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Diego Flores

FAFSA for 3 kids: Can some file as independent to get more aid when Parent Plus loans maxed out?

I'm drowning in Parent Plus loans for my twins (sophomores) and now my youngest is starting college next fall. Our combined income looks decent on paper (~$98k), but with 3 in college and living in an expensive area, there's no way we can contribute what FAFSA expects or take on more PP loans. I'm wondering if having some of my kids file as independent could help them qualify for more direct loans? Would this work? And if they file independent, can we still claim them as dependents on our taxes? Currently, they all live in dorms during school year but come home during breaks. None make enough income to fully support themselves. I need to figure this out before the 2025-26 FAFSA opens in December.

Unfortunately, this is not how FAFSA dependency works. Your children cannot simply choose to file as independent students. There are specific criteria they must meet, such as being 24+ years old, married, veterans, having dependents of their own, being homeless/at risk, or having documented cases of parental abuse. Simply wanting more financial aid is not a qualifying reason, and schools can (and do) verify dependency status. The good news is that your Expected Family Contribution (now called the Student Aid Index or SAI) is divided by the number of college students in your household. So with 3 in college instead of 2, your contribution per student should actually decrease.

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Diego Flores

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Thank you for explaining. I didn't realize dependency status had such specific requirements - I thought it was something they could just choose. So even with our SAI being divided further with 3 kids, we're still expected to contribute more than we can afford. Are there any other options? The twins each got about $7,500 in federal loans and $3,200 in grants, but we had to cover another $18k each with Parent Plus.

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Sean Flanagan

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my kid just did this!!! declared himself independnt and got wayyy more aid. we still claimed him on taxes and nobody said anything. his aid package doubled!!

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I'm sorry, but this information is incorrect and potentially harmful. Your child could face serious consequences for falsifying FAFSA information, including having to repay all aid, penalties, and even criminal charges for fraud. Financial aid offices regularly verify independent status claims and require documentation. Please have your child contact their financial aid office immediately to correct this error before it becomes a bigger problem.

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Sean Flanagan

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no thats not true. he just checked some box that said he supports himself. nobody ever asked for proof

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Zara Mirza

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As others have said, dependency override isn't something students can just choose. However, there are some legitimate strategies you could consider: 1. Appeal for Professional Judgment - If your financial situation has changed significantly, contact each school's financial aid office to request a review of your circumstances. 2. Look into school-specific scholarships - Many schools have additional funds for families with multiple students in college. 3. Consider having one student take a gap semester/year to work full-time and save money, then rotate which student does this. 4. Check if any of your children qualify for work-study programs, which can provide income while in school. 5. Private scholarships - Have your kids apply for every scholarship they can find. But no, filing as independent falsely is not a legitimate option.

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Diego Flores

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Thank you for these suggestions. I like the idea of appealing for professional judgment - our mortgage and healthcare costs have gone up significantly. Would each school handle this differently? And would we need to provide specific documentation for these appeals?

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NebulaNinja

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Im in literally the EXACT same situation!!!! Three kids, all in college next year, and we're supposed to magically fork over 45k after paying taxes, mortgage and basic living expenses? The system is rigged against middle class families. We make too much for good aid but not enough to actually afford college. It's CRIMINAL what they expect us to pay.

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Luca Russo

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Agree 💯 We're in the same boat with twins + their older brother all in college now. FAFSA says we can afford $32k/year per kid which is INSANE. We're emptying retirement accounts just to keep up.

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Diego Flores

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It's honestly a relief to hear I'm not the only one struggling with this. How are you handling the situation? We're thinking we might need to have one of the twins transfer to a cheaper state school, which breaks my heart.

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Nia Wilson

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Have you tried actually calling Federal Student Aid to ask about your specific situation? My sister-in-law was in a similar position with 3 kids in college and they explained some options she didn't know about. The problem is getting through to them - the hold times are ridiculous! She ended up using Claimyr (claimyr.com) to skip the phone queue. There's a video that shows how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ Once she got through, they helped her understand how the dependency status actually works and explained some professional judgment options she could request through the schools.

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Diego Flores

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I haven't tried calling them directly - I've mostly been working with the individual schools. But getting straight answers from FSA might be helpful. Those hold times are what's kept me from calling! I'll check out that service, thanks for the suggestion.

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Nia Wilson

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No problem! Just make sure you have all your tax documents and FSA IDs handy when you call. They can explain exactly how the SAI calculations change with 3 dependent students and whether there are any special circumstances adjustments you might qualify for.

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Mateo Sanchez

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Hello! Financial aid counselor here. A few things to consider: 1. With 3 dependent students in college, your Student Aid Index (SAI) will be divided more ways, potentially increasing eligibility for need-based aid. 2. Each dependent undergraduate student can borrow up to $5,500-$7,500 per year in Direct Loans, depending on year in school (with lifetime limits of $31,000). 3. For Parent PLUS loans, you can borrow up to the cost of attendance minus other aid received, but you must pass a credit check. 4. If you're denied a Parent PLUS loan due to adverse credit, your dependent students automatically become eligible for additional unsubsidized loans (up to $4,000-$5,000 more per year). 5. Consider having your child with the highest costs or lowest institutional aid apply for this additional unsubsidized loan by having you apply for and get denied for a Parent PLUS loan for that specific child.

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Diego Flores

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Thank you so much for this information! I didn't know about #4 - that if I'm denied for a Parent PLUS loan, my kids could get additional unsubsidized loans. That might be a workable solution. Would intentionally getting denied for a PLUS loan (maybe by letting some bills go past due temporarily) be considered some kind of fraud? Or is this a legitimate strategy?

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Luca Russo

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just fyi my neighbor had their kid emancipate right b4 college and they got TONS more aid that way. might be worth looking into legal emancipation if ur kids r 17

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Mateo Sanchez

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This is extremely problematic advice. Legal emancipation is a serious court proceeding that requires proving that parents are unfit or that the minor is completely self-supporting. Pursuing emancipation solely for financial aid purposes could constitute fraud. Courts don't grant emancipation for financial convenience - it's for situations where minors truly need to be legally separated from their parents. Please don't suggest this as a financial aid strategy.

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Zara Mirza

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After reading through all these responses, I think your best options are: 1. The strategy mentioned by the financial aid counselor about PLUS loan denial leading to increased unsubsidized loan eligibility for your children 2. Filing appeals for professional judgment at each school based on the multiple students in college and any other special circumstances 3. Looking into whether any of your children qualify for merit scholarships or outside private scholarships Remember that falsifying information on the FAFSA has serious consequences including having to repay all aid received, fines up to $20,000, and possible prison time. The schools and the Department of Education have sophisticated systems to detect fraud.

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Diego Flores

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Thank you for summarizing. I would never want to falsify information - was just trying to understand the system better. The PLUS loan denial strategy sounds promising, along with appealing to the financial aid offices directly. I appreciate everyone's help!

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