HELP: Rejected tax return due to name change after marriage
Hey everyone! I'm in a bit of a bind here. My tax return just got rejected and according to TurboTax, it's because my last name doesn't match what's on file with my social security number. I got married back in November and submitted my name change application online with the Social Security Administration about 10 days ago, but I haven't actually gone in person to complete the process yet. I'm confused because I thought my name change wouldn't be official until I physically got my new social security card in hand. Does filing the online application mean the SSA already has my new married name in their system? Should I be using my new last name on my tax return even though I don't have the updated card yet? Or should I stick with my maiden name since the process isn't complete? Has anyone dealt with this situation before? I really don't want to delay getting my refund over something this silly. Any advice would be super appreciated!
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Raul Neal
The issue is that your tax return needs to match exactly what's in the Social Security Administration's records. Even though you've submitted your name change request, until it's fully processed, your legal name in their system is still your maiden name. When you e-file, the IRS does an automated check against SSA records to verify your identity. Since you filed using your new married name but the SSA still has your maiden name on record, that's causing the rejection. You have two options: 1) File your taxes using your maiden name, which matches what's currently in the SSA system, or 2) Wait until your name change is fully processed and you receive your new Social Security card before filing. If you're concerned about timing, using your maiden name is the simplest solution. This won't affect your filing status - you can still file as married - it just means using your old last name for this tax season.
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Jenna Sloan
•But what if her W-2 already has her married name on it? Wouldn't that cause another mismatch problem if she files with her maiden name?
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Raul Neal
•That's a good question. If your W-2 already shows your married name but your Social Security record still shows your maiden name, you should still file with your maiden name to match SSA records. The IRS is able to match W-2s even with the name difference as long as the Social Security number is correct. When you file, you might include a brief note explaining the discrepancy due to your recent marriage and pending name change. The most important thing is that your tax return name matches what's currently in the SSA database, which is your maiden name until the change is processed.
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Christian Burns
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Sasha Reese
•How does that work exactly? Is it just a chatbot or do actual tax professionals review your documents? I'm in a similar situation but with a divorce name change that's causing my return to be rejected.
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Muhammad Hobbs
•Is it really worth using a service for this? Seems like you could just call the SSA directly and ask them what name is currently in their system.
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Christian Burns
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Sasha Reese
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Diez Ellis
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Vanessa Figueroa
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Noland Curtis
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Vanessa Figueroa
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Abby Marshall
I dealt with this last year! The trick is that you need to file with whatever name is CURRENTLY on file with Social Security. Since your name change isn't completed yet, file with your maiden name. Even though you've submitted the paperwork, until they process it and you get your new card, your legal name in their system is still your maiden name. That's what the IRS checks against during e-filing. Don't worry about your W-2 having a different name - as long as the SSN matches, it'll be fine. And you can still file as married filing jointly even while using your maiden name!
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Sadie Benitez
•If they file with their maiden name but their W-2 has the new name, do they need to include any kind of explanation with their tax return? Or will the IRS just figure it out because the SSN matches?
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Abby Marshall
•The IRS will process it fine as long as the Social Security number matches - no need for a special explanation for most e-filing systems. The SSN is actually the primary identifier they use, not the name. If you're filing by paper instead of electronically, you can include a brief note explaining the name discrepancy due to a recent marriage and pending name change. But for e-filing, there's usually nowhere to add such notes, and it's not necessary anyway since the system primarily validates your identity through your SSN.
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Drew Hathaway
Has anyone tried just using both names? When I got married, I filed as "Jane Maiden-Married" since my paperwork was still processing. It went through without issues.
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Laila Prince
•That's terrible advice. You need to use EXACTLY what's in the Social Security database. Making up a hyphenated version when neither SSA nor your W-2 has that format will just create more problems.
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Drew Hathaway
•I wasn't "making up" anything - that's literally what the Social Security office told me to do during the transition period! But maybe procedures have changed since I did mine a few years ago. I guess my situation might have been different because I was planning to hyphenate permanently, so that's what I had applied for with SSA. Sorry if that doesn't apply to everyone's situation!
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Caden Turner
I just went through this exact situation a few months ago! The key thing to understand is that there's often a delay between when you submit your name change application and when it actually updates in the IRS verification system. Here's what worked for me: I called the Social Security Administration directly (yes, the wait times are brutal) and asked them to confirm what name is currently showing in their records for my SSN. They told me that even though I had submitted my paperwork, my maiden name was still the "active" name in their system until the processing was complete. I ended up filing my taxes using my maiden name, and it went through without any issues. You can still file as "married filing jointly" even while using your maiden name - the filing status is separate from the name issue. One tip: if you do need to call SSA, try calling right when they open (usually 7 AM local time) to avoid the worst of the hold times. Good luck, and don't stress too much - this is a super common issue that lots of newly married people deal with!
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