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Mei Wong

FAFSA timing for triplets entering college in 2025 - single mom with deceased spouse

I need advice on FAFSA timing for my situation. I'm a single mother (my husband passed away 3 years ago) and I have triplets who will all be starting college in Fall 2025. I've never done the FAFSA before and I'm overwhelmed about having three kids in college at once. When is the best time to fill out the FAFSA for the 2025-2026 year? Do I need to complete separate forms for each child? Will they consider that I have 3 dependents in college simultaneously? I'm worried about affording tuition for all three without their father's income. Any advice would be really appreciated.

Liam Sullivan

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First, I'm so sorry about your loss. For the 2025-2026 FAFSA, you should submit as close to December 1, 2024 as possible (that's when it opens for that academic year). You only need to complete ONE FAFSA form, but each child will need their own FSA ID. You'll list all colleges they're applying to on that single form, and yes, having multiple dependents in college simultaneously will SIGNIFICANTLY improve your aid eligibility through a more favorable SAI calculation. Make sure you have your 2023 tax information ready since that's what they'll use for the 2025-2026 FAFSA. Also, be prepared to enter information about your late husband's death certificate as they may require that documentation.

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Mei Wong

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Thank you so much! That's a huge relief that I only need to fill out one form. Do you know if I should list myself as a widow on the form? And I'm a bit confused about the FSA ID - do my children create their own or do I make them since they're still my dependents?

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Amara Okafor

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I was in your shoes 4 years ago with twins (not triplets tho, WOW!) and it was SCARY. The FAFSA will absolutely account for multiple kids in college - it basically divides your expected contribution among all your kids in school. Made a HUGE difference for us!! Fill it out ASAP when it opens in December. Also apply for as many private scholarships as you can now. Start looking at specific schools too because some have special scholarships for multiples!

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Mei Wong

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Thank you for the encouragement! I'll definitely start looking into private scholarships right away. Do you remember roughly how much more aid your twins qualified for because there were two of them instead of just one? And that's a great tip about schools with scholarships for multiples - I hadn't even thought about that!

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One important point about your situation - since your husband passed away, your children might qualify for Social Security survivor benefits while they're in college (up to age 23 in some cases). These benefits can help with college costs and don't count against your FAFSA eligibility in most cases. Contact your local Social Security office right away to check on this if you haven't already.

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This is exactly right - my niece received survivor benefits during college after her dad passed, and it was about $1,100/month that didn't affect her financial aid package. definitely look into this!!

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StarStrider

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OK so youll need to get your taxes done for 2023 like super organized because with 3 kids they will look at EVERYTHING. my sister did fafsa for twins and got audited and had to provide every bank statement, its called verification and it suuuucks. make sure u have all your paperwork!

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Mei Wong

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Oh no, that sounds stressful! I'll make sure I have all my documentation organized. Did your sister have to provide bank statements from the kids too, or just her accounts?

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StarStrider

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omg thanx for sharing this! i spent like 4 hours on hold last month trying to fix my sisters verification issue, it was THE WORST

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Sofia Torres

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I work in a college financial aid office. A few critical points for your situation: 1. Your student aid index (SAI) will be divided by the number of family members in college 2. You should complete the FAFSA as early as possible after Dec 1, 2024 3. Each child needs their own FSA ID (they create these themselves, not you) 4. You'll need to list each school for each child 5. Your children may qualify for additional Pell Grant funding due to your loss Be sure to contact each college's financial aid office directly about your unique situation with triplets and being a widow. Many schools have institutional funds they can use to help in special circumstances.

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Mei Wong

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This is incredibly helpful, thank you! I'll make sure each of my kids creates their own FSA ID. When you say I should contact each financial aid office directly, should I do that before or after submitting the FAFSA? And is there specific terminology I should use when explaining my situation to them?

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When I filed FAFSA last year, the system kept crashing when I tried to add multiple schools!!! The whole thing is a NIGHTMARE and they make it impossible to reach anyone for help. I had to resubmit three times and then they randomly selected me for verification which delayed everything by months!! Just warning you that the system is broken and you should start early because it's going to be a DISASTER with three kids trust me.

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Liam Sullivan

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The good news is they've completely redesigned the FAFSA for 2024-2025, and it's supposed to be much simpler. The 2025-2026 form should use this new improved system too. But you're right that starting early is always good advice, especially with a complex situation like this.

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Sofia Torres

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To answer your follow-up question - you should contact financial aid offices AFTER you've submitted the FAFSA, but BEFORE they finalize aid packages. Generally January/February is ideal timing. Use these specific terms when you contact them: "special circumstances review," "professional judgment request," and "dependency multiplier for multiples." These are trigger terms that financial aid officers recognize for cases like yours that deserve additional consideration.

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Mei Wong

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Thank you for these specific terms! I'll definitely use them when I reach out to the financial aid offices. Do colleges typically require any additional documentation for these special circumstances reviews?

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For documentation of special circumstances, you'll typically need: - Death certificate for your spouse - Updated income information (recent pay stubs) - Statement of special circumstances (a letter explaining your situation) - Any major medical bills or unusual expenses - Documentation of any life insurance proceeds Keep in mind that each school has their own forms and processes for professional judgment reviews, so ask each financial aid office for their specific requirements.

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Amara Okafor

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One more thing! Make sure your triplets each apply to a range of schools - some more affordable and some reach schools. With multiple kids, having choice is important. My twins ended up at different schools based on aid packages. Don't assume they all have to go to the same place!

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Mei Wong

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That's a great point! I've been so focused on the logistics that I haven't thought much about them potentially attending different schools. Did your twins find it difficult to be at separate colleges?

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Amara Okafor

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Actually they LOVED being at different schools! They got to develop their own identities and then would share their experiences when home on breaks. One got much more aid at a private school while the other got a merit scholarship at our state university. Let your triplets each choose based on their programs and the aid packages offered - it actually worked out perfectly for us financially and personally!

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When my son went to college in 2023 they didn't care that my husband died they still asked for all his information on the FAFSA can you believe it?? I had to call them like 5 times to explain he was DECEASED and they kept sending verification requests for his tax forms!!! The system is BROKEN!!! I'm still angry about it tbh

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Sofia Torres

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That absolutely shouldn't have happened. When a parent is deceased, you indicate that on the FAFSA and no information should be requested from them. If you encounter this issue (hopefully you won't with the new FAFSA system), immediately request to speak with a financial aid supervisor or director, not just a front-line staff member.

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Mei Wong

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Thank you all so much for the advice and support. I feel much more prepared now. I'll definitely start getting organized with all the documentation, help my triplets create their FSA IDs in advance, and submit as close to December 1st as possible. I'll also look into the Social Security survivor benefits and start researching schools with good aid packages for multiples. I really appreciate everyone taking the time to share your experiences and expertise!

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