Discovered unpaid business employment taxes from years ago - now in collections
So I just found out about a tax nightmare from our former business that my spouse never told me about. Pre-pandemic, we ran an events-based business together. I handled operations while my spouse managed all the finances. When COVID hit, like many event businesses, we struggled but tried to hold on as long as possible before eventually shutting down. Fast forward to this week - I happened to grab the mail (my spouse usually does this) and found 4 letters from the IRS addressed to me personally. They stated my account had been transferred to a private collections agency. I was completely blindsided. After confronting my spouse and doing some digging, I discovered that for the final two years of our business, the employment taxes weren't being paid. When I asked about it, my spouse admitted they couldn't cover all the bills and chose to skip the employment taxes. They kept this hidden from me "to avoid stressing me out" and have been hiding the letters ever since. The balance now stands at over $40,000 with all the penalties and interest. I'm beyond furious and completely overwhelmed. This is money I absolutely don't have. My main questions: If this continues to go unpaid, will they eventually garnish our wages? Do I have any options besides paying this enormous amount? Is there any possibility of getting some of the penalties waived? I'm already reaching out to a tax attorney, but wanted to hear from others who might have dealt with something similar.
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Chloe Robinson
As a tax resolution consultant, I can tell you this is unfortunately quite common with small businesses that closed during COVID. The IRS is very serious about unpaid employment taxes (what's called "trust fund taxes") because that's money withheld from employee paychecks that was supposed to be remitted to the government. Here's what you need to know: Yes, the IRS can and will eventually garnish wages, levy bank accounts, and even put liens on property. However, you do have options. First, the IRS has several payment programs available - an installment agreement being the most common. Depending on your financial situation, you might qualify for an Offer in Compromise (settling for less than the full amount) or Currently Not Collectible status if you truly can't pay. For the penalties, you can request penalty abatement, especially if this was your first time missing these payments. First-time penalty abatement can remove some of the failure-to-file and failure-to-pay penalties. The tax attorney is a good move. Make sure they specialize in IRS tax resolution, not just general tax preparation.
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Omar Hassan
•Thank you for this information. I'm worried sick about wage garnishment since we're barely making ends meet now. Would the IRS typically notify us before garnishing wages or could it happen suddenly? Also, roughly what percentage of the $40,000 might be penalties versus the original tax amount?
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Chloe Robinson
•The IRS will send multiple notices before proceeding with garnishment. You generally have 30 days to respond to a Final Notice of Intent to Levy before they can take collection action. This gives you time to set up a payment arrangement or pursue other options. Regarding the breakdown, it varies significantly, but typically penalties and interest can make up 25-50% of the total amount after several years. The original tax might be around $20,000-30,000 with the rest being penalties and interest. Your tax attorney can get an exact breakdown from the IRS and determine which penalties might qualify for abatement.
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Diego Chavez
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NeonNebula
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Sean Kelly
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Zara Mirza
•How exactly does this work? The IRS phone system is notoriously impossible, so I'm confused how any service could get you through faster than anyone else calling the same number.
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Luca Russo
•Yeah right, and I'm the Queen of England. There's no way to "skip the line" with the IRS. This sounds like a scam where they just call for you and you pay for someone to wait on hold. The IRS doesn't give priority access to third parties.
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Sean Kelly
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Luca Russo
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Nia Harris
One thing not mentioned yet - if these were employment taxes, you need to understand the Trust Fund Recovery Penalty (TFRP). The IRS can assess personally against BOTH of you the portion of taxes that was withheld from employee paychecks but not remitted. This is critical because even if your business was an LLC or corporation, the TFRP bypasses that protection. And it applies to anyone who was "responsible" for collecting, accounting for, and paying those taxes. Since you were both owners, they can come after either or both of you. Definitely work with your tax attorney on this part specifically. If your spouse was the one handling finances, there might be a way to argue you weren't a "responsible person" under the TFRP rules, though it can be an uphill battle.
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Omar Hassan
•This is terrifying. So even though my spouse handled all the finances and made the decision not to pay these taxes without telling me, I could still be held personally liable? Do they ever consider these kinds of circumstances?
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Nia Harris
•They do consider circumstances, but you'll need to prove you weren't a "responsible person" as defined by the IRS. The fact that you were an owner and involved in the business creates a presumption that you had authority. However, your tax attorney can help build a case based on your specific role. Key factors they look at: Who had check-signing authority? Who made financial decisions? Who had the power to determine which creditors got paid? If you can demonstrate your spouse exclusively controlled these functions and deliberately kept you in the dark, you may have a case. Document everything about your roles and responsibilities in the business.
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GalaxyGazer
Random tip from personal experience - request your IRS transcripts ASAP! You can get them online through the IRS website. They'll show exactly what's been assessed, when, and give a complete history of your account. My ex-husband hid tax problems from me too, and when I finally got my transcripts, I discovered some of the "tax due" letters were actually for periods that had already passed the 10-year collection statute of limitations. The collection agency was still trying to collect, but they legally couldn't! Also, make sure to ask your tax attorney about "innocent spouse relief" - it might apply in your situation since your spouse concealed the tax issue from you.
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Mateo Sanchez
•This! I got transcripts and found out the collection agency was trying to collect on some taxes where the assessment date was 12 years ago. When I pointed this out, they immediately removed $9k from what I "owed" because it was past the statute. Collection agencies often don't check this.
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