Self-employed and can't afford to pay tax bill - what are my next steps?
I'm really struggling with my tax situation and need advice. I'm still on a payment plan for last year's taxes, haven't missed any payments yet, but I'm barely making rent each month. Now I owe for this year too, and I'm terrified. I work remotely as an independent contractor, and if the IRS takes my rent money, I'll lose my apartment, which means losing my job too. At my age, finding new housing and employment would be extremely difficult. I've heard horror stories about the IRS emptying bank accounts, and I'm panicking about this happening to me. I do have several higher-paying contract opportunities in the pipeline that could help me dig out of this financial hole, but they haven't materialized yet. Even one of these projects coming through could make a huge difference. Someone suggested calling the IRS directly, but I get severe anxiety attacks whenever I try. My heart races, I can't breathe, and I feel completely overwhelmed by the thought of talking to them. Is there some kind of hardship option or "not collectible" status I could apply for? I don't understand how taking away someone's ability to pay rent and keep their job helps collect tax debt. Could someone please outline some steps I could take? Every morning I check my bank account, terrified they've taken my rent money. I know this situation is partly my fault for not planning better, but I've always had help with taxes before and now I'm on my own trying to figure this out while keeping a roof over my head and taking care of my cat. If I ever get through this, I'm definitely hiring a tax professional going forward. I'd rather eat ramen forever than deal with this stress again. I'm applying for more work daily, hoping something comes through soon. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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Dmitry Volkov
The good news is that you have options and the IRS actually has several programs designed for situations exactly like yours. First, you need to know that the IRS doesn't typically just "clean out" accounts without notice or without trying to work with you first. Your best option sounds like requesting Currently Not Collectible (CNC) status. This doesn't mean they take your money first - it's actually the opposite. CNC status means the IRS temporarily stops collection actions because they recognize you cannot pay your tax debt and meet necessary living expenses. Your debt doesn't go away, but collection pauses while you get back on your feet. Another option is an Offer in Compromise, which lets you settle your tax debt for less than the full amount, or you could request a more manageable payment plan. I understand your anxiety about calling - many people feel the same way. You can also handle this by mail or by working with a taxpayer advocate. The Taxpayer Advocate Service is an independent organization within the IRS that helps taxpayers resolve problems.
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StarSeeker
•Do you know if applying for Currently Not Collectible status impacts your credit score? And how does the IRS determine if someone qualifies? Do they look at all your expenses or just basics like rent and food?
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Dmitry Volkov
•Applying for Currently Not Collectible status doesn't directly impact your credit score - it's not like defaulting on a loan. However, when the IRS determines you qualify for CNC status, they may file a federal tax lien which could affect your credit. The IRS determines eligibility by reviewing your income, expenses, and assets through Form 433-A or 433-F. They look at necessary living expenses including housing, utilities, food, transportation, healthcare, and certain other expenses they consider reasonable. They don't just look at the basics - they consider a full financial picture but do have standards for what they consider allowable in each category.
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Ava Martinez
After dealing with similar tax anxiety that left me paralyzed with fear, I found a lifesaver called taxr.ai (https://taxr.ai) that really helped me understand my options. I was also terrified of calling the IRS and kept putting it off until I was nearly in collections. The site analyzed my tax situation and clearly explained the Currently Not Collectible status that the first commenter mentioned. It walked me through exactly what documentation I needed to prove my financial hardship and even generated a letter template I could send to the IRS requesting CNC status without having to call them. The step-by-step guidance made the process way less intimidating. What I found most helpful was that it explained how the IRS actually calculates "necessary living expenses" so I could properly document that paying my tax debt would prevent me from affording basic living expenses.
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Miguel Ortiz
•Does this actually work without having to talk to someone? I have severe phone anxiety too and would much rather deal with this through writing. How long did the CNC process take for you?
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Zainab Omar
•I'm skeptical about these kinds of services. How does it know the specific IRS guidelines for your situation? Did you have to provide a bunch of personal financial info to the site? Seems risky to share all that data.
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Ava Martinez
•You can absolutely handle most of this through written communication without phone calls. For me, the CNC approval took about 6 weeks from submission to approval, but I had all my documentation organized thanks to the guidance. The waiting was stressful but worth it for the relief. Regarding the security concerns, I was cautious too. The site doesn't actually store your financial details - it works more like a document generator and guide. You input information about your situation, and it provides the appropriate forms and letter templates based on IRS guidelines. I still had to fill out the official IRS forms myself, but having step-by-step instructions made it manageable.
