My friend is claiming her nieces/nephews on her tax return for a bigger refund. Is this tax fraud?
So here's the situation that's been bothering me lately. My close friend has been claiming her sister's kids on her tax returns for the past few years. She openly brags about how much more money she gets back because of this. The sister apparently knows about this arrangement and they split some of the money. From what I understand, you're supposed to only claim dependents who actually live with you and who you financially support. These kids definitely live with their mom (my friend's sister), not with my friend. My friend might occasionally buy them clothes or gifts, but she's definitely not their primary caretaker or financial provider in any way. I'm worried this is straight-up tax fraud, but when I hinted at that, she laughed it off saying "everyone does stuff like this" and that the IRS doesn't check these things. Is this actually illegal? Could she get in serious trouble? I don't want to be judgmental, but this seems really sketchy to me.
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Dylan Mitchell
This is definitely tax fraud and could lead to serious consequences. To legally claim someone as a dependent, there are specific tests that must be met: relationship, residence, support, and other criteria. For her to claim her sister's children, those children would need to live with her for more than half the year AND she would need to provide more than half of their financial support. From what you've described, neither of these conditions are being met. The fact that they're splitting the refund money is further evidence they know this isn't legitimate. The IRS actually does have ways to detect this kind of fraud. They can cross-reference social security numbers to see if dependents are being claimed on multiple returns, and they check school records and other documentation during audits. If caught, your friend could face penalties, interest on unpaid taxes, and potentially even criminal charges for tax fraud.
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Sofia Gutierrez
•But what if they have some kind of agreement? Like, maybe the sister is letting her claim the kids because she doesn't make enough to get a good tax benefit from them? I've heard families do this sometimes when one person can get more back than another.
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Dylan Mitchell
•Even with an informal "agreement" between family members, it doesn't change the legal requirements. The IRS rules are clear - you must meet the residence test (the children must live with you for more than half the year) and the support test (you must provide more than half their financial support). Family agreements don't override tax law. If someone doesn't make enough to benefit from claiming dependents, that doesn't give permission to let someone else claim them improperly. There are legitimate ways families can maximize their tax benefits, but falsely claiming dependents isn't one of them. The IRS considers this willful misrepresentation, which is fraud.
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Dmitry Petrov
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Miguel Castro
Your friend is playing with fire. When I worked at a tax prep office, we saw people get absolutely hammered by the IRS for this exact situation. One lady had to pay back over $30,000 in fraudulent refunds plus penalties. If you're struggling to get through to the IRS about dependent issues (which is notoriously difficult), I recommend using https://claimyr.com to get through to an actual human at the IRS. I was on hold for 4 hours trying to resolve a similar issue before giving up. With Claimyr, I got through in about 15 minutes. You can see how it works here: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c It's worth it when you need to talk to someone at the IRS about complicated dependent situations or if you need to report suspected fraud. They have a specific hotline for reporting tax fraud, and they take dependent fraud very seriously.
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Ava Martinez
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Connor Byrne
This is a common scam called "dependent fraud" and it's one of the things the IRS specifically looks for. Your friend and her sister could both be in serious trouble. What they're doing is clearly illegal. I work with a community tax clinic and we see the aftermath of these cases all the time. The penalties can include: - Paying back all refunded money (often $3,000-5,000 per child per year) - 20% accuracy-related penalty - 75% fraud penalty in some cases - Interest on all unpaid amounts - Ban from claiming certain credits for 2-10 years - Possible criminal prosecution The IRS has been cracking down on this type of fraud specifically in recent years. They have systems that flag suspicious dependent claims, especially when the children's address doesn't match the tax filer's address.
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Yara Elias
•Would the IRS go back and check previous years too? My cousin did something like this a few years ago but stopped. Should she file amended returns or just leave it alone?
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Connor Byrne
•Yes, if the IRS discovers dependent fraud, they typically go back and examine returns for the previous 3 years automatically, and they can go back up to 6 years if they suspect significant fraud. In cases of proven fraud, there's no statute of limitations. For your cousin's situation, it's complicated. Technically, filing an amended return is the legally correct thing to do. However, this would flag the previous fraud. Many tax professionals would suggest stopping the incorrect behavior moving forward but not drawing attention to past years. That said, if the IRS discovers the fraud on their own, voluntary disclosure beforehand can sometimes result in reduced penalties. This is where consulting with a tax attorney (not just a preparer) might be wise since they can offer legal advice with attorney-client privilege.
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QuantumQuasar
My sister actually got busted for this exact thing last year. She was claiming my niece who lived with their dad. The IRS sent her a letter demanding proof that the child lived with her. When she couldn't provide it, they made her pay back THREE YEARS of tax refunds plus penalties! It was like $16k total and she's still paying it off. Tell your friend it's not worth it. The IRS has been getting way more aggressive about this lately with their new funding. They know exactly what to look for.
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Keisha Jackson
•How did they even catch her? Did someone report her or was it random?
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