more than the annual exclusion amount, it doesn't automatically mean you'll owe gift taxes. It just means you have to file a gift tax return (Form 709) and it counts against your lifetime estate and gift tax exclusion (which is over $13 million per person in 2025). So even if you accidentally go over the $18k per person annual limit, you probably won't actually pay any gift tax unless you've given away millions over your lifetime. The annual exclusion is just about whether you need to report the gift or not.

This is really helpful information! I'm in a similar situation with wanting to help my son with his first home purchase. One additional tip I learned from our family attorney - if you're doing the December/January strategy to maximize gifts across tax years, make sure the checks are actually deposited in the correct years. So if you write a check in late December but your daughter doesn't deposit it until January, the IRS considers that a gift in the year it was deposited (January), not when it was written. This could mess up your timing if you're trying to use both the 2025 and 2026 annual exclusions. We ended up doing electronic transfers to make sure the timing was crystal clear - $36K transferred on December 28th, 2024, and another $36K on January 3rd, 2025. Worked perfectly and gave our son the full $72K for his down payment!