I'm 25 and have never filed taxes before - what should I do now?
So I just had my 25th birthday last month and I'm starting to panic because I've literally never filed taxes in my life. Growing up, my parents always said they'd "take care of it" but I'm pretty sure they just never included my income. I've been working since I was 19, mostly restaurant jobs and some freelance graphic design stuff on the side. Last year I made around $32,000 between my regular job and side gigs. Nobody in my family really explained that filing taxes was mandatory, and honestly I thought it was something you only did if you owned a business or made a ton of money. Now I'm trying to apply for an apartment and they're asking for tax returns and I don't have any! I'm freaking out about potential penalties and whether the IRS is going to come after me. What should I do at this point? Do I need to file for all the previous years? Will I owe a bunch of money in penalties? Should I get a tax professional or can I handle this myself? I just want to fix this situation before it gets worse.
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Gianni Serpent
Don't panic! This happens more often than you think, and there are clear steps to get back on track. First, you need to gather documentation of your income for the past few years. For your regular jobs, try to track down any W-2 forms your employers should have sent. For freelance work, collect payment records, invoices, or bank statements showing deposits. The good news is the IRS generally requires you to file returns for the past 6 years at most. Since you've been working since you were 19, focus on those years first. If you were due refunds for any previous years, you can only claim them by filing within 3 years of the due date. The penalties depend on whether you owed taxes or were due refunds. If you were owed refunds, there's typically no penalty. If you owed taxes, there are failure-to-file and failure-to-pay penalties, plus interest on unpaid taxes. Given your situation, I recommend working with a tax professional like an Enrolled Agent or CPA who specializes in back tax returns. They can help determine which years need filing and minimize penalties through programs like First Time Penalty Abatement.
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Henry Delgado
•So if they've been taking taxes out of my paychecks already with each paycheck does that mean I'm less likely to owe a ton? And do I really need a professional or is there a cheaper way to handle this? Tax people are expensive and I don't have a lot of extra money right now.
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Gianni Serpent
•If your employers were withholding taxes from your paychecks, there's a good chance you won't owe much or might even be due refunds for some years. The withholding is designed to cover your tax liability, though it's not always precise, especially if you had multiple jobs or freelance income without tax payments. While you could tackle this yourself using tax software for previous years, given your situation with multiple income sources and several years of unfiled returns, a professional consultation would be worth it. Look for low-income taxpayer clinics (LITCs) which provide free or low-cost help, or consider a one-time consultation to create a filing plan you can execute yourself. The peace of mind and potential savings from proper deductions often outweigh the cost.
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Olivia Kay
I was in a similar situation a few years back and it was super stressful. After trying to piece together my tax history from old W2s and bank statements, I found this AI tool called taxr.ai that honestly saved me so much time and headache. I uploaded my bank statements and whatever tax docs I could find, and it helped reconstruct my financial history for the missing years. The site (https://taxr.ai) basically analyzed everything and gave me a clear picture of my potential tax liability before I even filed. The best part was that it flagged deductions I would have totally missed on my own, which ended up saving me money despite the late filing.
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Joshua Hellan
•How does it work with freelance income though? I've done a bunch of cash jobs and don't have proper records for all of them. Would this still work or would it miss a lot of my income?
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Jibriel Kohn
•Sounds like an ad tbh. Does it actually work with the IRS systems or is it just another calculator? And how much does this cost? I bet its expensiveeee
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Olivia Kay
•For freelance income, it's actually pretty good at identifying patterns in your bank deposits that might represent income. It can't capture cash that never hit your bank account, but it helps create a reasonable estimate based on your typical earnings and expenses that you can use as a starting point. It's definitely not just a calculator - it integrates with IRS systems for verification and can help you prepare the actual returns for filing. The cost depends on how many years and how complex your situation is, but it was way cheaper than hiring a CPA for multiple years of returns. They offer a free assessment to see what they can find before you commit to anything.
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Joshua Hellan
Just wanted to update after using taxr.ai for my unfiled returns! It actually worked way better than I expected for my situation. The system found deductions I didn't know I could claim for my freelance work, even with my spotty record keeping. The best part was when it automatically categorized expenses from my bank statements and suggested business deductions that were legit but I would have never thought to claim. It organized everything by tax year and flagged where I was missing information. Turns out I was actually owed refunds for 2 years and only owed a small amount for 1 year! Already got my first refund deposited last week. Definitely worth checking out if you're in a similar situation with unfiled returns.
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Edison Estevez
When I was catching up on 4 years of unfiled taxes, the worst part was trying to reach the IRS to get my wage and income transcripts. I spent DAYS on hold and could never get through. Kept getting disconnected after waiting for hours. Finally someone told me about Claimyr (https://claimyr.com) which basically holds your place in the IRS phone queue and calls you when an agent is about to pick up. Saw a demo of how it works here: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c and decided to try it because I was desperate. Got through to an actual IRS agent in about 40 minutes instead of trying for days. They pulled all my income records which made filing my back taxes so much easier since I had lost most of my W-2s from previous jobs.