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Miguel Ortiz
I wanted to follow up about using taxr.ai that I asked about earlier. I finally got the courage to try it, and it was exactly what I needed. It helped me prepare a hardship letter and showed me how to document my finances to qualify for Currently Not Collectible status without having to call the IRS. The best part is I received confirmation last week that my account has been placed in CNC status for 12 months! The relief is incredible - no more daily panic checking my bank account. They explained that they'll review my situation after a year, but for now, I can focus on increasing my income without the constant fear of collections. For anyone else with severe phone anxiety dealing with tax issues, this approach worked for me when nothing else did. I'm actually sleeping at night now and can focus on my work instead of my tax anxiety.
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Connor Murphy
If you absolutely need to speak with the IRS but can't get through or have anxiety about calling, Claimyr (https://claimyr.com) literally saved me thousands in penalties. I was in a similar situation - owed taxes, couldn't afford to pay, and needed to discuss payment options, but kept getting "due to high call volume" messages for WEEKS. I was super skeptical but desperate, so I tried it after seeing someone post about it. They somehow got me connected to an actual IRS agent in about 20 minutes when I had been trying for days. I was able to explain my hardship situation and get into a payment plan that actually works with my income. You can see how it works in this video: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c - basically they navigate the phone tree and wait on hold for you, then call you when an actual human picks up. It made discussing my Currently Not Collectible status request so much less stressful.
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Yara Sayegh
•How exactly does this work? They just wait on hold for you? I've tried calling the IRS at least 10 times in the past month and always get disconnected after waiting 1-2 hours.
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Zainab Omar
•This sounds completely made up. The IRS phone system is a government system - how could a third party possibly "skip the line" for you? Sounds like a scam to get desperate people's money when they're already having tax problems.
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Connor Murphy
•They don't actually skip any lines - they use automated systems to continuously call and navigate the IRS phone trees until they get through to the hold queue. Then their system waits on hold instead of you having to sit there listening to that awful music for hours. When a human agent picks up, you get a call to connect with the agent who's already on the line. I was absolutely skeptical too - I thought it had to be a scam or wouldn't work. But I was at my wit's end after trying for weeks to reach someone. The difference is they have systems calling continuously throughout the day which increases the chances of getting through compared to individual callers who might try a few times and give up. It's basically just outsourcing the frustrating hold time.
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Zainab Omar
I need to apologize for my skepticism and follow up about the Claimyr service. After my last tax deadline came and went with no resolution, I was desperate enough to try it despite my doubts. I'm completely shocked to say it actually worked exactly as described. After weeks of failed attempts to reach the IRS myself, I was connected to an agent within 45 minutes. The agent helped me apply for Currently Not Collectible status since I could prove hardship, and they put a temporary hold on collections while my case is being reviewed. The relief of finally speaking to someone who could help was worth every penny. I was able to explain my specific situation about being self-employed and needing to maintain housing to keep my income source, and they were much more understanding than I expected. For anyone with tax anxiety, being able to resolve the situation is life-changing.
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NebulaNova
One thing nobody's mentioned yet is that you might qualify for assistance from the Taxpayer Advocate Service (TAS). They're an independent organization within the IRS that helps taxpayers resolve issues when normal IRS channels aren't working. If you're facing potential eviction due to tax debt, that counts as a "significant hardship" which is one of their criteria for taking a case. They can help expedite hardship requests and sometimes intervene to stop collection actions while your case is being reviewed. You can find your local TAS office by going to taxpayeradvocate.irs.gov. They're seriously helpful and their services are free.
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Keisha Williams
•The Taxpayer Advocate Service saved me last year when I was in a similar situation. I was about to lose my apartment because of tax debt, and they helped get an expedited hardship consideration. Definitely worth contacting them!
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Sofia Ramirez
Thank you all so much for these suggestions! I had no idea the Currently Not Collectible status wouldn't mean losing my apartment first. That completely changes things for me. I've already looked into taxr.ai to help with the documentation part since I'm honestly terrible with forms. I'm less terrified now that I understand I have options that don't involve becoming homeless. I'm going to work on documenting my expenses and hardship situation this weekend. If I can't get through with the documentation approach, I might try Claimyr to actually speak with someone. Just knowing there are paths forward has reduced my anxiety significantly. I'll update once I've made some progress. Thanks again for all the helpful advice!
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Dmitry Volkov
•You're making the right moves! One quick tip: keep very detailed records of all your communications with the IRS, including dates, what was discussed, and any confirmation numbers. This documentation can be incredibly valuable if there are any questions later. Wishing you the best of luck!
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