HELP: My tax return was rejected because of recent name change after marriage
Hey tax folks, I'm in a bit of a pickle and need some quick advice. My tax return was rejected by the IRS and according to TaxAct, it's because my last name doesn't match what's on file with my social security number. I got married back in November and submitted my name change application online with the Social Security Administration about 10 days ago, but I haven't had my in-person appointment yet to complete the process. I'm confused because I thought my name change wouldn't be official until I received my new social security card. Should I be filing with my married name or my maiden name? Does submitting the online application mean they already have my new name in their system? Has anyone else dealt with this name change situation during tax season? I'm stressing because I don't want to delay getting my refund!
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Jamal Anderson
You need to file your taxes using whatever name is currently on your Social Security card. Even though you've initiated the name change process, your legal name for tax purposes is still your maiden name until the Social Security Administration has processed your application and issued you a new card. The IRS and SSA databases are connected, and the IRS verification process checks that your name and SSN match what's in the SSA records. Since your new married name isn't officially in the system yet, that's why your return was rejected.
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Mei Zhang
•But what if she already filed with her married name and got rejected? Does she need to wait until her new SS card arrives, or can she just refile with her maiden name right now?
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Jamal Anderson
•You should refile immediately using your maiden name - the name currently on your Social Security card. Don't wait for your new card to arrive as that could take several weeks. The IRS will process your return based on the information currently in their system. After you receive your new Social Security card with your married name, you won't need to do anything else with this year's taxes - they'll already be processed under your maiden name.
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Liam McGuire
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Amara Eze
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Giovanni Ricci
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Giovanni Ricci
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NeonNomad
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Dylan Mitchell
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Sofia Martinez
I just want to clear up a common misunderstanding. The Social Security Administration and IRS are separate agencies but they do share information. Here's what happens with name changes: 1) You apply to SSA for name change 2) SSA processes your application 3) SSA issues new card 4) SSA updates their database 5) The IRS periodically receives updates from SSA Until all those steps are complete, the IRS will reject tax returns with your new name. Most important thing is to be consistent - use the name that matches your current Social Security card when filing taxes.
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Dmitry Volkov
•So how long does it typically take for the IRS to get the updated info from SSA after you get your new card? Is it immediate or is there like a delay of weeks/months?
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Sofia Martinez
•It's usually not immediate. The SSA and IRS data synchronization typically happens within 2 weeks after your new card is issued, but in some cases it can take up to a month. However, you don't need to worry about the exact timing. Once you receive your new Social Security card with your updated name, that's your confirmation that the change is official with the SSA. For any tax filings after that point, you should use your new name as it appears on your card.
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Ava Thompson
I work at H&R Block and see this all the time. File with whatever name is on your Social Security card RIGHT NOW. If your card still has your maiden name, use that even if you've already applied for a change. The IRS compares the name/SSN combo against the Social Security database during e-filing, and if they don't match exactly, your return gets rejected.
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CyberSiren
•Is there any way around this? Like can she file a paper return with her married name instead of electronic filing? My sister had a similar issue.
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