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Isaac Wright

Can I claim my disabled veteran brother as a dependent on taxes?

My brother (33) is a 100% service connected disabled veteran who receives monthly disability payments from both the VA and Social Security. He's been living with me since his injury about 5 years ago, and I cover well over half of his expenses including housing, meals, utilities, and transportation. He has significant cognitive impairment from a traumatic brain injury that makes it impossible for him to manage his own finances or live independently. Even though he gets disability income, he spends it impulsively due to his brain injury and can't budget or save properly. I'm his official VA-designated caretaker and spend about 45-50 hours weekly managing his care, monitoring his seizures, taking him to appointments, handling his medications, etc. The VA pays me a monthly stipend for this caretaker role, and they've informed me this payment isn't considered taxable income for me. I'm trying to figure out if I can claim him as a dependent on my taxes. I'm looking at the qualification chart but I'm confused about whether his disability income counts against the income limit for dependents. Does anyone know how this works with disabled veterans?

Maya Diaz

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You're in a good position to claim your brother as a qualifying relative dependent. There are four main tests you need to meet: 1) Member of household test - He lives with you full-time, so you pass this test. 2) Gross income test - This is the tricky part. While your brother receives disability payments, both VA disability and Social Security Disability Income (SSDI) are generally tax-exempt and NOT counted toward the gross income limit for dependency purposes. The IRS looks at "taxable income" for this test, not total money received. 3) Support test - You state you provide more than half his support (housing, food, etc.), so you meet this requirement. 4) Joint return test - If he's not married/filing jointly with someone else, this test is passed. Based on what you've shared, you should be able to claim him as your dependent, which could qualify you for various tax benefits including potentially filing as Head of Household if you're not married.

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Isaac Wright

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Thanks for the clear explanation! I was confused about whether his VA and SSDI payments count toward that gross income limit. So even though he receives about $3,900 monthly between both benefits, since they're not taxable income, that doesn't disqualify him from being my dependent? Also, would my VA caretaker payments affect anything about claiming him?

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Maya Diaz

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The disability payments your brother receives don't count toward the gross income test for dependency purposes because they're tax-exempt. So even though $3,900 monthly sounds like it would exceed the income threshold, since these aren't taxable income, they don't disqualify him. Your VA caretaker payments don't affect your ability to claim him as a dependent. The VA has correctly informed you that those payments aren't taxable income to you - they're considered difficulty of care payments for care you provide in your home. This doesn't impact the dependency tests at all.

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I'm a little confused about part of this. My dad is also a disabled vet who lives with me, but when I talked to a tax preparer, they said I couldn't claim him because his VA disability payments count as "support" he provides for himself, even if they aren't taxable income. So even though his income doesn't count for the gross income test, it might still count against the support test? Anyone know if that's correct? The support test says you have to provide more than 50% of their support.

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Maya Diaz

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Your tax preparer is partially right but applying it incorrectly. Here's how it actually works: For the SUPPORT test, you compare the amount YOU provide for support versus the TOTAL support from ALL sources (including the person's own funds). So yes, if your father uses his VA disability payments to pay for his own expenses, those count as support he's providing for himself. However, many caretakers like the original poster provide housing, utilities, food, medical care, transportation and other expenses that often exceed what the disabled person contributes from their benefits. You need to calculate the total dollar value of ALL support (housing at fair rental value + utilities + food + clothing + medical not covered by insurance, etc.) and determine if your contribution exceeds 50%.

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Thanks for explaining! I think I've been calculating this wrong. I never counted the fair rental value of the space in my house - I was just thinking about the extra food and utility costs. But when I add in what equivalent housing would cost in my area (probably $1400/month), plus utilities, food, internet, cell phone I pay for, and transportation, I'm definitely providing more than half his support. This makes so much more sense now. I'll recalculate everything for this year's taxes.

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Logan Stewart

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Has anyone used the "qualifying relative" designation rather than "qualifying child" for an adult disabled sibling? I'm in a similar situation but my brother is 42 and permanently disabled from a work accident. Not a veteran but gets SSDI. The IRS publication is so confusing about which category to use.

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Mikayla Brown

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Yes, you'd use "qualifying relative" for an adult sibling. The "qualifying child" category has an age limit (generally under 19, or under 24 if a student) unless they're permanently and totally disabled. But even with the disability exception, "qualifying child" is primarily for your own children, stepchildren, foster children, siblings, or descendants of any of these. For an adult brother, "qualifying relative" is the right category, and the requirements are: 1) they don't have to be related if they live with you all year, but siblings qualify regardless, 2) their gross taxable income must be less than $4,400 (for 2023), 3) you provide more than half their support, and 4) they're not filing a joint return except to claim a refund.

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Isaac, based on your detailed description, you should definitely be able to claim your brother as a qualifying relative dependent. The key points working in your favor: 1) **VA disability and SSDI don't count toward gross income test** - These tax-exempt benefits won't disqualify him from dependency status, regardless of the monthly amount. 2) **Support test calculation** - When calculating the 50% support test, include the fair rental value of his housing in your home, utilities, food, transportation, medical expenses not covered by insurance, and other living costs. Your brother's disability payments only count as "support he provides for himself" if he actually uses them for support expenses. 3) **Your caretaker role strengthens your case** - The fact that the VA officially designated you as his caretaker and recognizes his need for full-time care due to cognitive impairment from TBI supports the dependency relationship. 4) **Potential additional benefits** - As his caretaker, you may qualify for Head of Household filing status (if unmarried) and potentially the Credit for Other Dependents. Given his cognitive impairment and your role as his VA-designated caretaker, this seems like a clear-cut case for claiming him as a dependent. The IRS recognizes that disabled individuals may receive significant non-taxable benefits while still being legitimately dependent on others for support.

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Ravi Sharma

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This is really helpful information! I'm new to dealing with dependent situations involving disability benefits. One question - you mentioned the Credit for Other Dependents. How does that work exactly? Is it different from the Child Tax Credit, and what's the dollar amount? Also, since Isaac mentioned his brother spends the disability money impulsively due to brain injury, would that actually help with the support test calculation? Like if the brother isn't using those funds for legitimate support expenses, do they still count as "support he provides for himself"?

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