Grandparent custody and FAFSA - how to report when dad pays child support but mom is absent?
I'm the full-time custodial grandparent of my 17-year-old granddaughter who's graduating next spring. We're starting to look at colleges, and I'm completely overwhelmed by the FAFSA process as a non-parent guardian. My granddaughter's dad pays child support regularly and stays involved in her life, but her mom has been out of the picture for years (no support, no contact). Who counts as the "parent" for FAFSA purposes in our situation? Do I list myself as the parent since I have legal custody? Does her dad need to provide information since he pays support? Will her absent mom's information be required at all? I've tried reading through the studentaid.gov website but got confused with all the dependent/independent status rules. My granddaughter has lived with me since she was 9, and I'm worried about making mistakes that could cost her financial aid opportunities. Any advice from grandparents or guardians who've navigated this successfully?
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Ethan Brown
This is actually a clear-cut situation according to FAFSA rules. Since you have legal custody, your granddaughter is considered YOUR dependent, not her biological parents'. For the 2025-2026 FAFSA, you'll report your financial information as the legal guardian. The biological parents' information isn't required at all - not her dad's (even though he pays support) and not her absent mom's. Make sure you have documentation of your legal guardianship/custody ready because the financial aid office may request verification. The child support your granddaughter receives from her dad will need to be reported as untaxed income for her, not for you.
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GalacticGladiator
•Thank you so much! This brings me some relief. So even though her dad pays support and is involved, I don't include his income information anywhere on the application? That seems strange since he contributes financially. And just to clarify - I report the child support as my granddaughter's income, not mine, correct?
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Yuki Yamamoto
my couzin was raised by her grandma and they put the grandma as the parent on fafsa. worked fine and she got pell grants plus state aid. but some colleges asked for extra paperwork to prove the situation.
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GalacticGladiator
•That's good to hear it worked out for your cousin! Did they ask for specific guardianship documents, or just general proof? I'm trying to get organized with all the paperwork we might need.
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Carmen Ruiz
I work in financial aid, and I'd like to clarify a few things: 1. For FAFSA purposes, legal guardians are NOT considered parents. This is a common misconception. 2. If you have legal custody/guardianship, your granddaughter will file the FAFSA as an INDEPENDENT student. This means only HER income and assets are reported (which includes the child support she receives from her father). 3. Neither your information, nor her biological parents' information, should be included on the FAFSA. 4. You'll need to submit documentation proving your legal custody/guardianship to each college's financial aid office. 5. Some private colleges that use the CSS Profile (different from FAFSA) may still request your financial information as the guardian. This is actually advantageous since only your granddaughter's income will be considered, likely resulting in more aid eligibility than if your income was included.
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GalacticGladiator
•Oh! This is completely different from what I understood. So she applies as independent even though she's only 17? I thought students had to be 24 to be independent. If you don't mind my asking, what specific documentation proves legal custody? I have the court papers from 8 years ago - will those work?
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Ethan Brown
Sorry, I need to correct my earlier response! The financial aid expert is absolutely right. Legal guardianship is one of the special circumstances that allows a student to file as independent even if they're under 24. This means your financial information won't be considered - only your granddaughter's. This is actually better for aid eligibility in most cases.
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Carmen Ruiz
Yes, court-issued documentation from 8 years ago will work perfectly as long as the guardianship/custody arrangement is still in effect. Your granddaughter qualifies as independent because legal guardianship is one of the exceptions to the age 24 rule, along with being married, having dependents, military service, etc. On the FAFSA, she'll answer "Yes" to the question about having a legal guardian determined by a court. This automatically classifies her as independent. One important note: The guardianship must be court-appointed. If you have informal custody without legal documentation, then different rules apply.
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GalacticGladiator
•Thank you for clarifying! Yes, I have the formal court-appointed guardianship papers. This sounds like it might actually work out better for her aid eligibility, which is a relief. I appreciate the expert help!
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Andre Lefebvre
my daughter tried calling FSA about a similar guardian situation and was on hold for 3+ HOURS before giving up!!!! bureaucratic nightmare!!!
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Zoe Dimitriou
•I had the same issue trying to get through to FSA about my own guardianship situation! I finally used Claimyr (claimyr.com) to get through to an actual person at Federal Student Aid. They connect you with an agent much faster than waiting on hold. There's a video showing how it works here: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ My situation was similar - I was raised by my uncle with court documents. The FSA agent was actually really helpful once I got through and confirmed exactly what documents we needed to submit.
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QuantumQuest
WATCH OUT! My niece was in a similar situation with her grandmother as guardian. When she submitted FAFSA as independent, the college financial aid office requested ADDITIONAL documentation beyond just the guardianship papers. They wanted to verify the parents were actually uninvolved and not just trying to game the system. Make sure you have records showing the history of the situation - maybe dad's support payment records and any documentation about mom's absence. They can be REALLY picky about this!
