How is gift of home equity taxed when used as down payment?
I'm trying to figure out how a gift of home equity gets taxed and getting completely different answers from everyone I ask. My parents' house was recently appraised at $310k, and they still owe about $225k on their mortgage. They're offering to use the extra equity (around $85k) as our down payment/closing costs so we can get better interest rates and avoid PMI on our first home. I've called like 5 different CPAs and gotten totally different answers! Some had no clue what I was talking about, others said it's completely tax-free since it's a family gift, and others mentioned something about only a certain amount being exempt and the rest being taxed?? Can anyone please explain how this actually works? I'm so confused and we need to make decisions soon! HELP!!
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Ingrid Larsson
This is a common question with family home transfers! The gift tax rules apply here, not income tax. In 2025, each person can gift up to $19,000 per recipient annually without filing a gift tax return. So your parents could each gift $19,000 to you (and your spouse if married), potentially covering $76k tax-free without any reporting. If they exceed those annual limits, they'd need to file a gift tax return (Form 709), but wouldn't actually owe taxes until they've used up their lifetime estate/gift tax exemption (over $13 million per person in 2025). They'd just be reporting the gift and reducing their lifetime exemption. The equity gift itself isn't income to you, so you won't pay income tax on it. The lender will probably require a gift letter stating it doesn't need to be repaid.
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Tyrone Johnson
•Thanks for the explanation! So if I understand right, my mom and dad could each gift $19k to both me and my wife without filing anything ($76k total), but since they're giving us $85k, they would need to file a form but not actually pay any taxes? Does it matter that the gift isn't cash but home equity being used directly for our down payment?
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Ingrid Larsson
•Yes, that's exactly right! They'd only need to file Form 709 for the $9k that exceeds the annual exclusions ($85k total minus $76k covered by exclusions). No actual tax would be due - it just reduces their lifetime exemption amount. The form of the gift doesn't matter for tax purposes - whether cash, equity, stocks, or property. What matters is the value being transferred. Your mortgage company will have specific requirements for documenting the equity gift, usually through a gift letter that states the relationship and confirms it's not a loan that needs repayment.
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Carlos Mendoza
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Zainab Mahmoud
•Does this actually work for complicated scenarios? My in-laws want to help with our down payment but they've already gifted us money for other things this year. Can taxr.ai handle figuring out if we're over limits when combining different types of gifts?
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Ava Williams
•I'm skeptical about these online tools. How does it know about state-specific regulations? In my state, there are additional documentation requirements for equity transfers between family members that our title company needed.
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Carlos Mendoza
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Ava Williams
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Keisha Thompson
Don't forget about mortgage implications! When we did an equity gift for our daughter, her lender required specific documentation: 1) Gift letter stating relationship & confirming no repayment required 2) Evidence of our ownership (deed) 3) Recent appraisal showing available equity 4) Letter from our mortgage company acknowledging the gift Different lenders have different requirements. Some wanted 2 months of our bank statements to verify the source of funds, even though it was equity not cash! Ask your lender EXACTLY what they need before proceeding.
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Paolo Bianchi
•Did your lender require the gift to be "seasoned" in the recipient's account? Our lender is saying the funds need to sit in our account for 60 days before closing, which seems weird for an equity gift that isn't actual cash.
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Keisha Thompson
•No seasoning requirement for equity gifts in our case. That typically applies to cash gifts where lenders want to verify the source. Since equity gifts are documented through the title/closing process, there's no actual money changing hands before closing. Your lender might be confusing equity gifts with cash gifts. I'd recommend getting clarification, possibly by having them speak directly with the title company. They might be applying a standard cash gift policy incorrectly to your equity situation. This is exactly why dealing with these transactions can be so frustrating - many mortgage officers don't handle them frequently enough to be familiar with the correct procedures.
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Yara Assad
I think people are overcomplicating this. We did this last year with my parents' house. The way it worked was: - House appraised at $400k - They owed $300k - We bought it for $350k (they gifted $50k in equity) - They each gave $15k to me and $15k to my wife ($60k total gift potential) - Since gift was only $50k, no gift tax return needed The key is structuring the purchase price to stay under the annual gift exclusion amounts! Talk to a real estate attorney, not just a CPA.
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Olivia Clark
•But wouldn't your parents be losing out on $50k of equity by selling below market value? That seems like a big sacrifice just to avoid filing a form.
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Javier Morales
Has anyone dealt with gift splitting when only one parent is on the home title? My mom owns her house outright (dad passed away) and wants to gift us equity, but I'm confused if only she can make the gift or if her new husband can somehow help with the annual exclusion amounts even though he's not on the title.
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Ingrid Larsson
•This is a great question about a common situation! Only the person with ownership interest in the property can gift that equity. So your mom can make the gift, but her new husband cannot split it since he has no ownership to give. However, if your mom transfers half the property to her new husband first (which has its own considerations), and THEN they both gift equity, they could potentially use gift splitting. But that adds complexity and additional transfer documents. Best to consult an attorney who specializes in real estate transfers before going that route.
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Michael Adams
Just went through this exact scenario last month! The confusion you're experiencing is totally normal because many professionals don't deal with equity gifts regularly. Here's what I learned: The $85k equity gift will likely require your parents to file Form 709 for the amount exceeding annual exclusions, but they won't actually owe taxes unless they've already used up their lifetime exemption (which is over $13 million each). One important thing I wish someone had told me earlier - make sure to coordinate with your title company AND lender early in the process. Our closing almost got delayed because the lender wanted additional documentation that the title company didn't initially prepare. The gift letter needs very specific language that both parties will accept. Also, consider the timing carefully. We discovered that having the equity gift structured properly from the beginning made everything smoother than trying to adjust the arrangement later when documents were already in progress. The good news is that you won't owe any income tax on receiving the gift, and it sounds like your parents are well under the lifetime exemption limits where actual gift tax would be due.
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Yuki Tanaka
•This is so helpful, thank you! The timing aspect is something I hadn't really considered. We're still in the early stages of house hunting, so it sounds like we should get all the documentation sorted out before we even make an offer on a place. Can you share what specific language the lender wanted in the gift letter that caused issues? I want to make sure we avoid those delays. Also, did your parents need to get their own appraisal or was the one for your purchase sufficient for the gift tax documentation?
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