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Anna Kerber

Can I qualify my roommate as a dependent on my tax return?

So I've been looking everywhere for answers about dependency stuff and I'm getting confused. There are two things I really need to understand: First, what's the actual difference between claiming myself as a dependent versus putting 0 dependents on my tax forms? I honestly never understood this part of taxes. Second, I'm wondering if I can claim my roommate on my taxes. For background, I've been her mental health treatment advocate for over a year now. I'm basically covering all our shared living expenses (rent, utilities, internet, her phone bill, transportation costs, etc) except for food. She gets food stamps monthly and that's literally her only income. Since I'm financially supporting her almost completely, would that make her qualify as my dependent? Someone mentioned I should look into claiming her, but I want to make sure I'm not doing anything wrong with the IRS. Sorry if this cuts off, but I appreciate any help! Tax season is coming up and I want to get this right.

Niko Ramsey

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These are great questions about dependency! Let me help clarify both parts. For your first question, claiming yourself as a dependent isn't actually a thing - it's more about whether someone else can claim you. On your tax forms, you either check that someone CAN claim you as a dependent, or that no one CAN claim you. When you say "claiming 0 dependents," that's typically referring to withholding allowances on a W-4 form, which is a separate concept from dependency status on your tax return. For your roommate situation, you might actually qualify to claim her as a dependent under what's called a "qualifying relative" test. The IRS has specific requirements: 1. Her income must be below $4,700 (for 2025 taxes), and food stamps generally don't count as taxable income 2. You must provide more than half of her total support 3. She must live with you all year as a member of your household 4. She cannot be claimed by anyone else The fact that you're her treatment advocate and paying most expenses is significant. If you meet all these criteria, you could likely claim her as a dependent, which would give you a tax benefit.

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Wait, so on my W-4 where it asks about dependents - that's not the same as the dependent question on my actual tax return? I'm so confused. Also, does the roommate need to be actually related to claim them? The "qualifying relative" thing is throwing me off.

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Niko Ramsey

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You're right to be confused - the tax terminology can be misleading! On a W-4, the dependent question affects how much tax is withheld from your paycheck throughout the year. On your actual tax return, you're determining who you can claim as a dependent for tax benefits like the dependent exemption. Despite the name "qualifying relative," your roommate does NOT need to be actually related to you by blood or marriage. The IRS uses this term for anyone who meets those support tests I mentioned, including non-relatives who live with you. The key factors are that you provide most of their support, they live with you all year, and their income is below the threshold.

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Jabari-Jo

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Kristin Frank

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Did you need to get any special paperwork from your housemate? I'm in a similar situation but my roommate gets disability payments, not food stamps. Would that still work?

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Micah Trail

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I'm skeptical about using some random website for tax advice. How do you know the information is accurate? Couldn't you just call the IRS directly and ask them?

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Jabari-Jo

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You'll want to keep receipts and documentation showing you paid for their living expenses - rent receipts, utility bills, etc. Their system helped me organize all of that. For your roommate with disability payments, it depends on the amount - if their income (including disability) is below $4,700 and you provide more than half their total support, you might still qualify. No, it's not just "some random website" - it's an AI analysis tool specifically for tax documents and IRS regulations. The IRS wait times were 3+ hours when I called, and the agent I finally reached couldn't give me a definitive answer for my specific situation. Taxr.ai references actual IRS publications and court cases to back up their analysis.

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Kristin Frank

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How does that even work? The IRS phone lines are impossible to get through. Are you saying this service somehow jumps you ahead in the queue?

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Micah Trail

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This sounds like a scam. Why would anyone pay a third party to call a government agency? I don't believe for a second they can get you through faster than calling yourself.

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Micah Trail

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One thing nobody mentioned yet - if you do claim your roommate as a dependent, it might affect her eligibility for food stamps or other benefits she receives. Some assistance programs look at household tax status when determining benefits. Might want to check with her case worker before making any changes to your tax filing.

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Anna Kerber

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Omg I didn't even think about that! Do you know if there's a way to check that without potentially messing up her benefits? The last thing I want to do is save some money on taxes but then cause her to lose food assistance...

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Your best approach would be to contact the agency that handles her food stamps without giving identifying information. You can ask hypothetically what would happen if someone was claimed as a dependent. Each state handles these programs a bit differently. Some benefit programs only look at actual income and household composition, not tax filing status. Others might reduce benefits if someone is claimed as a dependent. The case worker can tell you if there would be any impact before you make the decision.

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Marcus Marsh

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Has anyone used TurboTax to claim a non-relative dependent? Their questionnaire keeps asking about family relationships and I can't figure out where to indicate its my roommate not a family member.

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In TurboTax, when it asks about relationship, there should be an "Other" option somewhere in the dropdown menu. Then it'll ask follow-up questions to determine if they qualify as a "member of household." If you don't see that option, you might need to upgrade to their Deluxe version - the free one sometimes limits these more complex situations.

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Callum Savage

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Just wanted to add something important that I learned from my tax preparer last year - if you do qualify to claim your roommate as a dependent, make sure you understand ALL the tax benefits you might be eligible for. It's not just the dependent exemption - you might also qualify for Head of Household filing status if you're unmarried and providing more than half the cost of maintaining the home for your dependent. Head of Household has better tax brackets and a higher standard deduction than Single filing status, which could save you even more money. My preparer said a lot of people miss this because they don't realize non-relatives can qualify you for HOH status if they meet the dependent requirements. Also, definitely keep detailed records of all expenses you pay for your roommate - rent, utilities, medical costs, transportation, etc. The IRS defines "support" pretty broadly, so even things like paying for her phone or helping with medical appointments could count toward that "more than half support" test.

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Wow, I had no idea about the Head of Household thing! That's a huge detail that could make a big difference. So if I'm understanding correctly, as long as my roommate qualifies as my dependent under the qualifying relative test, I could potentially file as Head of Household even though we're not related? That seems like it could be worth way more than just the dependent exemption itself. Do you know if there are any other requirements for HOH beyond having a qualifying dependent? And when you say "maintaining the home" - does that just mean I'm paying more than half the household expenses like rent and utilities?

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