Discovered family committing serious tax evasion for years - what should I do?
I recently found out that my father has been evading taxes for what looks like at least 15-20 years. I was helping him organize some paperwork when I stumbled across financial records that don't match what he's been reporting to the IRS. From what I can tell, he's been earning around $270K annually but has been understating his income by a significant amount and claiming fake deductions worth about $80-85K each year. The worst part is that my sister seems to be fully aware and involved in this scheme, and she's even brought her 19-year-old daughter (my niece) into it somehow. I think they're using some kind of business entity to shuffle money around and hide income. I'm honestly shocked and don't know what to do. This isn't just a little tax mistake - we're talking about deliberate, long-term tax fraud involving substantial amounts. I'm worried about potential legal consequences for everyone involved, including my niece who might not fully understand what she's participating in. Should I confront them? Report them? Pretend I never saw anything? I feel sick about this whole situation.
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NebulaKnight
This is an extremely difficult situation to be in, and I understand your concern. Family tax fraud, especially of this magnitude and duration, is serious business with potentially significant legal consequences. First, understand that willful tax evasion is a federal crime that can result in hefty fines and even imprisonment, especially for cases spanning decades with large dollar amounts. The IRS has a whistleblower program, but reporting family members is obviously a personally complicated decision. Before doing anything, I'd recommend consulting with a tax attorney (not an accountant) who specializes in tax controversy and criminal tax matters. This consultation would be protected by attorney-client privilege, allowing you to discuss the situation freely without implicating yourself or creating legal exposure. They can help you understand the full scope of the situation and your options. Be aware that there could be consequences for your niece even if she didn't fully understand what she was participating in, though her age and level of involvement would be considered. The IRS generally pursues the primary offenders most aggressively.
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Sofia Ramirez
•If they consult with a tax attorney, won't that put them on the hook somehow too? Like becoming complicit by knowing about it and not reporting? Also, how much trouble could the niece actually be in if she was just following what her mom told her to do?
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NebulaKnight
•Consulting with an attorney doesn't make you complicit - in fact, those conversations are protected by attorney-client privilege specifically so you can get advice without creating additional legal issues. The attorney can help you understand your own legal position and options without any obligation to report. For the niece, it depends entirely on her level of involvement and understanding. If she was just signing documents her mother put in front of her without understanding their purpose, her culpability would likely be considered much lower. However, if she was actively and knowingly participating in creating false documents or hiding income while understanding it was for tax evasion, that's different. Age is considered, but at 19, she's legally an adult. The IRS typically focuses enforcement efforts on the primary architects of tax schemes rather than peripheral participants.
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Dmitry Popov
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Ava Rodriguez
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QuantumQuest
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Connor Murphy
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Yara Haddad
I think everyone's missing a key point here - the niece could be in SERIOUS trouble that will follow her forever. At 19, she probably just did what her mom told her to without understanding the consequences. Before you do anything else, I'd talk to the niece privately. She deserves a chance to understand what she's involved in and maybe get out before any potential investigation.
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Keisha Robinson
•But wouldn't talking to the niece risk tipping off the whole family that OP knows? Then they might try to hide evidence or something. Isn't that obstruction of justice or something similar?
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Yara Haddad
•That's a valid concern, but I don't think it rises to obstruction of justice if you're simply having a private conversation with someone about potential legal exposure. The key is to approach it carefully - not suggesting they destroy evidence or hide assets, but rather informing a young person that what she's participating in might have serious consequences. The reality is that a 19-year-old likely doesn't fully understand tax law or the potential criminal penalties involved. She might be participating because she trusts her mother and grandfather, not because she's made an informed decision to commit tax fraud. Giving her information allows her to make her own choices going forward.
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Paolo Conti
Is nobody going to mention that OP could get a MASSIVE whistleblower reward from the IRS for reporting this? With $270k income and $80k+ fake deductions over decades, we're talking about hundreds of thousands in unpaid taxes. The IRS whistleblower program pays 15-30% of what they collect!
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Amina Sow
•Wow so you're suggesting they sell out their entire family for cash? That's cold. This is their father and sister we're talking about. They could go to PRISON. The niece's life would be ruined before it even starts.
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GalaxyGazer
The real question here is how deeply OP wants to be involved. There are basically three paths: 1. Pretend you never saw anything (risky if they ever get caught and the IRS thinks you knew) 2. Confront them directly and try to convince them to come clean through voluntary disclosure (IRS has programs for this) 3. Report them through the whistleblower program There's no easy answer here but remember that willful tax evasion at this scale is a felony. This isn't "oops I forgot to report some income" - this is deliberate, sustained criminal behavior. Think carefully about your own liability and what you can live with morally.
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