I owe $67k penalty to the IRS for foreign gift. What should I do?
Guys I'm freaking out right now. Back in 2020, I received about $270K from my uncle who lives in Europe. I had no idea I needed to report foreign gifts over $100k to the IRS. I just used TurboTax like I do every year and went on with life. Fast forward to last month, I was browsing r/personalfinance and saw something about reporting foreign gifts and my heart literally dropped. I immediately contacted a tax attorney who confirmed I screwed up big time. Yesterday I got the letter from the IRS saying I owe $67k in penalties for failing to file the proper forms!!! I don't even have that kind of money right now. The attorney is saying I might qualify for reasonable cause abatement since I truly didn't know, but he's charging me $400/hour and I'm not sure if it's worth it or if I should just try to negotiate a payment plan with the IRS directly. Has anyone dealt with something like this before? I'm losing sleep over this and don't know what my options are.
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Rebecca Johnston
This is actually a fairly common issue with foreign gifts. The IRS requires Form 3520 for reporting gifts from foreign persons over $100k, but many tax software programs don't properly flag this requirement. You have a few options here. First, reasonable cause abatement is absolutely worth pursuing if you genuinely didn't know about the requirement. The IRS does consider "ordinary business care and prudence" - and many average taxpayers wouldn't know about Form 3520 requirements. I'd recommend getting a consultation with a tax attorney who specializes in international reporting issues, but be clear about the scope of work before agreeing to the $400/hour ongoing rate. Many attorneys offer free or reduced-cost initial consultations. At minimum, have them help prepare the reasonable cause letter explaining your situation. If that doesn't work, the IRS does offer payment plans through the Online Payment Agreement tool for amounts under $100k. With penalties this large, you might also consider an Offer in Compromise if you can prove paying the full amount would create economic hardship.
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Nathan Dell
•Would it make a difference that they used TurboTax? Shouldn't the software have prompted them to report foreign gifts? And what's the likelihood of success with reasonable cause abatement in a case like this?
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Rebecca Johnston
•TurboTax and similar software programs do have limitations, especially with specialized international reporting requirements. While they typically ask about foreign bank accounts (FBAR requirements), they often don't explicitly ask about foreign gifts unless you're using more premium versions or navigate to those specific sections. This can actually strengthen a reasonable cause argument. As for the likelihood of success with reasonable cause abatement, it varies case by case. The IRS considers factors like whether this is your first offense, your overall compliance history, and how quickly you took corrective action once you discovered the error. Based on what you've described - immediately seeking professional help upon learning about the requirement - you have a reasonable case. Success rates are generally around 40-60% for first-time offenders who demonstrate good faith efforts to comply once they became aware.
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Maya Jackson
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Tristan Carpenter
•How does the process work with them? Did you have to send them all your financial documents? I'm nervous about sharing all that sensitive info with yet another company.
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Amaya Watson
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Maya Jackson
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Tristan Carpenter
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Grant Vikers
I was in a frighteningly similar situation last year with a $53k penalty for foreign account reporting. After my reasonable cause letter was rejected, I spent MONTHS trying to get through to someone at the IRS who could actually help. Their phone system is absolute hell - I would wait on hold for 2+ hours only to get disconnected or transferred to another department that couldn't help. I finally broke down and tried https://claimyr.com after seeing it mentioned on a tax forum. They have this system that holds your place in the IRS phone queue and calls you back when an agent is about to answer. You can see how it works in this video: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c I was connected to an actual IRS penalty abatement specialist within 90 minutes, and she walked me through the proper appeal process. After explaining my situation, she transferred me directly to an appeals officer who reviewed my case immediately instead of waiting 6-8 weeks for a mail response.
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Giovanni Martello
•How does this service actually work? I don't get it. The IRS phone system is literally designed to be impossible to navigate. Are you saying this somehow bypasses that?
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Savannah Weiner
•Sorry but this sounds like complete BS. There's no way to "skip the line" with the IRS. They're chronically understaffed and overwhelmed. I've been trying to resolve an issue for 14 months now. Either you got extremely lucky or this is some kind of scam.
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Grant Vikers
•It doesn't bypass the queue - it basically waits in line for you. They use an automated system that navigates the IRS phone tree and holds your place in the queue. When their system detects that an agent is about to answer, it calls you and connects both calls. So you're still "waiting" the same amount of time, but you don't have to sit there with a phone to your ear for hours. No, it's definitely not a scam or "skipping the line." You still wait the same amount of time as everyone else, the difference is their system does the waiting instead of you having to personally sit on hold. It's basically like having someone stand in a physical line for you. The IRS doesn't care who's on the phone when they finally answer, they just help whoever is on the line. I was skeptical too, but when you consider how many hours of productivity people lose sitting on hold, the service makes sense.
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Savannah Weiner
I have to admit I was completely wrong about Claimyr. After posting my skeptical comment, I was desperate enough to try it since I needed to discuss my payment plan options before a deadline. The service actually works exactly as described. I got a call back in about 2 hours (which is still a long time, but I was able to work instead of listening to the IRS hold music). The agent I spoke with was able to put me on a reduced payment plan based on my financial situation. What really surprised me was how different the conversation went compared to my previous attempts. When you finally reach someone after hours on hold, you're already frustrated and the conversation starts off poorly. Being able to just receive a call when an agent was ready put me in a much better headspace, and I think the IRS agent was more helpful as a result. For anyone dealing with large penalties like the OP, being able to actually speak with someone at the IRS makes a huge difference versus sending letters that might sit unopened for months.
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Levi Parker
Have you looked into the Streamlined Domestic Offshore Procedures? If this was non-willful (meaning you didn't know about the requirement), this program might help reduce the penalties significantly. I made a similar mistake with not reporting my foreign pension from when I worked in Singapore. The standard penalty would have been about $45k, but through the streamlined program I ended up paying just under $10k. The key is documenting that you genuinely didn't understand the requirement. The fact that you took action immediately after discovering the requirement will work in your favor. Make sure your attorney is specifically experienced with the Streamlined program.
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KingKongZilla
•Thanks for this suggestion! I just looked into the Streamlined Procedures and it seems like I might qualify. My attorney mentioned something similar but called it by a different name and was talking about a much smaller reduction. Do you know if I need a specialized attorney for this or if it's something I can handle myself? The legal fees are adding up fast.
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Levi Parker
•You don't absolutely need an attorney to apply for the Streamlined program, but I'd recommend at least a consultation with someone who specializes in international tax issues. The program requires a detailed narrative explaining why your failure to report was non-willful, and that narrative is critical to acceptance. If your current attorney isn't giving you clear information about the Streamlined program (it's very well-established), you might want to get a second opinion. Many tax attorneys offer free initial consultations, so you could shop around. The penalties at stake are significant enough that good representation is worth it, but you shouldn't be paying for an attorney who isn't experienced with exactly this type of situation.
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Libby Hassan
whatever u do, don't ignore this!!! i made that mistake when i got hit with a 18k penalty for not reporting my overseas rental income. thought it would go away if i just didn't respond. BIG MISTAKE. they started garnishing my wages and put a lien on my property which destroyed my credit score. took 3 yrs to finally resolve and ended up paying way more in the end. at minimum set up a payment plan asap even while ur contesting the penalty. u can always get refunded later if u win the abatement but it shows good faith effort.
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Hunter Hampton
•Is there a time limit on how long the IRS can come after you for these foreign reporting issues? I'm worried now because I inherited a small property in Italy from my grandparents 4 years ago and never reported anything...
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