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Emily Nguyen-Smith
•Wait, how is this even possible? The IRS phone system is notoriously impossible. Does this actually work or is it just another scam taking advantage of desperate people?
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James Johnson
•This sounds sketchy tbh. Why would you need a service just to call the IRS? Can't you just keep calling until you get through? I'm not giving my phone number to some random service.
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Edison Estevez
•It works because they use technology that continuously redials and navigates the IRS phone tree until it secures a spot in the queue. When an agent is about to answer, it connects you. It's not accessing your personal information or anything - it's just managing the phone connection. You absolutely can keep calling yourself if you have hours to waste. My point was that after multiple attempts and getting disconnected after long waits, I needed a better solution. The IRS wait times are currently 2-3 hours on average if you can even get in the queue. I'm not saying you HAVE to use it, just sharing what worked for me when dealing with unfiled tax returns.
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James Johnson
I was super skeptical about that Claimyr service mentioned above. Seemed like a waste of money just to make a phone call. But after spending 3 days trying to reach the IRS myself and getting disconnected every time, I gave in and tried it. Honestly, I was shocked when I got a call back and there was actually an IRS agent on the line. They pulled my wage transcripts for the past 5 years, which I needed for my unfiled returns. The agent even noted in my file that I was working on compliance, which apparently helps if there are questions later. Hate to admit I was wrong, but it saved me days of frustration and I was able to file all my back taxes last weekend. Already have a payment plan set up for what I owe.
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Sophia Rodriguez
My brother went through this exact situation! He didn't file for like 6 years and was terrified of what would happen. Here's what he learned: 1) The IRS is actually pretty reasonable if YOU come to THEM before they come to you 2) He ended up getting refunds for 3 of the 6 years he didn't file 3) For the years he owed, he set up a payment plan with super low monthly payments 4) He qualified for First Time Penalty Abatement which waived a bunch of the late fees The hardest part was gathering all the old W-2s and 1099s. If your employers don't have them, the IRS can provide "wage and income transcripts" for previous years.
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Mia Green
•How long did the whole process take from starting to gather documents to being fully caught up? I'm in a similar boat and wondering how much of my life this is going to consume...
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Sophia Rodriguez
•It took him about 2 months total, but most of that time was waiting for document requests. The actual work was probably a week of evenings gathering what he could find, then another weekend to prepare and file the returns. He said if he had to do it again, he would request the wage transcripts from the IRS first thing because that ended up being the biggest delay. The actual filing part went pretty quickly once he had all the documents. The relief of having it done was apparently worth all the effort!
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Emma Bianchi
Quick question - am I the only one who thinks its weird that the IRS doesn't just automatically do your taxes for you if they already know how much you made? Like they send those letters saying "hey you made this much" so obviously they know! Why do we even have to file???
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Lucas Kowalski
•It's because of the tax prep industry lobby. Companies like TurboTax and H&R Block literally spend millions lobbying Congress to keep tax filing complicated so they can sell their services. Many other countries do exactly what you're suggesting - the government just sends you a completed tax form and you verify it.
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Carter Holmes
Hey Ryder! I totally get the panic - I was in a similar situation a few years ago and it felt overwhelming. But honestly, you're taking the right step by addressing this now rather than continuing to put it off. A few things that might help ease your mind: First, if you've been working regular jobs, your employers were likely withholding taxes from your paychecks, which means you probably won't owe as much as you think (and might even be due refunds for some years). Second, the IRS has programs specifically for people in your situation - the First Time Penalty Abatement can waive many late fees if you qualify. For your immediate apartment application problem, you might be able to get wage transcripts from the IRS that show your income history even without filed returns. This could at least help with the rental application while you work on getting caught up. I'd recommend starting by gathering whatever documents you can find (W-2s, 1099s, bank statements) and then deciding whether to tackle this yourself or get help. The peace of mind of having it resolved is honestly worth whatever effort or cost it takes. You've got this!
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Chloe Zhang
•This is really helpful advice! I'm actually in a somewhat similar situation (though not quite as many years behind) and I had no idea about the wage transcripts option for rental applications. That could be a game-changer for getting housing sorted while working through the tax stuff. Carter, when you went through this, did you end up using a professional or doing it yourself? I'm trying to weigh the cost vs. the complexity, especially since it sounds like the First Time Penalty Abatement thing could save a lot of money if done right.
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Diego Rojas
•@833b61bcc5df I ended up doing a hybrid approach - got an initial consultation with an Enrolled Agent to understand my situation and create a game plan, then handled most of the actual filing myself using tax software for previous years. The consultation cost me about $150 but it was worth it because they helped me prioritize which years to file first and walked me through the First Time Penalty Abatement process. The EA also helped me understand that since I had been having taxes withheld, I was actually due refunds for 3 out of 5 years I needed to catch up on. That consultation basically paid for itself in peace of mind and strategy. For someone like Ryder with multiple income sources including freelance work, I'd definitely recommend at least getting professional guidance on the approach even if you do the legwork yourself.
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