CalWORKs reduced my Cash Aid for 'non-cooperation' with child support when I already gave them the father's info - what can I do?
I'm so frustrated right now! The county just cut my CalWORKs payment by 25% because they're saying I didn't cooperate with child support, but I absolutely DID give them all the information they asked for about my daughter's father. I filled out that form with his full name, last known address (from 2 years ago), his phone # (which might be changed now), and even his mom's address. Now they're saying that's not enough and they reduced my Cash Aid! I got a notice saying I'm not cooperating with LCSA (I think that's the child support agency?). My daughter and I really need the full benefit amount - rent is already impossible as it is. Has anyone else dealt with this? What else are they expecting me to give them when I already told them everything I know about him?
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Javier Morales
This happens a lot unfortunately. The Local Child Support Agency (LCSA) requires active cooperation and sometimes they need more than just basic info. Did they specifically tell you what information was missing? Usually they send a notice explaining why you're considered non-cooperative. Also, did you respond to any follow-up requests they might have sent? Sometimes they mail additional forms or request an interview about the other parent that people miss.
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Olivia Clark
•They said something about 'failure to attend scheduled appointment' but I never got any notice about an appointment! I swear I would have gone if I knew about it. The only thing I ever got was that first packet of papers asking for his information which I filled out completely.
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Natasha Petrov
omg same thing happened to me last year!!! they cut my benefits and i had already told them EVERYTHING about my ex. turns out they sent a letter to my old address for an interview appointment so i never got it. they counted that as 'non-cooperation' even tho it was THEIR mistake! 🤬
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Olivia Clark
•Did you get it fixed?? How long did it take? I'm seriously panicking about making rent next month with this reduction.
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Connor O'Brien
You need to request a Good Cause exemption ASAP if there's any reason you can't fully cooperate with child support (like domestic violence history or fear of the other parent). Otherwise, you need to immediately contact your CalWORKs worker AND the LCSA directly to explain the situation and find out exactly what they need from you. The 25% penalty is standard when they determine non-cooperation, but it can be reversed and you can get retroactive benefits if you start cooperating or get approved for Good Cause. Don't wait - this won't fix itself. The cooperation requirement is federal law so counties are very strict about it.
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Olivia Clark
•I don't have any Good Cause reasons - he's not dangerous, just useless with child support. I'll call my worker tomorrow but I've been trying for weeks and can never get through! I sit on hold forever and then get disconnected.
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Amina Diallo
Try using Claimyr to get through to the CalWORKs office - that's the only way I finally reached a real person after trying for days. It basically waits on hold for you and calls you when a worker picks up. Saved me hours of hold time. The website is claimyr.com and they have a video showing how it works here: https://youtu.be/jzISHxCPLwE As for the child support issue - you need to find out EXACTLY what they need. Sometimes they want really specific info like the other parent's social security number, employer info, or vehicle registration. It's ridiculous how much they expect us to know about someone who might not even be in our lives anymore.
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Olivia Clark
•Thank you! I'll check out that service because I'm desperate to talk to someone. And you're right - they expect me to be a private investigator or something. How am I supposed to know where he works now when I haven't seen him in 2 years?
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GamerGirl99
child support is THE WORST part of calworks i swear!!!! they make u jump through all these hoops and even when the other parent doesnt pay a dime they still cut YOUR benefits if u dont do everything exactly right. its so unfair to us single parents!!!
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Javier Morales
•I agree it's frustrating, but technically the 25% penalty isn't because the other parent isn't paying - it's specifically about whether the CalWORKs recipient is cooperating with the process of establishing a child support case. The system is trying to recoup costs from the absent parent, but puts all the burden on the custodial parent.
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Hiroshi Nakamura
This is what you need to do immediately: 1. Call LCSA directly (not just CalWORKs) - they're the ones who reported you as non-cooperative 2. Ask for the exact reason for the non-cooperation finding 3. Request a meeting with your child support caseworker 4. Get the non-cooperation status lifted by doing whatever they need 5. Once LCSA reports to CalWORKs that you're cooperating, request your full benefits be restored 6. Ask for retroactive payment of the 25% they've been withholding Don't let this drag on - each month they reduce your grant is money you'll never get back unless you fix this quickly.
