Can both my spouse and I claim our child as an allowance on our W4 forms when filing joint taxes?

The confusion here is understandable! The W-4 form isn't about "claiming" your child in the same way as your tax return. When you're married filing jointly, the W-4 is about getting the right amount withheld throughout the year. If both you and your spouse put your child on your W-4s, you'd both have less tax withheld from your paychecks. This would likely result in underwithholding and you'd probably owe money when you file. The best approach is to coordinate your W-4s. One option is for one of you to claim the child on your W-4, and the other doesn't. Another option is to use the IRS Tax Withholding Estimator tool to figure out the best way to complete both forms. Remember, the W-4 is just about withholding during the year - it doesn't affect your actual tax liability or who "claims" the child on your tax return. When you file jointly, you'll both benefit from having a dependent regardless of how you filled out your W-4s.

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The way we handled this with me and my wife was to do some math based on our incomes. Since she makes about 60% of our household income, she claims our daughter on her W-4 and I don't. That way the withholding roughly matches our actual tax situation. If you both make about the same, you could potentially split it by having one of you claim the child tax credit and the other claim an extra deduction amount. Just don't double dip or you'll be paying at tax time!

I made this mistake last year with my husband and we ended up owing $4,200 at tax time!!! It was a nightmare. We both put our twins on our W-4s and our withholding was way too low. We had to set up a payment plan with the IRS. Learn from our mistake and just have one person claim the kids on their W-4!!

This is a really common confusion! The key thing to understand is that the W-4 is about withholding the right amount of taxes from your paychecks throughout the year, not about who gets to "claim" your child on your actual tax return. Since you're married filing jointly, you'll both benefit from having your daughter as a dependent when you file your return regardless of your W-4 setup. However, if you both put your child's credit amount ($2,000) in Step 3 of your W-4s, you'd be telling your employers to withhold $4,000 less in taxes combined - but you're only entitled to one $2,000 child tax credit. This would likely result in underwithholding and you'd owe money at tax time. The best approach is to coordinate your W-4s. Since you both make similar incomes (~$58k each), you could either have one of you claim the full $2,000 child tax credit and the other claim zero, or you could each claim $1,000. I'd recommend using the IRS Tax Withholding Estimator at irs.gov to run the numbers and see what works best for your specific situation. Don't worry - this trips up a lot of couples! The important thing is making sure your combined withholding matches your actual tax liability.

Great question! This is exactly the kind of confusion that trips up many married couples filing jointly. The short answer is: you should NOT both claim your daughter on your separate W-4 forms. Here's why: When you both claim the same child on your W-4s, you're essentially telling both of your employers to withhold less tax from your paychecks because you each expect to receive the $2,000 child tax credit. But since you're filing jointly, you'll only receive ONE $2,000 credit for your daughter - not two. This means you'll have underwitheld taxes throughout the year and likely owe a significant amount when you file. With your similar incomes ($58k each), I'd recommend one of these approaches: 1. One spouse claims the full $2,000 child tax credit in Step 3 of their W-4, the other claims $0 2. Each spouse claims $1,000 in Step 3 (splitting the credit) The IRS Tax Withholding Estimator tool on irs.gov is perfect for your situation - just plug in both of your income info and it will tell you exactly how to fill out both W-4s to get close to the right withholding amount. This way you avoid both owing too much or getting a huge refund (which is essentially an interest-free loan to the government). Your coworker was right that coordination is key, but it's not that "only one parent can claim" - it's that the total credits claimed across both W-4s shouldn't exceed what you'll actually get on your joint return.