First time married: Why is Filing Single vs MFS vs MFJ showing such different refund amounts?

The differences you're seeing are completely normal and are due to how the tax code treats different filing statuses. Let me break this down: First, legally you can't file as Single once you're married (unless you were unmarried on December 31st). Your mock Single filing isn't actually an option, but it does show you something interesting. The difference between your Single and MFS results happens because MFS uses different tax brackets and deduction amounts than Single status. MFS generally has less favorable tax brackets and limitations on certain deductions and credits that Single filers can claim. That's why your return changed from getting $530 back to owing $75. As for why your spouse's numbers stayed the same while yours changed - this likely relates to their specific income level and withholding situation. Some income levels are affected more dramatically by the filing status change than others. Regarding why MFJ ($3800 owed) is better than your combined MFS amounts ($4175) - this is exactly why most couples benefit from filing jointly! MFJ provides more favorable tax brackets, higher standard deductions, and access to certain credits and deductions that MFS filers lose. The tax code was designed to benefit joint filers in most cases.

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Tax preparer here. The difference between filing statuses isn't just about tax brackets, but also about which credits and deductions you qualify for. Here's a quick breakdown: 1. When you file MFS, you lose access to several valuable credits like the Earned Income Credit, education credits, and the child and dependent care credit. 2. Standard deduction for MFS ($13,850 in 2023) is half of MFJ ($27,700), but the standard deduction for Single ($13,850) is the same as MFS. 3. Tax brackets are different - MFS brackets are compressed compared to Single brackets. 4. When you file MFJ, your combined income might push you into a higher bracket, but the brackets are wider so often the overall tax is lower than two separate MFS returns. In your case, MFJ is clearly saving you about $300 compared to filing separately, which is common. The reason your spouse's numbers stayed the same while yours changed probably relates to their specific income level and types of income.

I'm surprised no one mentioned the actual mechanics of WHY the MFJ amount is less than your combined MFS amounts. It's because of how progressive tax brackets work. Say you each make $75k. Filing separately, each of you would have some money taxed at 10%, some at 12%, some at 22%, etc. based on the MFS brackets. But when you combine incomes for MFJ, the brackets are wider. So more of your combined $150k gets taxed at lower rates than when split between two MFS returns. It's like if you had two half-full glasses of water. If you pour them both into a bigger glass, the water level might be lower in the bigger glass because it has a wider base, even though it's the same amount of water. That's an oversimplified explanation, but that's the basic concept of why MFJ often results in lower total tax than MFS combined.

This is such a common confusion for newlyweds! I went through the exact same thing two years ago and it's frustrating how the tax software doesn't explain WHY the numbers change so dramatically. One thing that might help explain your specific situation: the difference in how your numbers changed versus your spouse's likely comes down to your withholding patterns throughout the year. When you were both single, your employers withheld taxes based on single filing status. But once married, if you both continued having taxes withheld as if you were single, one of you might have had "too much" withheld relative to your MFS liability while the other had "too little." The fact that your spouse owes the same amount whether filing single or MFS suggests their withholding was already insufficient for their tax liability. But your withholding as a single person was probably close to perfect for single status, which is why you were getting a refund. When you switch to MFS, you're now subject to different (less favorable) brackets and limitations, so that same withholding amount is no longer enough. For next year, definitely update both of your W-4s to reflect your married status. The IRS W-4 estimator on their website is actually pretty good for this, and it will help you avoid owing so much next year.