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Olivia Clark
•Thank you for the clear steps! I didn't realize I need to contact LCSA directly - I thought my CalWORKs worker handled everything. Do you know if they'll give me back the money they already reduced if I fix this now?
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Isabella Costa
Did you file a formal appeal of the non-cooperation determination? You only have 90 days from the Notice of Action date to request a state hearing. Make sure you do this while also trying to resolve the issue directly! That way if things don't get fixed, you still have the hearing as backup. The form is called a DPA 479 or you can request a hearing by calling the state hearings division.
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Olivia Clark
•I got the notice about 3 weeks ago so I still have time to appeal. I'll do that as a backup plan while I try calling them. Thanks for explaining the time limit - I had no idea!
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Natasha Petrov
another thing to check - look at ur notice of action and see if they specifically checked 'failed to attend appointment' or 'insufficient info provided' or something else. that tells u exactly what they think u did wrong. also call lcsa and ask if they have proof they notified u about any appointments. they might have sent it to wrong address or not sent it at all!!! happened to me!
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Olivia Clark
•Just checked and mine does say 'failed to attend LCSA interview' as the reason! I'm going to call and ask for proof they ever notified me because I never got anything about an interview.
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Connor O'Brien
After you get this resolved, make sure you stay on top of any LCSA communications going forward. They typically schedule annual review appointments to update information on the absent parent. Missing those will put you right back in non-cooperation status. And one clarification - if you successfully appeal or resolve this, you CAN get retroactive benefits for the months they reduced your grant, but you must specifically request this. It won't happen automatically even after they determine you were cooperating all along.
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Olivia Clark
•Thank you so much for all this help! I never realized how complicated the child support requirement was. I'll make sure to document everything and specifically ask for the retroactive benefits. This community has been incredibly helpful!
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Diego Ramirez
Just wanted to add that you should also ask LCSA for a copy of your case file when you call them. They're required to show you what information they have on record and what attempts they made to contact you about appointments. Sometimes there are discrepancies in addresses or they'll admit they never actually sent the notice. Having this documentation will be super helpful if you end up needing that state hearing. Also, when you do get through to someone, ask them to email you a summary of what was discussed - having everything in writing protects you if there are any future issues with your case.
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Keisha Johnson
•This is really good advice about getting the case file! I had no idea they had to show me what's on record. I'm definitely going to ask for that when I call tomorrow, and I'll make sure to get everything in writing like you suggested. It sounds like documentation is key to protecting myself in this whole process. Thanks for the tip about email summaries too - I would have never thought to ask for that but it makes total sense given how confusing this system can be.
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Chad Winthrope
I went through something similar last year and it was such a nightmare! The key thing that helped me was being super persistent and documenting everything. When I finally got through to LCSA, it turned out they had sent the appointment notice to an address I hadn't lived at for over a year, even though I had updated my address with CalWORKs multiple times. Make sure to ask them specifically what address they have on file for you - that might be the issue right there. Also, don't just rely on phone calls. I ended up going to the LCSA office in person and refusing to leave until someone met with me. Sometimes showing up physically gets results faster than waiting on hold for hours. The whole system is designed to make us give up, but don't let them wear you down! You did nothing wrong by providing all the information you had about your daughter's father.
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Taylor To
•That's exactly what I'm dealing with! I bet they have my old address too because I've moved twice in the past year and even though I told CalWORKs both times, these agencies don't seem to talk to each other. Going in person is a great idea - I was dreading more phone calls but showing up physically might be the only way to get real answers. It's so frustrating that we have to fight this hard just to get the benefits we're entitled to, especially when we're already doing everything we're supposed to do. Thanks for sharing your experience - it gives me hope that this can actually get resolved!
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Lucas Parker
I'm dealing with something really similar right now! The missed appointment thing seems to happen to so many people - it's like they're setting us up to fail. One thing that really helped me was asking my CalWORKs worker to put a note in my file about any address changes, and then I started taking photos of any mail I sent to document that I'm trying to cooperate. Also, when you do get through to LCSA, ask them to read you the exact information they have for the father - sometimes there are little errors in names or dates that can cause problems. I know it's exhausting having to prove you're doing everything right when you already are, but hang in there. The system is broken but you can get through this! Make sure to ask for that retroactive payment once you get it sorted out.
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