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Ayla Kumar

Are my parents allowed to request my college transcript for claiming tax deductions?

So I'm in an awkward situation. I'm a junior in college and my parents are asking for my official transcript for "tax purposes." They've always claimed me as a dependent, which is fine, but this is the first time they've ever asked for my actual transcript. They mentioned something about education credits and deductions that they need to verify. I'm kinda uncomfortable sharing my entire academic record with them. My grades are decent (mostly Bs with a few As and one C last semester when I was going through some stuff), but I feel like this is crossing a privacy boundary. Can't they just use the tuition statement (1098-T) from my school for their taxes? That form shows how much they paid for my education this year. I asked my mom why they need the transcript specifically, and she got defensive saying "we pay for your education, we need this for our taxes." But I've never heard of the IRS requiring actual grades for education tax benefits. Am I being unreasonable here? Do parents actually need transcripts for tax benefits, or is this just my parents wanting to check up on my grades?

Tax professional here. Your parents do NOT need your transcript for tax purposes. What they need is the 1098-T form that shows tuition paid, which the school should have provided either to you or directly to them if they're the ones paying. For education credits like the American Opportunity Credit or the Lifetime Learning Credit, the IRS requires documentation of qualified education expenses - which means tuition statements, receipts for required books and materials, etc. Nowhere does the IRS ask for or require your actual grades or transcript for these credits. It sounds like they might be using "tax purposes" as a reason to check your academic performance, which is a separate conversation about boundaries you'll need to have with them.

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Ayla Kumar

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Thank you for clarifying! I thought this seemed fishy. The school definitely sends the 1098-T forms directly to them since they're the ones paying tuition. Is there any legitimate tax reason they would need to verify I'm a full-time student? Maybe that's what they're trying to check?

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Yes, they do need to verify that you're a full-time student to claim you as a dependent under the qualifying child rules (if you're between 19-24 years old), but the 1098-T already indicates your enrollment status. They can also request an enrollment verification letter from your registrar's office, which confirms your full-time status without revealing your grades. For tax purposes, what matters is your enrollment status, not how well you're doing in your classes. The IRS doesn't care about your GPA - they only care that you're actually enrolled at least half-time if claiming certain education benefits.

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Fidel Carson

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When I was in college, my parents pulled the same thing. They claimed they needed my grades for "tax verification purposes." It was total BS. They were just checking if I was keeping my grades up because they were paying for school. If you're uncomfortable, you can request an enrollment verification letter from your registrar instead. It proves you're a full-time student without showing your grades. That's all they legitimately need for tax purposes.

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Ayla Kumar

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Thank you, I think that's what I'll do! Did your parents eventually accept just the enrollment verification, or did they keep pushing for the full transcript?

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Fidel Carson

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They tried to argue at first, but I stood my ground and explained I'd already checked with the financial aid office who confirmed the enrollment verification was sufficient for tax purposes. They eventually accepted it, though they weren't happy. Looking back, I think it was an important boundary to set. If they're paying for your education, it's reasonable for them to have some expectations about your performance, but they should be upfront about wanting to see your grades rather than using taxes as an excuse.

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Another option - just give them the transcript if they're paying for your education. Seems like a small thing to avoid family drama. My parents had a "B average or above" rule to keep paying for my school, which seemed fair since they were footing the bill.

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Xan Dae

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That's ignoring the real issue though. The parents are being manipulative by lying about tax requirements. Better to address the dishonesty directly than enable it by giving in. They could just be honest and say "we want to see your grades since we're paying" instead of making up fake tax rules.

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For what it's worth, the American Opportunity Tax Credit does require that the student be enrolled at least half-time and be pursuing a degree. So they do need verification of enrollment status, but not grades. The Form 8863 that's used for education credits doesn't ask for GPA or individual course performance. Your parents just need documentation that you're enrolled in a qualifying educational institution. The 1098-T plus an enrollment verification letter is more than sufficient.

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Ayla Kumar

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Thank you for this specific information! I've gone ahead and requested an enrollment verification letter from my registrar's office. I'm going to offer them that plus remind them they already have the 1098-T. Hopefully that resolves things without further conflict.

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Emma Thompson

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Your instincts are absolutely right - this is not a legitimate tax requirement. I've been doing taxes for families for over a decade, and transcripts with grades are never needed for any IRS education credit or deduction. What your parents actually need for tax purposes: - Form 1098-T (which shows tuition paid) - Receipts for qualified education expenses like required textbooks - Enrollment verification showing you're at least half-time (for dependency and education credit purposes) The IRS doesn't care about your GPA for the American Opportunity Credit, Lifetime Learning Credit, or any education deductions. They only care that you're enrolled and that qualifying expenses were paid. I'd recommend getting an enrollment verification letter from your school's registrar (usually free or very low cost) and offering that along with pointing out they already have the 1098-T. If they keep insisting on the transcript after that, then you know this is really about checking your grades, not taxes. At that point, it becomes a family boundary discussion rather than a tax compliance issue. Stand your ground on this - you're not being unreasonable at all.

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