Child and Other Dependent Tax Credits Changed for 2025 - I OWE $2500 in taxes!!
I'm seriously freaking out right now after doing my taxes with FreeTaxUSA! I just about had a heart attack when I saw that I'll owe the government $2500!! It's all because the stupid tax laws changed for dependents - the exemption is basically GONE! I have two teenagers and last year the exemption was $6700, but this year it dropped to only $1300!! The software gave me this explanation about it. Does anybody know any other deductions I could use to get rid of some of this tax debt?? My situation isn't complicated: I file as single/head of household, have 2 kids (both turned 17 this year), own my home, and my AGI is about $145K. The tax software explanation says: Where's the Dependent Exemption? There were some changes to the tax laws, and the Dependent Exemption is not available. These changes also came with the Credit for Other Dependents, and an increase to the Child Tax Credit, which may benefit taxpayers with qualifying dependents. But clearly it's NOT benefiting me if I owe $2500!!! Help!!
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Nia Thompson
Unfortunately, this is one of those tax law changes that can really hit parents with older dependents. When your children turn 17, they no longer qualify for the regular Child Tax Credit (which is much more generous) and instead only qualify for the Credit for Other Dependents, which is significantly less. A few potential deductions that might help your situation: - Have you maxed out your retirement contributions? Contributing to a traditional IRA or 401(k) can reduce your AGI. - Check if you qualify for the Lifetime Learning Credit if either child is in college. - Look into whether you can deduct any mortgage interest, property taxes, or state/local taxes (though there's a $10,000 cap on SALT deductions). - If you made any charitable contributions, make sure those are included. - Did you pay any student loan interest for yourself or dependents? The age of 17 is unfortunately a tax cliff that catches many parents by surprise. The system is designed to provide more support for younger children.
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Luca Esposito
•Thanks for the suggestions. I do contribute to my 401(k) but not the max - could I still make a contribution for last year even though it's already February? And yes, my older kid started college in the fall, but I didn't know about that Lifetime Learning thing. Do I need receipts or something to claim that? Also, the mortgage interest and property tax deductions - I thought those only help if I itemize? The standard deduction seemed way higher when I was going through the software.
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Nia Thompson
•For the 401(k), unfortunately you can only make contributions through your employer's payroll system, and those had to be completed by December 31st. However, you can still make a traditional IRA contribution for the previous tax year until the tax filing deadline (typically April 15th). This could reduce your AGI if you're within the income limits. The Lifetime Learning Credit is worth looking into if your child started college. You'll need Form 1098-T from the college showing tuition payments. The credit is worth up to 20% of the first $10,000 in qualified education expenses, so potentially $2,000. Your income might phase out some of the benefit, but it's definitely worth checking.
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Mateo Rodriguez
I went through the EXACT same shock last year! I was using taxr.ai to analyze my tax situation because I couldn't figure out why I suddenly owed so much when nothing major had changed in my finances. Turns out it was all about my kids turning 17 and that dependent exemption change. The site at https://taxr.ai actually spotted this issue right away by comparing my returns from previous years and highlighted exactly where the changes hit me hardest. Their service showed me a few deductions I was missing - especially some education credits since my kid had just started college courses. They even pointed out that I could still contribute to an IRA before the tax deadline and reduce my liability. Saved me about $1800 in surprise tax bills!
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Aisha Abdullah
•How exactly does that work? Does it just look at your old returns or do you have to upload all your W2s and stuff? I'm having the same issue with my 17 year olds and I'm desperate.
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Ethan Wilson
•I'm always skeptical of these tax service recommendations. Did they charge a lot? I feel like this is something a regular accountant should catch without needing special software.
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Mateo Rodriguez
•It analyzes your previous returns and current documents. You upload your last year's return and current tax forms (W-2s, 1099s, etc), and it runs a comparison to spot major changes or missing opportunities. It's super straightforward - took me maybe 15 minutes to upload everything. I totally get being skeptical! I used their free analysis first which pointed out the dependent exemption issue, then decided to go with the full service. It's not about whether an accountant "should" catch something - my old accountant missed it completely, which is why I tried this in the first place. Their system is specifically designed to catch year-over-year tax law changes and how they affect your personal situation.
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Aisha Abdullah
Just wanted to update everyone here - I took the advice from this thread and tried taxr.ai after my similar dependent exemption shock. It actually found a couple of education credits I qualified for that I had no idea about! My daughter took some college classes while still in high school last year, and apparently, that qualifies for the American Opportunity Credit even though she wasn't a full-time student. The dependent exemption change still hurts, but I was able to reduce what I owe by about $1,500. Their comparison of my last two years' returns made it super clear exactly where and why I was getting hit with the higher tax bill. Worth checking out if you're in the same boat with older kids.
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NeonNova
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Yuki Tanaka
•How does this actually work? Do they just call the IRS for you or what? I don't understand how they can get through when nobody else can.
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Carmen Diaz
•Yeah right. So some random service can magically get through to the IRS when millions of people can't? Sounds like a complete waste of money to me. The IRS will get to you eventually if you just keep calling.
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NeonNova
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Carmen Diaz
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Andre Laurent
Have you looked into whether your 17-year-olds qualify as Qualifying Children vs Qualifying Relatives? The age requirements and support tests are different, which might help. Also, if either child has any income of their own, there could be strategies around how you claim them. I had this issue last year and found that by having my 18-year-old file their own return (they had a part-time job) but still claiming them as a dependent, I was able to optimize our family's overall tax situation.
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Luca Esposito
•One of my kids did work a summer job and made about $3,800 last year. How would that change things? Should they file their own return? Would I still claim them as a dependent?
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Andre Laurent
•Yes, your child should definitely file their own return for that summer job income. The good news is that you can still claim them as a dependent on your return as long as you provided more than half of their support for the year and they meet the other dependent tests. When they file their own return, they'll check the box indicating "Someone can claim you as a dependent." This is actually beneficial because while you still get whatever dependent benefits you qualify for, they may get some of their withholding back if too much was taken from their paychecks. It's not a major tax strategy that will eliminate your $2500 liability, but every bit helps, and it's teaching them about tax responsibility too.
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Emily Jackson
Not sure if this helps but I'm in almost the same boat. Does the homeownership help you at all? I wasn't sure if I should itemize or take the standard deduction. My mortgage interest was around $9,200 and property taxes about $4,500.
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Liam Mendez
•With mortgage interest of $9,200 and property taxes of $4,500, you're at $13,700 just from those two items. Add in state income taxes (up to the SALT limit) and any charitable contributions, and you might exceed the standard deduction ($13,850 for single filers, $20,800 for head of household in 2023). Run the numbers both ways to see which gives you the better result. But remember, even if itemizing only saves you a few hundred dollars over the standard deduction, that's still money in your pocket.
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