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GalacticGladiator
•That's really good to know! I can definitely gather her dad's child support payment records. For her mom's absence, I'm not sure what documentation I'd have besides maybe the original custody hearing documents that mention her abandonment. Did your niece's situation eventually get resolved?
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QuantumQuest
•Yes, it got resolved but took almost 2 months of back-and-forth with the aid office. They eventually accepted a notarized statement from my niece's therapist who had documented the family situation, plus the child support records. Each school has different requirements though - some were much easier than others.
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Yuki Yamamoto
btw make sure ur granddaughter fills out that css profile thing too if shes applying to private schools!!! my friend didnt know about it and missed out on tons of aid from her top choice school
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Carmen Ruiz
•Great point! The CSS Profile is used by about 200 mostly private colleges and universities to award non-federal aid. It's much more detailed than the FAFSA and does ask about guardian finances even when the student is FAFSA-independent. The list of schools requiring it changes yearly, so check each college's financial aid website to see if they require it.
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Carmen Ruiz
CSS Profile deadlines vary by institution, but they're often earlier than FAFSA deadlines - sometimes as early as November for early decision applicants. For regular decision, they typically align with admission application deadlines. I strongly recommend checking each school's specific financial aid deadlines. One more thing to consider: If your granddaughter is choosing between schools, make sure to ask financial aid offices about any special circumstances they might consider. Some schools have discretionary funds specifically for unique family situations like yours. This won't appear on their websites, but a direct conversation with the aid office might reveal additional options.
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GalacticGladiator
•That's excellent advice! I'll definitely have those conversations with the financial aid offices. I'm learning there's so much more to this process than just filling out the forms. Thank you!
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Jamal Anderson
I was raised by my grandparents too! One thing nobody mentioned - if your granddaughter has any savings accounts that were set up when she was younger, make sure they're not in a custodial account with either biological parent named. Those can create complications for financial aid. My grandfather had to move some money around before my FAFSA because my absent father was still technically on one of my childhood accounts.
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GalacticGladiator
•Oh wow, I hadn't even thought about that! She does have a savings account her dad set up when she was little. I'll have to check who's listed as the custodian on it. Thanks for the heads up!
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Vanessa Chang
As someone new to this community and facing a similar situation with my nephew, I want to say how incredibly helpful this thread has been! The clarification about independent student status for those with legal guardianship is exactly what I needed to understand. One question I haven't seen addressed yet - does the timing of when guardianship was established matter for FAFSA purposes? My nephew has been with me for 3 years (since age 15) versus the original poster's 8-year situation. I'm wondering if there's a minimum time requirement or if recent guardianship arrangements are treated the same way? Also, has anyone dealt with situations where the biological parent lives in the same state but isn't involved? I'm worried the financial aid offices might question why formal guardianship was necessary if the parent is geographically close.
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Nasira Ibanez
•Welcome to the community! Great questions that I think many guardians wonder about. From what I understand, there's no minimum time requirement for how long the guardianship needs to be in place - what matters is that it's a valid court-ordered arrangement at the time you're filing FAFSA. Your nephew's 3-year guardianship should be treated exactly the same as longer-term situations. Regarding the geographical proximity concern, financial aid offices typically focus on the legal reality rather than physical distance. If you have court documents establishing guardianship, that's what determines FAFSA status regardless of where the biological parent lives. The courts wouldn't have granted guardianship without valid reasons, so the aid offices generally accept that documentation at face value. That said, like others mentioned, having some backup documentation about why guardianship was necessary could be helpful if questions arise. But the key point is that legal guardianship automatically qualifies your nephew for independent status - the circumstances that led to it are secondary to the legal fact of it existing.
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Kolton Murphy
As a newcomer to this community, I'm amazed by how helpful and detailed this discussion has been! I'm in a very similar situation with my 16-year-old grandson who I've had legal custody of for 4 years. Reading through all these responses has cleared up so much confusion I had about the FAFSA process. The clarification about independent student status for legal guardianship situations is a game-changer - I had no idea this could actually work in our favor for financial aid eligibility. I was dreading having to include my retirement income in the calculations. One additional question for those who've been through this: Do colleges ever request updated guardianship documentation if the original court order is several years old? My grandson's paperwork is from 2020, and I'm wondering if I need to get anything refreshed before we start the application process next year. Also, has anyone dealt with explaining the guardianship situation in college admission essays or applications? I'm not sure if this is something that should be mentioned as part of his story or if it's better to keep it purely in the financial aid realm. Thanks to everyone who's shared their experiences here - this thread should be bookmarked by every guardian navigating college financial aid!
