How do I answer filing status when I'm in college, living with grandparents but making $23k?
I'm a college student currently living with my grandparents and wondering about my tax situation. They provide a roof over my head rent-free and buy probably more than half the food I eat. I worked a lot last year and made about $31,000 before taxes in 2022, which I think means I can't be claimed as a dependent (right?). But I'm totally confused about how to answer the dependency questions on my tax forms. Do I select that "someone can claim me as a dependent" or not? My grandparents haven't explicitly said they're claiming me, but they definitely support me in major ways. I tried reading the IRS guidelines but got lost in all the support tests and qualifying relative/child stuff. Does anyone know how this works? Should I ask my grandparents first before filing? I don't want to mess this up and have either of us get in trouble with the IRS. Thanks for any help!
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Kylo Ren
The key question here is whether you qualify as a dependent under IRS rules. Based on your income ($31,000), you're right to question this because you exceed the income threshold for a qualifying child, which is $4,300 for 2022. For your grandparents to claim you as a dependent, you'd need to meet several tests. The income test is just one part - there's also relationship, residency, support, and age/student tests. Since you're a college student under 24 living with them, you meet the relationship, residency, and age/student tests. Where things get tricky is the support test. Even though they provide housing and food, the IRS looks at who provides more than 50% of your TOTAL support. Your support includes housing, food, clothing, education expenses, medical costs, transportation, and other necessities. If you're paying for college, your own car, clothing, phone, etc. with your income, you might be providing more than 50% of your own support despite the free housing and food. I'd recommend sitting down with your grandparents to calculate who provides more total support. If you provide more than 50% of your own support, you can't be claimed as a dependent, regardless of your living situation.
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Nina Fitzgerald
•Thanks for explaining this! I'm in a similar boat but was wondering - do tuition payments count as part of the support calculation? My parents pay my tuition directly to the school, but I cover my apartment and living expenses. Does that tuition payment automatically mean they provide more than 50% of my support? Also, what happens if I file claiming myself and they also try to claim me? Will we both get audited?
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Kylo Ren
•Yes, tuition payments definitely count toward support. Direct tuition payments are considered support provided by your parents. You need to add up ALL expenses that constitute support - tuition, housing (fair rental value of the space), food, utilities, clothing, medical, transportation, personal items, etc. If their tuition payments plus any other support they provide exceeds 50% of your total support costs, then they provide more than half your support. If both you and your parents claim you, the IRS systems will flag the discrepancy. Usually they'll send notices to both parties asking for clarification. You'd need to either amend your return or provide documentation showing you provided more than half your own support. It's definitely worth having the conversation before filing to avoid this situation.
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Christian Bierman
Something important no one's mentioned yet - have you talked to your grandparents about this? They might not even be planning to claim you as a dependent regardless of whether you qualify or not. My parents technically could have claimed me for one year during college based on the support test, but they chose not to because I got better education tax credits filing independently. Sometimes it makes more financial sense for the student to claim themselves even if they could be claimed by someone else. It's worth having the conversation because if they're not planning to claim you, your decision is easy. But if they are planning to claim you and you don't qualify (or vice versa), you'll want to sort that out before either of you file to avoid problems.
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Paige Cantoni
•No, I actually haven't had that conversation with them yet! That's a really good point. To be honest, I've been avoiding bringing it up because money discussions are always awkward in our family. But you're right - they might not even be planning to claim me regardless of whether I qualify. Is there a significant difference in the tax benefits between them claiming me vs. me filing as independent? I'm wondering if there's an obvious financial advantage one way or the other that could guide the conversation.
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Christian Bierman
•There can be significant differences! If you file independently and paid for education expenses, you might qualify for education credits like the American Opportunity Credit (up to $2,500) or the Lifetime Learning Credit. These credits are usually more valuable to a student with lower income than to grandparents who might be in a higher tax bracket. On the other hand, if your grandparents claim you, they might get a dependent tax credit (though this is reduced at certain income levels). The key is figuring out which arrangement saves the most money overall between both tax returns. Sometimes families even split the difference - like if you filing independently saves $2,000 in taxes versus them claiming you, maybe they could give you a portion of that difference since they're losing the dependent benefit.
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Emma Olsen
I'm seeing a lot of confusion about the definitions here. I went through this with my son recently, so let me clarify some terms: For a Qualifying Child (which would apply to grandchildren too): - Must be under 19, or under 24 if a full-time student - Must live with the taxpayer for more than half the year - Must not provide more than half of their own support - The income test of $4,300 ONLY applies to Qualifying Relatives, NOT Qualifying Children So if you're a full-time student under 24, the $31,000 income doesn't automatically disqualify you! The key test is whether you provide more than half your own support. Calculate ALL your annual expenses (housing value, food, utilities, tuition, books, clothing, medical, transportation, phone, etc.) and figure out how much of that YOU paid versus your grandparents. That's what determines dependency status.
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Lucas Lindsey
•Wait, are you sure about that? I thought there was definitely an income limit for being claimed as a dependent regardless of whether you're a qualifying child or relative. This is so confusing!
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Emma Olsen
•You're confusing two different tests. There IS an income test, but only for Qualifying Relatives, not for Qualifying Children. A student under 24 can be claimed as a Qualifying Child regardless of their income amount, as long as they don't provide more than half of their own support and meet the other tests. The IRS is very clear about this in Publication 501. The confusion happens because people mix up the rules for Qualifying Children vs. Qualifying Relatives. As a college student under 24, the original poster would be evaluated under the Qualifying Child tests, where there is NO income limit - only the support test matters.
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