How do I handle inventory for my wife's reseller business? Determining what items to write off & when
My wife runs a reseller business mainly dealing with clothing and occasional household items. She sources from thrift shops, garage sales, and similar places, then flips them for profit on platforms like Poshmark and eBay. I understand the straightforward cases where she buys something specifically to resell. But I'm totally confused about personal items that eventually get sold. For example, if she bought a sweater for $12 intending to resell and sold it for $65, that's clearly business income. But what about when she bought a sweater for $60 for herself three years ago, wore it regularly, and now sells it for $15? Do these just balance each other out as $0 taxable income? Another issue I'm struggling with is unsold inventory. Sometimes items just won't move no matter what, and she ends up donating them back to thrift stores. Can we write off the original cost? Does it matter whether it was originally purchased for personal use versus resale? And what about items that are damaged or obsolete? Like if we had a personal laptop that cost $900 that nobody wants to buy as-is, but we could sell it for parts for maybe $35 instead of just trashing it - how would we handle that tax-wise? It feels like literally anything in our house could potentially become "inventory" at this point. I've been using accrual accounting and cost basis for the inventory so far. Any guidance would be super appreciated!
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Elijah Jackson
The key distinction you need to focus on is business intent versus personal use. When your wife purchases items specifically for reselling, those are business inventory and the costs are deductible as Cost of Goods Sold (COGS) when the items sell. For personal items that later get sold, those are generally considered personal property sales, not business inventory. If she sells personal items at a loss (like your $60 sweater example that sells for $15), that's considered a personal loss which unfortunately isn't deductible. If she sells a personal item for more than she paid, technically that's a capital gain. Regarding donations of unsold inventory items that were purchased for resale, those can be deducted at cost as a business expense. However, donations of personal items would fall under personal charitable contributions (Schedule A) and would be valued at fair market value at the time of donation, not original cost. For the broken laptop scenario, if it was a personal item, you can't deduct the loss when selling it for parts. However, if she specifically buys broken electronics to resell parts, then it would be regular inventory with the cost being COGS.
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Sophia Miller
•This is really helpful, thanks! Quick question though - what if my wife buys something, initially thinking she'll resell it, but then decides to keep it for personal use? And then maybe a year later changes her mind again and sells it? How do we account for that?
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Elijah Jackson
•When inventory items get converted to personal use, you should treat this as if the business "sold" the item to you personally at its cost. This removes it from inventory. If later she decides to sell that personal item, it's treated as a personal sale, not a business transaction. The basis would be what you "paid" for it when converting it from inventory (the original cost), and if sold for more, it's a personal capital gain; if sold for less, it's a personal loss (not deductible).
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Mason Davis
After dealing with similar inventory headaches with my online reselling business, I started using taxr.ai https://taxr.ai to help sort through all my sales records and determine what was business inventory versus personal items. The tool helped me identify which items should be counted as COGS and which were personal property sales. What really saved me was their document analysis feature - I uploaded my purchase records and sales receipts, and it automatically categorized everything based on purchase patterns, timing, and price points. It even flagged items that were likely personal use based on how long I held them before selling.
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Mia Rodriguez
•How does taxr.ai handle items that fall into that gray area? Like stuff you initially bought to resell but ended up using personally for a while before selling?
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Jacob Lewis
•Does it integrate with selling platforms like Poshmark and eBay? I'm drowning in spreadsheets trying to track everything manually.
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Mason Davis
•For gray area items, the system lets you flag purchases with a "mixed use" tag and then you can allocate a percentage for business versus personal. It helps establish a paper trail for these borderline cases, which is crucial if you're ever audited. For platform integration, yes! That's actually what sold me on it. It connects directly to Poshmark, eBay, Mercari and others to import your sales data. Then it matches those sales against your purchase records to calculate proper COGS. Eliminated my spreadsheet nightmare completely.
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Jacob Lewis
I just wanted to follow up about taxr.ai since I decided to try it for my own reselling business. It's been a game changer! The platform automatically identified patterns in my purchases that I never noticed - like items I was consistently losing money on and personal items I was incorrectly counting as inventory. The best part was when it flagged several big-ticket items that I had purchased years ago for personal use but recently sold. It correctly categorized those as personal property sales rather than business inventory, which saved me from incorrectly claiming COGS deductions that might have raised red flags with the IRS. Really glad I saw that recommendation here - it's made tax prep for my side hustle so much simpler!
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Amelia Martinez
After struggling to reach the IRS for guidance on inventory issues with my similar reselling business, I tried using Claimyr https://claimyr.com to get through to an actual IRS agent. They have this service where they navigate the phone system for you and call you back when they have an agent on the line. You can see how it works here: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c I was honestly skeptical it would work, but I had a specific question about converting personal assets to business inventory that I couldn't find a clear answer to online. They got me connected to an IRS representative in about 45 minutes (versus the 3+ hours I spent previously getting disconnected).