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Connor O'Neill
•Welcome to the community! I'm new here too and found this thread incredibly informative. Regarding your questions about documentation timing - from what I've gathered reading through everyone's experiences, the 2020 court order should be perfectly fine. Legal guardianship doesn't typically have an expiration date unless specifically stated in the court documents, so a 4-year-old order is still valid. As for the college essay question, that's really thoughtful of you to consider. From what I understand, the guardianship situation can actually be a powerful part of his personal story if he chooses to include it - it shows resilience, family support systems, and overcoming challenges. But it's definitely his choice whether to incorporate it into his narrative or keep it separate in just the financial aid documentation. I'm bookmarking this thread too! The expertise shared here, especially from Carmen Ruiz who works in financial aid, has been invaluable for those of us navigating this process.
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Natalie Khan
As a newcomer to this community, I want to echo what others have said about how incredibly helpful this thread has been! I'm facing a similar situation with my 17-year-old niece who I've had legal guardianship of for the past 5 years. Reading through all the expert advice here, especially from Carmen who works in financial aid, has cleared up so much confusion I had about the FAFSA process. I had no idea that legal guardianship would actually make my niece eligible for independent student status - I was worried about having to include my income which would hurt her aid eligibility. One thing I'd like to add for other guardians reading this: make sure to keep organized records of everything from the start. I've learned to maintain a dedicated folder with all the legal documents, any correspondence about the guardianship situation, and records showing the biological parents' lack of involvement. It's been incredibly helpful when dealing with various agencies and will likely be useful for the college financial aid process. Also, don't be afraid to reach out directly to the financial aid offices at schools your student is considering. I've found them to be much more helpful and understanding about unique family situations than I expected. They deal with guardianship cases regularly and can often provide specific guidance for your situation. Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences and expertise here - this community is such a valuable resource!
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Zara Shah
•Welcome to the community, Natalie! Your advice about keeping organized records is so valuable - I wish I had thought of that earlier in our journey. I'm definitely going to start a dedicated folder now with all our documentation. I really appreciate your point about reaching out directly to financial aid offices. I was hesitant to contact them before having all our paperwork perfect, but it sounds like they're more approachable than I assumed. It's reassuring to know they handle guardianship cases regularly. This thread has been such a lifesaver for all of us guardians navigating this process. The expertise everyone has shared here has transformed what seemed like an overwhelming bureaucratic maze into something much more manageable. Thank you for adding your insights to this amazing resource!
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Dmitry Petrov
As a newcomer to this community, I'm incredibly grateful for this detailed and helpful discussion! I'm currently facing a very similar situation with my 16-year-old granddaughter who I've had legal custody of for 6 years. The clarification about independent student status for legal guardianship has been eye-opening - I had completely misunderstood how this would work for FAFSA purposes. Like many others here, I was worried that including my income would negatively impact her financial aid eligibility, so learning that only her income (including child support) needs to be reported is actually wonderful news. One question I haven't seen addressed yet: Has anyone dealt with situations where the student receives support from multiple sources? My granddaughter receives child support from her father, but I also provide her with a monthly allowance and her aunt occasionally sends money for clothes and activities. I'm wondering how to properly report these different income sources, or if some don't need to be reported at all. Also, I want to thank Carmen especially for the professional insights - having someone who actually works in financial aid participate in this discussion has made it so much more valuable for all of us guardians trying to navigate this complex process. This thread should definitely be a go-to resource for anyone in similar situations!
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Malik Robinson
•Welcome to the community, Dmitry! Your question about multiple income sources is really important and something I hadn't considered either. From what I understand based on this thread's discussion, the child support from her father would definitely need to be reported as your granddaughter's untaxed income. However, I'm not sure about the allowance you give her or occasional money from her aunt. Since you're her legal guardian, I would think your allowance might be considered family support rather than income? And the aunt's occasional contributions sound more like gifts than regular income. I'd love to hear from Carmen or others with more expertise on this - it seems like the distinction between regular support payments, family allowances, and occasional gifts could be tricky to navigate on the FAFSA forms. This is exactly the kind of detailed question that makes having professional guidance so valuable. Thank you for bringing up this scenario - I'm sure other guardians have similar situations with multiple family members contributing in different ways!
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Khalid Howes
As a newcomer to this community and someone navigating a similar guardianship situation, this thread has been absolutely invaluable! I'm currently preparing for my nephew's college applications (I've been his legal guardian for 2 years), and I had completely misunderstood the FAFSA process. The clarification about independent student status for legal guardianship is huge - I was dreading having to report my income and thought it would hurt his aid chances. Learning that only his income needs to be reported actually makes this much more hopeful for us financially. I wanted to add one resource that might help other guardians here: I found that contacting the high school's guidance counselor early in the process was really beneficial. Our counselor had dealt with guardianship situations before and was able to connect us with a local nonprofit that helps families navigate college financial aid. They even have workshops specifically for non-traditional family situations. Also, for anyone feeling overwhelmed by all the documentation requirements mentioned in this thread - start gathering everything now, even if your student is still a junior. Having the court papers, any correspondence about the guardianship, and records of support payments organized early will save so much stress later. Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences, especially Carmen for the professional insights. This community is such a valuable resource for those of us in unique family situations!
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