Mother-in-law repaying $100k house loan/investment - Tax implications?
About 8 months ago, my husband and I put $100k towards my mother-in-law's house purchase to help her avoid taking out a mortgage (she covered the remaining amount). We wrote a bank check directly to the closing attorney - the money never went through her account. We have a signed agreement stating that we own a percentage of the house until she repays us, though we're not listed on the actual deed. She's now selling some property and plans to pay us back the full amount, which means we'll no longer have any ownership stake in her house. I'm wondering about the tax implications when she gives us back our $100k. Will we need to pay taxes on this repayment? It doesn't seem like we should since it was essentially just a short-term loan that's being repaid. I know deposits over $10k get reported to the IRS. Our online bank (Ally) has a $50k daily deposit limit, so we'd likely need to split it into two $50k checks. Alternatively, could she just write us smaller checks each month to stay under reporting thresholds? Like maybe $9,990 to me and $9,990 to my husband monthly for 5 months (about $20k/month)? I want to make sure we handle this correctly and don't accidentally create tax problems.
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GalacticGladiator
No need to worry about taxes on the repayment of your principal loan amount! When someone pays back money you lent them, the return of your original $100k isn't taxable income - it's simply getting your own money back. However, there are a few important points to understand: First, deliberately structuring transactions to avoid the $10,000 reporting threshold (called "structuring") is actually illegal and can lead to serious penalties, even when the money itself is perfectly legal. So definitely don't split it into $9,990 payments to avoid reporting. Second, did your agreement include any interest? If your mother-in-law is paying any amount above the original $100k, that interest portion would be taxable income to you. Third, even though the $10k+ deposits will trigger a Currency Transaction Report, this isn't something to fear if the money is legitimate (which it sounds like it is). Just keep your loan documentation showing this was a repayment, not income. The simplest approach is to accept the repayment as two $50k checks due to your bank's deposit limit, report any interest received (if applicable) on your taxes, and keep all your documentation showing this was a loan repayment.
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Omar Zaki
•Wait, I thought if you owned a percentage of a house and then sold that percentage back, that would be considered a capital gain? Wouldn't they need to pay capital gains tax if the house appreciated in value during those 8 months?
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GalacticGladiator
•Great question. If their agreement was truly structured as partial ownership (an equity investment) rather than a loan, you're right that there could be capital gains implications. If the house appreciated during those 8 months and they're selling their ownership stake back to the mother-in-law, the difference between their initial investment ($100k) and what they receive could be taxable as a capital gain. However, if it was structured as a straightforward loan with the house as collateral (despite the wording about "percentage ownership"), then it would just be a loan repayment without tax consequences for the principal. Based on OP's description of "she owed us this money," it sounds more like a loan, but the exact wording of their agreement matters significantly here.
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Chloe Taylor
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Diego Flores
•How does the AI know the difference between a loan and an investment though? Our family has a similar arrangement where we helped my sister with a down payment, but we just wrote up something basic ourselves. Would it still work for that?
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Anastasia Ivanova
•That sounds interesting but I'm skeptical. Wouldn't you need an actual tax professional to review legal documents? How accurate could an AI really be with something this complicated?
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Chloe Taylor
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Anastasia Ivanova
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Sean Murphy
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StarStrider
•How much does that service cost? Seems like it would be expensive for something you could just do yourself if you're patient enough.
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Zara Malik
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Sean Murphy
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Zara Malik
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Luca Marino
I think everyone's missing the biggest issue here. You said you have papers saying you own a percentage of the house, but you're NOT on the deed? That's a HUGE problem! If that's the case, legally you don't own any part of the house at all, regardless of what your private agreement says. If your MIL had sold the house without paying you back, you'd have to sue her to get your money. The title/deed is what legally determines ownership, not a side agreement. For the tax question - based on how you described it, this sounds like a secured loan rather than actual ownership, which means getting your principal back isn't taxable. But I'd be more concerned about fixing your legal documentation if you plan to do arrangements like this in the future.
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Freya Larsen
•Thanks for pointing that out. The agreement we have is more like a promissory note with the house as collateral. We knew we weren't on the deed, and trusted her (plus had the signed agreement). But you're right that in a worst-case scenario, we'd have had to take legal action if she refused to pay. For future reference, would you recommend actually getting on the deed for this kind of arrangement? Or is there a better way to structure it?
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Luca Marino
•For future reference, there are several better ways to structure this. If you want actual ownership, you absolutely need to be on the deed - that's the only thing that legally establishes property ownership. Your name on the deed would make you true partial owners. If you prefer the loan approach (which is simpler), you could use a recorded mortgage or deed of trust. This creates a public record of your loan against the property and gives you much stronger legal protection. If she didn't repay, you'd have a straightforward foreclosure process rather than having to sue based on a private agreement. Either way, for amounts this large, it's worth spending a few hundred dollars on a real estate attorney to structure it properly. The peace of mind and legal protection are absolutely worth it.
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Nia Davis
Just to be clear about the structuring issue someone mentioned - breaking up deposits specifically to avoid the $10k reporting requirement is indeed illegal, but there's nothing wrong with splitting a large deposit due to bank limits. Receiving two $50k checks because of your bank's deposit limit is totally fine and normal. Just don't try to fly under the radar with those $9,990 checks you mentioned - that's exactly what the anti-structuring laws are designed to catch, and it can create much bigger problems than just reporting a legitimate transaction.
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Mateo Perez
•This is so frustrating! The government makes you report large deposits of YOUR OWN MONEY coming back to you? It's none of their business if my family pays me back money I lent them. The whole banking system is designed to treat everyone like criminals.
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