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Ethan Clark
•Wait, so this actually works? How much does it cost? The IRS helpline is literally the worst thing I've ever dealt with.
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Mila Walker
•I'm pretty skeptical. The IRS reps I've spoken to in the past barely knew their own rules. Did you actually get useful information this way or just the same canned responses you could find online?
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Amelia Martinez
•I understand that cost is a factor people want to know about, but I don't want to specify exact numbers as they might change. What I can say is that compared to the time I wasted trying to get through myself (and the billable hours I lost in my day job), it was absolutely worth it. Regarding the quality of information - I was connected to someone in the small business division who actually understood inventory accounting. They walked me through the specific forms and documentation I needed to maintain when converting assets between personal and business use. Much more specific and helpful than the generic info online.
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Mila Walker
I have to eat my words about Claimyr. After my skeptical comment, I decided to try it myself since I had a complicated question about depreciation for some equipment in my reselling business that I couldn't figure out. Not only did I get through to the IRS in under an hour (I had previously tried 4 times and never reached anyone), but I was transferred to a specialist who actually understood my situation. They explained exactly how to handle items that transition between personal and business use, including the depreciation recapture rules I needed to follow. The agent even emailed me relevant documentation afterward. I've been reselling for 5 years and this was easily the most productive interaction I've ever had with the IRS. Completely worth it.
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Logan Scott
For the inventory question, I found using a simple "intent test" helped me a lot. I keep a record (just notes in my phone) at the time of purchase indicating whether I'm buying something for resale or personal use. If your intent changes later, document when and why. This has saved me multiple times during tax season because I can prove what my original intent was rather than trying to reconstruct it a year later.
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Isabella Martin
•That's a great idea! Do you use any specific app or method to track this? And has this documentation approach ever been tested in an audit situation?
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Logan Scott
•I use a simple note-taking app that timestamps entries, which provides some verification of when I made the decision. I take a quick photo of the receipt and item, then add notes about whether it's inventory or personal. I haven't been through a full audit, but I did have my return questioned once about some expensive electronics I was reselling. When I provided my contemporaneous notes showing purchase intent, along with the eventual sales records, they accepted my explanation without further questions. The timestamp proving I made the decision at purchase time (not retroactively) seemed to be what convinced them.
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Chloe Green
One thing to consider is that the IRS allows you to use different inventory accounting methods for tax purposes like FIFO, LIFO, or specific identification. For a reseller with unique items (not identical products), specific identification usually makes the most sense. This means each item you purchase for resale has its own tracked cost basis. So in your example, the $12 sweater sold for $65 would be $53 profit, and the personal $60 sweater sold for $15 would technically be a $45 personal loss (not deductible against business income).
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Lucas Adams
•I thought specific identification was only for investments like stocks. Can you really use it for physical inventory like clothing?
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Kelsey Chin
•Yes, specific identification is actually the most common method for resellers dealing with unique items! Since each piece of clothing or household item is different (brand, size, condition, etc.), you can track the specific cost of each individual item rather than using averages like FIFO or LIFO. This is especially helpful for resellers because you're not dealing with identical inventory units. Each thrift store find has its own purchase price, condition, and eventual sale price. The IRS specifically allows this method in Publication 538 for businesses with "non-identical" inventory items. Just make sure you keep good records linking each purchase to its eventual sale - photos, receipts, and detailed descriptions help establish the connection between cost and revenue for each specific item.
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Ava Garcia
This is such a common challenge for resellers! I've been dealing with similar issues in my own small business. One thing that really helped me was creating a clear separation between "business purchases" and "personal items that later get sold." For business purchases, I maintain detailed records from day one - photos, receipts, storage location, listing attempts, etc. These clearly qualify for COGS treatment when sold or charitable deduction when donated unsold. For personal items that later get sold, I treat them completely separately. Like your $60 sweater example - that's a personal asset sale, not business inventory. The loss isn't deductible, but it also doesn't get mixed up with your business accounting. The gray area items (bought for business but used personally first) are the trickiest. I've found the best approach is to "convert" them out of inventory when you start personal use, then treat any later sale as personal. Document the conversion with a note about fair market value at the time. For damaged items like your laptop, if it was personal property, selling for parts is still a personal transaction. But this is where having that clear intent documentation from purchase really matters - it establishes whether something was ever business property to begin with. The key is consistency in your method and keeping contemporaneous records of your intent. Don't try to retroactively categorize things based on what's most tax-advantageous!
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