Husband died in 2021 before 2020 taxes were filed. Do I mark him as deceased on the 2020 return?
I'm helping my mother's friend with her taxes and I'm confused about something. Her husband passed away in May of 2021, but they hadn't filed their 2020 tax return yet. The tax preparer she went to marked her husband as deceased on the 2020 return even though he was alive for all of 2020. This doesn't seem right to me. Shouldn't he only be marked as deceased on the 2021 return since that's when he actually passed? I want to make sure she's filing correctly before I give her any advice. Thanks for any help!
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Sean Flanagan
The tax preparer made an error. A deceased status should only be marked on tax returns for years in which the person died or later years. Since the husband was alive for all of 2020, he should NOT be marked as deceased on the 2020 return. The 2020 return should be filed as married filing jointly (assuming that's what they typically did) with both spouses listed as living. For the 2021 return, that's when you'd indicate the spouse is deceased by writing "DECEASED" after their name and including the date of death. Your mother's friend might want to have that 2020 return reviewed again, as marking someone deceased in the wrong year could potentially cause issues with the IRS's records.
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Anastasia Kozlov
•Thank you for the explanation. That makes perfect sense. The preparer seemed confident about marking him as deceased on the 2020 return, which made me doubt myself. Should my mother's friend file an amended return to correct this error? Would this cause any issues with benefits or anything else?
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Sean Flanagan
•No need to file an amended return if everything else on the return is correct. The deceased status indication doesn't affect the actual tax calculations. However, it could potentially create confusion in IRS records. If she's concerned, she can call the IRS to clarify her husband's status in their system. When she files the 2021 return, she should ensure it correctly indicates he passed away in 2021, and that should resolve any potential record issues. Just make sure she keeps good documentation about his date of death for any future questions that might arise.
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Ethan Clark
My mom passed in 2022 and we learned that you should also file Form 1310 when filing the final return for a deceased taxpayer. Did anyone else have to do this? The IRS held my dad's refund until we submitted it.
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AstroAce
•Yes, Form 1310 is needed if you're claiming a refund for a deceased taxpayer. But I think it's only required if the refund check isn't going to a surviving spouse. So in OP's case with the friend's husband, if the wife is filing jointly and getting the refund, she probably wouldn't need Form 1310. But for your situation, it makes sense they required it.
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Ethan Clark
•Thanks for confirming. That makes sense about the surviving spouse exception. The tax preparer didn't mention anything about Form 1310 initially, and we only found out when the refund was delayed. I wish there was better guidance on all the special forms needed when someone passes away.
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Yuki Kobayashi
Another thing to consider - the year someone dies, the surviving spouse can still file jointly for that year. The tax benefit of married filing jointly is usually better than filing as single. After that, the surviving spouse might qualify for qualifying widow(er) status for 2 years if they have a dependent child. Lots of people don't know about this filing status option!
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Anastasia Kozlov
•I didn't know about the qualifying widow(er) status! That's really helpful information. In this case though, they didn't have dependent children living with them. It sounds like for the 2020 return, they should file jointly without the deceased designation, then for 2021 file jointly with deceased designation, and then for 2022 she would have to file as single. Is that right?
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Yuki Kobayashi
•Yes, you've got it exactly right! For 2020, file jointly with no deceased designation since he was alive all year. For 2021, file jointly with deceased designation since that's the year he passed away. Then for 2022 forward, she'll file as single (or head of household if she has qualifying dependents, but it sounds like she doesn't). One thing to note - when filing that 2021 return with deceased status, make sure to write "DECEASED" and the date of death across the top of the return to ensure proper processing. Some tax software handles this automatically, but it's good to double-check.
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Carmen Vega
The preparer probably confused the filing status with the need to indicate the taxpayer was deceased. This happens a lot with less experienced preparers. For 2020, file normal joint return. For 2021, file joint return but with deceased status. If she itemizes deductions, don't forget medical expenses for her deceased spouse can be claimed on the final return.
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