Feeling anxious about filing taxes after skipping several years - what should I expect?
I haven't filed my taxes for the past two or three years and I'm getting really anxious about the whole situation. I know it's not good, but honestly I just haven't had the money or resources to deal with it. My income has been pretty low, probably around $28k-$32k each year. I'm terrified about what's going to happen when I finally go to a place like H&R Block to catch up on everything. I'm worried they'll tell me I owe a ton in fees and penalties that I can't afford. Does anyone have advice on what I might be facing if I try to finally file this year? What kind of penalties should I prepare for? Is there a better approach than just walking into a tax place? -just a stressed out 26 year old grocery store worker who's trying to fix her mistakes
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Zoe Papanikolaou
Don't panic! This situation is more common than you think, and with your income level, you might actually be owed refunds instead of owing the IRS. Since your income was below $32k each year, you likely qualify for the Earned Income Tax Credit and possibly other credits depending on your situation. If you're owed refunds, there are generally no penalties for filing late. The IRS only keeps refunds for 3 years, so it's important to file soon to claim any money owed to you. Instead of going straight to H&R Block (which can be expensive), consider using the IRS Free File program if your income qualifies, or a low-cost tax preparation service. You can also look into VITA (Volunteer Income Tax Assistance) which offers free tax help to people with incomes below $60,000. Just make sure to gather all your W-2s from those years. If you don't have them, you can request wage transcripts from the IRS by creating an account on irs.gov or using Form 4506-T.
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Jamal Wilson
•Thank you for this info. I've heard the IRS can garnish wages if you owe them money. Is that true even for low income people? And how does one get access to old W-2s if the employer is no longer in business?
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Zoe Papanikolaou
•The IRS typically only pursues wage garnishment after multiple notices and opportunities to set up payment plans, and they generally focus on larger tax debts. Given your income level, it's unlikely you'd face garnishment, especially if you're proactively filing now. If your former employer is no longer in business, you can still get your wage information by requesting a Wage and Income Transcript from the IRS. You can do this online through irs.gov/transcripts, by calling 800-908-9946, or by submitting Form 4506-T. These transcripts show all reported income and withholding information the IRS has received from employers.
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Mei Lin
After reading your situation, it reminded me of when I was in a similar position a few years back. I was terrified to file after missing 2 years, but then I found taxr.ai (https://taxr.ai) and it was seriously a game-changer. What helped me most was their document analysis feature - I had a mess of old W-2s and wasn't sure what I was missing. Their AI helped sort through everything and figured out exactly what years I needed to file for. It also estimated my potential refunds before I committed to anything, which was a huge relief since I was also worried about unexpected fees. The step-by-step guidance made it way less intimidating than walking into a tax office feeling unprepared. Might be worth checking out if you're anxious about the whole process.
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Liam Fitzgerald
•How does this compare to regular tax software like TurboTax? Can it actually help with multiple years of unfiled taxes? I'm in a somewhat similar situation but with some 1099 income mixed in.
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GalacticGuru
•Sounds interesting but I'm skeptical about AI handling something as serious as back taxes. Does it connect you with actual tax professionals or is it just software? I'd be nervous about missing something important.
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Mei Lin
•It's different from regular tax software because it's specifically designed to handle complicated situations like multiple years of unfiled taxes. It analyzes all your documents first to give you a clear picture before you start filing, which regular software doesn't really do well. And yes, it definitely handles mixed W-2 and 1099 income - that's actually why I needed it. The AI does the initial analysis, but they do have tax professionals you can connect with for specific questions. It's not just algorithms making decisions - there's human expertise backing it up. I was nervous too, but they have a review process to make sure nothing important gets missed. The peace of mind was worth it for me after avoiding my tax situation for so long.
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Liam Fitzgerald
I just have to share my experience after trying taxr.ai that someone mentioned above. I was so anxious about my unfiled taxes (3 years worth) that I kept putting it off, making my anxiety worse each year. I finally decided to try the taxr.ai service last month, and it was exactly what I needed. Uploaded my scattered documents (some I found in email, others were paper copies), and the system organized everything by tax year. The confidence estimate showing I was likely owed refunds for each year was honestly such a relief. The best part was seeing exactly what I was missing for each year. Turns out I had everything for one year, was missing a W-2 for another (which they helped me request), and for the third year I learned I probably didn't even need to file based on my income. Already received my first refund check, and the others are processing!
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Amara Nnamani
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Giovanni Mancini
•How does this service actually work? I'm confused how a third party can get you through to the IRS faster when their phone lines are always jammed.
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GalacticGuru
•This sounds too good to be true. I've literally spent HOURS on hold with the IRS and got disconnected. You're telling me this service somehow jumps the queue? I'm extremely doubtful that's even possible.
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Amara Nnamani
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GalacticGuru
I need to publicly eat my words about Claimyr. After expressing skepticism above, I decided to try it anyway since my situation with unfiled taxes was getting more stressful by the day. Not only did I get connected to an IRS representative in about 25 minutes (after trying unsuccessfully on my own for WEEKS), but the representative was incredibly helpful. They walked me through my options for my unfiled returns, confirmed I qualified for a first-time penalty abatement, and even helped me understand how to set up a payment plan if I ended up owing after filing. Having a direct conversation with the IRS gave me the confidence to move forward with filing my back taxes. The peace of mind alone was worth it. Sometimes it's worth trying solutions even when you're skeptical!
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Fatima Al-Suwaidi
Just wanted to add - don't go to H&R Block for this situation. They charge SO much for prior year returns (like $100+ PER YEAR). Look into the VITA program that someone mentioned above. I volunteered with them and we helped people file back taxes for free all the time. Many VITA sites can handle 2-3 years of back taxes with no problem. Google "VITA tax site near me" and make an appointment. Bring your ID, Social Security card, and any tax documents you can find. If you explain your situation, they'll help you figure out what to do next.
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Andre Dupont
•Thank you for this suggestion! I had no idea VITA existed. Do they have income limits? And will they still help even if I'm missing some of my documents?
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Fatima Al-Suwaidi
•Yes, VITA does have income limits - generally they serve people making under $60,000, but exact limits can vary by location. Since you mentioned making around $28k-$32k, you should definitely qualify. They absolutely will help if you're missing documents! That's a super common situation. The VITA volunteers can help you determine what's missing and can show you how to request wage transcripts from the IRS that will have all your W-2 information. They deal with this situation regularly and won't make you feel bad about it. Just be upfront about your situation when you make the appointment so they can schedule enough time to help you.
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Dylan Cooper
Has anyone been through an actual audit for unfiled taxes? My sister didn't file for 5 years and now has the IRS sending scary letters. What happens in these cases?
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Sofia Morales
•Not an audit exactly, but I did get CP59 notices (failure to file notices) for 2 years I missed. The IRS doesn't usually do full audits just for not filing - they send notices first. Your sister should respond ASAP though. The longer she waits, the worse it gets. If she can't pay what she owes, she should still file and then request a payment plan. The penalty for not filing is 10x higher than the penalty for not paying.
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