Does selling a stock at a loss in my trust then having my kids buy it count as a wash sale?

The wash sale rule generally applies when you (or your spouse) repurchase the same or substantially identical securities within 30 days before or after selling at a loss. The key factor here is who's considered "you" under the IRS rules. For a revocable trust, since you maintain control over the assets, the trust is generally treated as you for tax purposes. The trickier question is about your children. Currently, the IRS wash sale rules don't explicitly extend to purchases made by your children with gifted money. Unlike some other tax provisions, there's no specific "related party" extension for wash sales that automatically includes family members outside your spouse. However, this is an area where intent and substance-over-form can come into play. If the IRS determines this was done primarily to circumvent the wash sale rules while effectively maintaining economic interest in the same securities, they could potentially challenge it.

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There's another angle to consider here - the "step transaction doctrine" that the IRS sometimes uses. If they can prove that the entire sequence (you selling, gifting cash, kids buying same stock) was pre-arranged as a single plan to circumvent the wash sale rules, they might challenge it. The biggest risk factor would be timing and documentation. If you explicitly instruct your kids to buy the stock, especially in writing, or if the transactions happen very close together, that's riskier. If you truly gift the money with no strings attached and they independently decide to purchase the stock some time later, you'd have a much stronger position.

Has anyone actually been audited for something like this? I feel like the IRS has bigger fish to fry than tracking what your adult kids buy with gift money. Not that I'm advocating for breaking rules, but realistically, how would they even connect these dots unless the amounts were huge?

I think you're underestimating the IRS's ability to track related transactions, especially with larger amounts like $22,000. The IRS has sophisticated data matching systems that can connect 1099-B forms (showing your stock sale) with gift tax returns (if you file Form 709) and your children's brokerage accounts. Even if you stay under the annual gift tax exclusion and don't file Form 709, brokerage firms report all transactions. If your kids buy the same stock shortly after you sell it, especially if they're using accounts at the same brokerage, that creates a clear paper trail. The audit risk might be low, but the consequences of having your loss deduction disallowed plus potential penalties make it worth being careful. A safer approach might be to wait the full 30 days before gifting the money, or have your kids invest in genuinely different securities that aren't substantially identical to what you sold.

One important consideration that hasn't been mentioned yet is the gift tax implications. While you mentioned the $22,000 gift, remember that the 2024 annual gift tax exclusion is $18,000 per recipient. If you're gifting $22,000 to each of your three children ($66,000 total), you'll exceed the annual exclusion limits and need to file Form 709. This actually creates additional documentation that could make it easier for the IRS to connect your stock sale to your children's subsequent purchases. The gift tax return would show the timing and amounts of your gifts, which could be cross-referenced with their brokerage activity. Consider splitting the gifts between you and your spouse (if married) to stay within the annual exclusion limits, or spacing the gifts across tax years. This reduces both the gift tax filing requirements and the paper trail that might trigger IRS scrutiny of the overall transaction sequence. Also, make sure your children understand they should make their own independent investment decisions with the gifted funds, and document that the gifts are unconditional with no expectation about how the money will be used.