Can I claim my mother as a dependent and file Head of Household if she's still married?

You've got a complicated situation here, but I'll try to break it down simply. For claiming your parents as dependents: Yes, you can potentially claim both your mom and dad as dependents if: 1) Their gross income is less than $4,700 each (for 2023, will be slightly higher for 2024) 2) You provide more than half their support 3) They aren't filing a joint return (or are only filing to get a refund of taxes withheld) Social Security might be partially taxable depending on their other income, but it sounds like they're below the threshold where it would count toward the gross income limit. For Head of Household: This is trickier. To file as HOH, you need to be unmarried at the end of the year (which you are for 2023), pay more than half the cost of keeping up a home, and have a qualifying person living with you. Parents don't have to live with you to be qualifying relatives for dependency purposes, but they DO need to live with you to qualify you for HOH status (unless they're your qualifying child, which doesn't apply here). So if your parents don't live with you, you can claim them as dependents but would need to file as Single, not HOH.

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I wanted to follow up about my experience with taxr.ai after asking about it earlier. I finally tried it for my situation with my disabled adult son who received unemployment, and it was surprisingly helpful! The system walked me through a series of questions about my son's disability status, his income sources, and our living situation. It identified that while his unemployment would normally disqualify him as a dependent, there's an exception for permanently disabled individuals where the gross income test doesn't apply. It showed me the exact part of IRS Publication 501 that covered this exception and explained how to document everything properly. I was able to claim him AND file as Head of Household which saved me almost $3,000 compared to filing single. Just wanted to share since it actually helped with my complicated situation.

Just want to share something that might help you if the IRS questions your filing status or dependent claims. I had a similar situation with my elderly father last year, and the IRS sent me a letter questioning my Head of Household status. I spent WEEKS trying to get through to the IRS phone line to explain my situation. Always busy signals or 2+ hour waits that disconnected me. Super frustrating! Then I found this service called Claimyr (https://claimyr.com) that somehow got me connected to an actual IRS agent in about 15 minutes. They have a video showing how it works here: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c The IRS agent was actually really helpful once I got through and explained exactly what documentation I needed to provide to support my claim. Ended up saving my refund which was over $4,000. Definitely recommend having a way to actually talk to someone if you get any notices about your filing.

I need to eat my words and update everyone. After being super skeptical about Claimyr in my previous comment, I got desperate when the IRS sent me a CP2000 notice claiming I owed $7,800 in back taxes (which was completely wrong). I tried Claimyr as a last resort and holy crap - it actually worked! Got connected to an IRS agent in about 20 minutes after spending literally weeks trying on my own. The agent confirmed there was a mistake on their end and helped me resolve the whole issue over the phone. Turns out the IRS had mismatched some income that wasn't actually mine. Without getting through to explain this, I would have either paid thousands I didn't owe or gone through a lengthy correspondence audit. For anyone dealing with IRS notices about dependent claims or filing status (like the original poster might face), being able to actually speak with someone makes a massive difference.

I just want to point out that the OP mentioned getting married in 2024. Just remember that your filing status is determined by your marital status on December 31st of the tax year. So if you get married in 2024, you'll be considered married for the entire 2024 tax year (which you'd file in 2025). That means you wouldn't be eligible for Head of Household status for 2024 regardless of your parent situation, since you can't file HOH if you're married (unless you qualify as "considered unmarried" which has its own requirements). Just something to keep in mind for your planning!

One important thing no one's mentioned yet - if your parents receive Medicaid, SSI, or certain other benefits, being claimed as dependents on your taxes could potentially affect their eligibility or benefit amounts. Some means-tested government programs have specific rules about this. I found this out the hard way when I claimed my grandmother and it caused issues with her benefits. Might be worth checking with your state's Medicaid office or your parents' benefits administrators before making any changes to your tax situation.