Do I qualify as Head of Household if I pay rent for my elderly Mom?

With tax season coming up, I'm trying to figure out if I can file as Head of Household. My situation is that I'm single (never married) and have been living with my elderly mother since February 2023. She's retired and gets about $1750 monthly from Social Security. We live in an income-restricted apartment where I pay the full rent each month, but she handles her own utilities, groceries, and personal bills from her SS money. I'm confused about whether this qualifies me for HOH status since technically I'm supporting the household by covering the rent, but she pays for her own stuff otherwise. And if I do qualify, what kind of proof would I need? Should I keep copies of rent receipts or bank statements showing I paid it? Do I need to show the apartment lease with both our names? Any help would be super appreciated because I really want to get this right!!

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Elijah Knight

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You might qualify for Head of Household, but there are a few specific requirements to check. First, since you're supporting your mother, she would need to qualify as your dependent. For this to happen, you need to provide more than half of her total support for the year, and her gross income (excluding Social Security benefits that aren't taxable) needs to be under $4,700 for 2024. The rent payments are definitely part of the support calculation, but you'd need to look at the total picture. Add up ALL costs for the year - rent, utilities, food, medical expenses, clothing, etc. If what you paid is more than half of that total, you're providing more than half her support. For documentation, keep records of rent payments (bank statements or receipts), the lease agreement showing you both live there, and possibly a statement showing your mother's income. It's also helpful to create a "support worksheet" where you document all expenses for the household and who paid what.

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Elijah Knight

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Social Security benefits are only partially excluded from the gross income test - it depends on if they're taxable or not. You'll need to determine if any portion of her benefits are taxable based on her overall income situation. For the support test, you need to calculate the total value of ALL support she received during the year. For example, if the yearly rent is $15,000, and her personal expenses (food, medical, etc.) total $10,000, then the total support is $25,000. If you paid the $15,000 rent, you're providing 60% of her support, which would meet the "more than half" requirement.

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Jay Lincoln

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Jay Lincoln

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Jessica Suarez

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Just wanted to update - I tried taxr.ai after seeing the recommendation here and it cleared everything up for my situation! I uploaded my mom's Social Security statement and my rent receipts, and it determined I DO qualify for HOH since the rent I pay makes up about 58% of her total support for the year. It also created a customized support worksheet that showed exactly which expenses count and how they're calculated. The best part was it explained the special rules for Social Security income - in my mom's case, none of it counts toward the gross income test because of her overall income level. Definitely worth checking out if you're in a similar situation!

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Marcus Williams

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Marcus Williams

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Kennedy Morrison

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Wesley Hallow

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One thing nobody's mentioned yet - make sure you're also considering the "maintaining a home" test for HOH. It's not just about providing financial support. You need to pay more than half the cost of maintaining the home where you and your qualifying person (in this case your mom) live. Costs include rent, mortgage interest, property taxes, home insurance, repairs, utilities and food eaten in the home. If you only pay rent but mom pays ALL utilities, groceries, etc., you need to do the math carefully to see if your contribution exceeds 50% of the TOTAL home maintenance costs.

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Wesley Hallow

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Based on those numbers, you're likely meeting the maintaining a home test. Your annual rent contribution is about $22,800 ($1900 × 12), while her utilities and groceries total around $7,800 ($650 × 12). That puts the total home maintenance at approximately $30,600, with you covering about 75% of those costs. This looks like you're well above the 50% threshold for the maintaining a home test. Just make sure you have documentation for your rent payments throughout the year. Also, keep in mind this is separate from determining if she qualifies as your dependent, which involves looking at her total support costs and income limits.

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