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Have you contacted the American Cancer Society? They sometimes have resources for families dealing with cancer including transportation assistance and financial guidance. Might be worth calling them while you sort out the EDD situation.
Coming back to add: Be very careful how you phrase things in your interview. If you say "I can't work because I'm caring for my husband," that's an automatic disqualification for UI. Instead, explain that you are actively seeking work that accommodates your constraints, such as remote positions, flexible scheduling, or evening/weekend hours. Be prepared to provide examples of jobs you've applied for that would work with your caregiving responsibilities. This shows you're making a good faith effort to find suitable employment while balancing your caregiving duties. However, I want to set realistic expectations - with only one quarter of earnings, the monetary qualification will likely be the biggest hurdle, regardless of availability issues. Benefits are calculated based on your highest quarter earnings in the base period, and you need a minimum amount across multiple quarters to qualify.
This is extremely helpful advice. I've been applying for remote customer service jobs and weekend retail positions, so I'll make sure to document those applications before the interview. I'm trying to stay hopeful, but it sounds like the one quarter of work is going to be the dealbreaker regardless of how I explain my availability. It's so frustrating that there seems to be this gap in support for caregivers.
Just to add one more important tip: when your doctor's office submits the paperwork, ask them to provide you with a copy AND confirm whether they'll be handling the "continuing certifications" that may be required by EDD. Some medical offices only submit the initial form but expect patients to handle the rest. This trips up a lot of new moms because the EDD may request additional certifications, especially for claims that extend beyond the standard 6-8 weeks postpartum.
I just went thru this whole process and gave birth 3 months ago. Honestly the hardest part was transitioning from pregnancy disability to baby bonding! Nobody tells you that you have to CALL to close out your disability claim before the baby bonding will process. I just kept checking online wondering why my PFL claim was stuck pending for weeks. Finally figured it out and got backpaid but it was so stressful with a newborn!
Thank you for this warning! I had no idea you had to call to close out the disability claim. This whole process seems unnecessarily complicated.
There's a one-week unpaid waiting period for UI. For the transitions between programs, nothing is automatic - she must actively apply for each program. Here's the timeline I recommend: 1. Last day of work: Apply for UI immediately 2. Week 1: Unpaid waiting week 3. Weeks 2-7+: Collect UI while looking for work 4. 4 weeks before due date: Have doctor complete DE2501 for disability 5. Submit disability claim (SDI) and STOP certifying for UI 6. Collect SDI for 4 weeks before birth + 6-8 weeks after (depending on delivery type) 7. 1-2 weeks before disability ends: Apply for PFL using DE2508 8. Collect PFL for 8 weeks of baby bonding The most common mistake is waiting too long between steps 6 and 7, which creates a gap in benefits.
Just to add one more consideration: if your daughter-in-law receives any severance pay, this may affect her UI benefits. Severance is typically considered income during the weeks it covers, which can reduce or eliminate UI benefits for those weeks. Regarding health insurance: If COBRA is too expensive, as you mentioned, she should immediately check her eligibility for Covered California. Loss of employer coverage is a qualifying life event that allows mid-year enrollment. With her being pregnant and soon without income, she may qualify for significant subsidies or even Medi-Cal coverage. Finally, document EVERYTHING during this process - save all confirmation numbers, take screenshots of submitted forms, and note the names of any EDD representatives she speaks with.
Amara Nnamani
Does ne1 know if he can still get the full 8 weeks even if he applies late? like if he waits 2 weeks after baby born to apply does he still get all 8 weeks?
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Liam Fitzgerald
•Yes! He still gets the full 8 weeks of PFL benefits as long as he takes them within the first 12 months after birth. The application timing doesn't reduce his benefit amount - it just affects when he starts receiving payments. But remember, he needs to file within 41 days of starting his leave to avoid claim issues.
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Jamal Wilson
One more important thing I forgot to mention - when your fiancé files, he'll need to provide your information as the birth mother and indicate his relationship to the child. The EDD system will likely cross-reference with your pregnancy disability claim (if you filed one) to verify the birth. Also, he should select "Bonding with new child" as the reason for leave, NOT "Care for a family member" which is a different type of claim. I've seen people make that mistake and have their claims delayed.
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Zoe Papanikolaou
•Thank you for the extra details! I am on SDI for pregnancy now, so hopefully that will make his verification process smoother. I'll make sure he selects baby bonding specifically.
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