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Just wanted to update everyone - I successfully submitted my PFL application today and it went through without any issues! The online system was actually pretty straightforward once I got started. For anyone else in this situation, here's what I learned: 1) Apply immediately after your disability ends (don't wait for final payment), 2) Select "baby bonding" not "caregiving", 3) Make sure your doctor submitted the final medical cert with a clear end date, and 4) put today's date as your PFL start date to avoid gaps. Thanks to everyone who helped clarify this - you probably saved me weeks of headaches! 🙏
This is so helpful! I'm actually in a similar situation - my SDI is ending next week and I was totally confused about the timing. Your step-by-step breakdown makes it crystal clear. Saving this post for when I apply! Congrats on getting it sorted out and enjoy your bonding time with your little one! 💕
This is such valuable information! I'm 8 months pregnant and trying to plan ahead for this exact transition. Reading through all these responses, it sounds like the key takeaways are: apply immediately when SDI ends, don't wait for final payment, choose "baby bonding" option, and make sure there's no gap in dates. I'm bookmarking this thread because the EDD website really doesn't explain this process clearly at all. Thanks everyone for sharing your real experiences - this is way more helpful than anything I've found on the official site!
I'm so glad this thread exists! I'm also expecting (due in July) and had no idea about any of this timing stuff. It's crazy that they don't make this clearer on their website - like why isn't there a simple "pregnancy to bonding transition guide" somewhere obvious? Reading everyone's experiences here has been super eye-opening. Definitely saving this post and all the tips. It sounds like the biggest mistake people make is waiting too long between the two claims. Thanks for putting together such a clear summary of the key points!
I just wanted to chime in with a quick success story to give you hope! My husband was in almost the exact same situation - his employer paid 55% during his 6 weeks of bonding leave, and we were so stressed about making ends meet. He applied for PFL and got approved for an additional benefit that brought us up to about 85% of his normal pay total. The process was actually smoother than we expected once we got the paperwork right. The most important thing we learned was to be completely transparent about the employer payments on the application - EDD appreciates honesty and it prevents delays. Also, don't stress too much about the HR confusion - we got three different answers from three different people at his company, but EDD was actually really helpful once we got through to them. Wishing you all the best with your new little one and hoping the benefits process goes smoothly for your family!
Thank you so much for sharing your success story! It's really encouraging to hear that you ended up with 85% of normal pay between your husband's employer and EDD - that makes such a difference when you're adjusting to life with a new baby. Your point about being completely transparent on the application is so important, and I'm definitely going to make sure we're thorough and honest about everything. It's also reassuring to know that EDD can actually be helpful once you get through to them, despite all the horror stories you hear. We're feeling much more confident about this whole process now thanks to everyone's advice here. Really appreciate you taking the time to share your experience!
I'm going through this exact situation right now! My company is paying me 45% during my 8-week leave and I just got approved for PFL benefits to cover the gap. The whole process was actually easier than I expected once I understood how to fill out the forms correctly. The key things that helped me: make sure your husband reports the employer payments in the "other income" section of the DE 2508 form (there's a specific box for wage continuation), and definitely file on the first day of his leave like others mentioned. I also recommend having him take a photo of his employment leave approval letter if his company provided one - EDD asked for documentation of my partial pay arrangement about a week after I filed. One thing I learned is that EDD will coordinate directly with his employer to verify the wage continuation, so the amounts need to match exactly. Don't let the initial HR confusion discourage you - this type of benefit coordination is totally legal and happens all the time. Best of luck and congratulations on your new baby!
This is exactly what we needed to hear! Thank you for the specific details about the DE 2508 form - knowing there's a specific box for wage continuation in the "other income" section is so helpful. I'll definitely have my husband take photos of all his leave documentation from his employer. It sounds like being organized and thorough with the paperwork really makes a difference in getting approved quickly. Your point about EDD coordinating directly with the employer to verify amounts is reassuring too - at least we know they have a system in place for this type of situation even if HR departments aren't always clear about it. Thanks for the congratulations and for sharing your real-time experience with this process!
This thread is absolutely incredible - thank you all for sharing your real experiences! I'm currently preparing to apply for PFL in about 6 weeks and honestly had no idea about ANY of these potential pitfalls. The hyphen issue that held up Dmitry's claim for 5+ weeks is mind-blowing - how does a system in 2025 not handle basic name formatting variations?! Reading through everyone's advice, I'm making a checklist: 1) Coordinate closely with HR upfront to ensure they submit everything correctly, 2) Triple-check that every single character in my application matches my other documents EXACTLY, 3) Keep detailed documentation of all interactions, 4) Try the disability line transfer strategy and noon calling times, and 5) Have Claimyr bookmarked as backup. It's absolutely shameful that we need to become experts in bureaucratic workarounds just to access benefits we've already paid into, especially during such a vulnerable time with a newborn. But this community support is invaluable - you're all saving fellow parents so much stress and financial hardship by sharing these hard-won insights. Thank you for turning your frustrations into help for others!
