Filing for 2024: Should I Choose Single or Head of Household Status with Claiming Kids?
I've got a situation I'm trying to figure out with my filing status for this tax season. I've got 3 children - a teenager and two in college. Been divorced for a while now. I provide more than half the financial support for both of my college-aged kids. According to our divorce settlement, I get to claim our teen on my taxes this year, even though she only stays with me about 1/3 of the time (roughly 35%). My older two are attending universities in different cities and they stay with their mother during summer breaks. I'm working through my tax return now and I'm planning to claim one of my college kids plus my teenage daughter, but weirdly the tax software is suggesting I file as "single" status. I'm confused - wouldn't Head of Household status give me better tax benefits? Am I missing something here? The difference in tax brackets seems significant.
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Sophia Bennett
The Head of Household status could definitely be more beneficial, but there are specific requirements you need to meet. The key factor isn't just that you claim the kids as dependents, but whether they qualify as "qualifying persons" for HOH status. For HOH status, you need to have a qualifying person who lived with you for more than half the year (with exceptions for temporary absences like college). Your teen who only lives with you 35% of the time wouldn't qualify you for HOH. However, if either of your college kids considers your home their main home when not at school (even if they physically spend time elsewhere during breaks), they could qualify you for HOH. College students are considered to be temporarily absent for education, so if your home is still their main residence when not at school, they could qualify you for HOH status even if they spend summers with mom.
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Olivia Evans
•Thanks for explaining that! So even though my college kids spend summers with their mom, they could still count as "living with me" because college is considered a temporary absence? Does that mean the physical time during summers doesn't count against the "more than half the year" requirement?
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Sophia Bennett
•Exactly. College attendance is considered a temporary absence, so those months don't count against you. What matters is whether your home is considered their main home when they're not at school. If they consider your home their main residence despite staying with mom during summers, they can qualify you for HOH. The "more than half the year" requirement looks at where their main home is, not just counting physical days. So if your college student's main home is with you (they're just temporarily at college and then temporarily at mom's during summer), they could qualify you for HOH status. The key is establishing where their main home is when not at school.
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Aiden Chen
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Zoey Bianchi
•How does it work with college students specifically? My daughter is in her sophomore year and I'm not sure if her living in a dorm most of the year affects my ability to claim HOH.
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Christopher Morgan
•Sounds convenient but how accurate is it? I've had tax pros give me conflicting advice about HOH status with college kids before, so I'm skeptical any automated tool could get it right.
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Aiden Chen
•For college students, the tool specifically looks at whether your home is their main residence when not in school. It examines factors like where they return during breaks, whose address is on their official documents, and who provides their support. It's designed to handle exactly these edge cases with the temporary absence rules. Regarding accuracy, I was skeptical too. What convinced me was that they use actual IRS guidelines and court cases to analyze your situation, not just generic advice. They provided specific citations from tax code that applied to my situation. After getting their analysis, I had my accountant review it and he confirmed they were right.
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Christopher Morgan
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Aurora St.Pierre
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Grace Johnson
•How does this actually work? I've tried calling the IRS before and literally gave up after being on hold for 2 hours. Seems too good to be true that any service could get you through that quickly.
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Jayden Reed
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Aurora St.Pierre
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Jayden Reed
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Nora Brooks
An important detail people often miss about HOH status is that you must pay more than half the cost of keeping up a home for the qualifying person. This means household expenses like rent/mortgage, utilities, repairs, etc. Just supporting your kid financially isn't enough - you need to maintain a home where they live. Also, only one person can claim HOH status for the same qualifying child, so if you and your ex are both trying to claim it based on the same child, there could be issues.
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Olivia Evans
•That's good to know about the household expenses! For my situation, I do pay the mortgage, utilities, and other household costs for my home. If I can establish that one of my college kids considers my home their main residence when not at school, would I meet that requirement even if they physically spend more time at college and with their mom during breaks?
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Nora Brooks
•Yes, you would likely meet the requirement. The IRS looks at whether you pay more than half the cost of maintaining the home where your qualifying person lives. Since college dorms and temporary stays during breaks are considered temporary absences, what matters is that you maintain their primary home. As long as your college student considers your home their main residence when not at school, and you pay more than half the costs of maintaining that home, you should meet the requirement. I'd recommend keeping documentation to substantiate this - things like their permanent address on school records, driver's license, voter registration, and where they receive mail.
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Eli Wang
Is anyone using TurboTax for this situation? Mine keeps defaulting to "single" even after I enter all my dependent info and answer the HOH questions. Seems like a software bug.
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Cassandra Moon
•I had the same issue with TurboTax. I found that if you go back to the "Personal Info" section and manually select "Head of Household" instead of letting it calculate automatically, then proceed through the qualifying person questions again, it will stick. Sometimes the software doesn't correctly handle these college student temporary absence situations.
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