Can I claim my child as a dependent on my tax return if they live in the Philippines?

So I'm wondering about claiming my daughter as a dependent - she lives in the Philippines and I filed my taxes claiming her this year. I keep reading conflicting things online about residency requirements. Some articles say that your child needs to live with you for at least half the year (or the whole year?) to qualify as a dependent on your tax return. Is this actually true? I'm worried I might have done something wrong when I claimed her.

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Carmen Vega

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The answer depends on whether your child qualifies as a "qualifying child" or a "qualifying relative" - these are two different categories for dependents with different rules. For a qualifying child, they generally need to live with you for more than half the year. This is called the "residency test." However, there are exceptions to this rule! For children who are studying abroad temporarily, for example. For a qualifying relative, there is no residency test, but there are other requirements: 1) They can't be your qualifying child or anyone else's, 2) Their income must be less than the dependent exemption amount, 3) You must provide more than half of their total support for the year, and 4) They must be related to you in one of the ways listed by the IRS or must live with you all year. There's also a special rule for children of divorced or separated parents that might apply in your situation.

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Carmen Vega

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For your situation with child support, it gets a bit complicated. Paying child support doesn't automatically qualify you to claim your child as a dependent. If your ex has custody, they typically have the right to claim the child. However, if you have a written agreement (like a Form 8332) where the custodial parent releases the claim to you, then you may be able to claim the child. Without such an agreement, and if your child lives with their other parent outside the US for most of the year, you generally cannot claim them as a qualifying child.

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Zoe Stavros

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Zoe Stavros

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Giovanni Colombo

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Make sure you understand the "support test" properly. I almost got in trouble claiming my daughter who lives with her mom in Colombia. You have to prove you provide MORE THAN HALF of the TOTAL support - not just that you send a lot of money. For example, if your child's other parent or grandparents are also providing significant support, or if they receive government benefits in their country, all of that counts toward the total support calculation. Keep receipts of EVERYTHING you send - money transfers, direct payments for school, etc. I use an app to track all this now.

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Giovanni Colombo

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Yes, gifts absolutely count as support if they cover basic necessities! Clothing definitely counts. Toys are a bit of a gray area but could count as part of educational or developmental support. The key is to keep detailed records - take photos of what you send, keep receipts showing the value, and document shipping costs too. The IRS considers all contributions toward your child's food, shelter, clothing, education, medical care, transportation, and even recreation as part of support calculation.

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