This is such a comprehensive action plan! As someone who's been lurking in this community for a while but just now dealing with my first PFL application, I'm so grateful you compiled all these insights into one checklist. The fact that we need this level of preparation just to access our own benefits is honestly dystopian, but your systematic approach gives me confidence going into the process. I'm especially glad you mentioned coordinating with HR upfront - I was planning to just submit and hope for the best, but clearly that's not enough with this broken system. Going to screenshot your checklist and follow it step by step when I apply next month. It's amazing how this community has reverse-engineered solutions that should just be standard EDD guidance. Thank you for organizing everyone's hard-won wisdom!
Reading through all these experiences has been both helpful and incredibly frustrating! I'm currently at week 2 of my PFL claim being "under review" with zero communication from EDD about what's actually happening. The fact that Dmitry waited 5+ weeks just because of a hyphen in his name is absolutely ridiculous - and they never even told him that was the issue! I'm definitely going to follow everyone's advice here: calling my HR department tomorrow to verify they submitted everything correctly, going through my application character by character to check for any formatting mismatches, and keeping that Claimyr service as backup. The noon calling strategy is brilliant too - I've been trying at 8am with zero success. It's honestly disgusting that we have to pay a third-party service or become amateur detectives just to access benefits we've already paid into through our paychecks. This system is clearly designed to discourage people from claiming what they're owed. But this community support is invaluable - thank you all for sharing your real experiences and solutions. This thread should definitely be pinned for other new parents navigating this nightmare!
Absolutely agree that this system seems designed to wear people down! I'm new to this community but going through my first PFL claim application process right now. Reading everyone's experiences here has been both terrifying and incredibly valuable - I had no idea about things like the hyphen formatting issue or employer verification delays. It's mind-boggling that such tiny details can cause month-long delays without any notification whatsoever. I'm definitely going to be super proactive based on all the advice shared here: triple-checking every character matches exactly across all documents, following up with my HR department before even submitting, and keeping detailed notes of everything. The fact that we need to strategize this much just to access our own benefits is absolutely broken. But thank you and everyone else for sharing these real-world insights - this kind of practical advice is exactly what new parents need but can't get anywhere official!
I had this exact same issue a few months ago! The wrong return-to-work date was causing delays with my benefits. What worked for me was documenting everything first - take screenshots of what's showing incorrectly, then try the online method that Andre mentioned above. If that doesn't work within a week, definitely try calling first thing in the morning like Mei suggested. The key is being persistent but polite when you finally get through to someone. They were able to fix mine during the call once I explained the situation clearly. Don't give up!
Had this happen to me too! One thing that really helped was keeping a detailed log of all my attempts to contact them - dates, times, confirmation numbers from online submissions, etc. When I finally got through to someone, having all that info ready made the whole process go much smoother. Also, if you do get it fixed, double-check your account a few days later to make sure the changes actually went through. Sometimes there can be delays in the system updating. Hope you get it sorted out soon!
Great advice about keeping a detailed log! I'm definitely going to start doing that. Quick question - when you say "confirmation numbers from online submissions," are you talking about the reference numbers you get after submitting through the Contact Us form? I want to make sure I'm documenting everything properly in case I need to escalate this issue.
CosmicCommander
For split periods of baby bonding leave, your husband would file an initial claim for the first period. Then for subsequent periods, he'd need to file a "Notice of Reestablished Claim" when he wants to use the remaining weeks. It's still under the same claim, but he needs to notify EDD each time he starts a new period of leave. Make sure he notifies his employer according to their policy as well.
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Giovanni Colombo
•And make sure he gets EVERYTHING in writing from EDD! Screenshot confirmation numbers, print emails, write down who he spoke to on the phone. Trust me, they WILL mess something up and you'll need proof of everything you submitted!
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Giovanni Gallo
Just wanted to add my experience from having our baby in February 2025! My husband's PFL baby bonding claim was super straightforward - no doctor certification needed at all. He just filled out the DE2508 form online and uploaded a copy of our baby's birth certificate. The whole process took about 10 minutes and he got his first payment within 2 weeks. One tip: make sure he selects the right claim type on the EDD website. There are different options and "baby bonding" is specifically listed as separate from disability claims. Also, he can actually start his claim on any date after the birth - doesn't have to be immediately. We waited a month so I could go back to work part-time first, then he took his 8 weeks. The system is way more flexible than we expected!
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Grace Durand
•This is so reassuring to hear from someone who just went through it! I'm glad to know the online process is that straightforward. Quick question - when you say he can start his claim on any date after birth, does that mean he can actually choose to start getting paid from a date in the future? Like if he wants to work for 2 more weeks after baby arrives, can he set his claim start date for 2 weeks from now? Or does he have to apply when he's actually ready to start the leave?
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