Gift tax implications for paying fiancé's PA school tuition?

The gift tax is often misunderstood, so let me help clarify. The $17,000 annual exclusion means you can give that amount to anyone each year without reporting it. Giving more doesn't necessarily mean you'll pay tax immediately. If you go over the $17,000 annual limit, you would need to file a gift tax return (Form 709), but you wouldn't actually owe any tax unless you've exceeded your lifetime gift exemption, which is over $12 million in 2025. The form basically just keeps track of how much of your lifetime exemption you've used. Routing payments through his parents as you described could be considered a "step transaction" by the IRS - they look at the intent and final destination. This might be viewed as trying to circumvent the rules, which isn't advisable. Regarding your joint account - money between spouses isn't subject to gift tax, but since you're engaged and not married, that doesn't apply yet. The joint account doesn't change the gift tax situation. My suggestion is to either pay the school directly (explained below) or just give him the money and file the gift tax return if needed.

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Just wanted to add - my accountant told me there's another option you might consider. If you're helping with qualified education expenses, you could potentially claim the Lifetime Learning Credit on your taxes if you can claim your fiancé as a dependent. The rules for claiming an adult who isn't your child are pretty strict though. You'd need to provide more than half their support for the year, they'd need to live with you, and their income would need to be under the threshold amount. It's probably a long shot in your case since he likely doesn't qualify as your dependent, but worth mentioning as an alternative to consider.

Just throwing this out there - have you checked whether his program qualifies for loan forgiveness after graduation? My cousin is a PA and is getting public service loan forgiveness by working at a qualifying non-profit hospital. Might be worth factoring into your financial plan if he's going to work in a setting that qualifies!