FAFSA advice for recent divorce & community college transfer - need 1:1 help!
Hey everyone! I'm completely overwhelmed trying to navigate the FAFSA process for my son who's transferring from community college to a 4-year state university this fall. He's graduating with his associate's degree next month (debt-free so far, thank goodness!) but now we're entering complicated territory. My divorce was just finalized on December 31, 2023 (literally the last day of the year), and now my ex and I are trying to figure out how this affects the 2025-2026 FAFSA. We're both committed to helping our son but don't want to step on each other's toes financially or mess up his aid eligibility. Does anyone know if there's a way to schedule a personalized appointment with a financial aid advisor who can answer all my specific questions? Is that even a thing? Campus financial aid office told us to "check the website" but I feel like I need someone to walk me through our particular situation. I'm worried we'll miss out on grants or scholarships because I don't fully understand how the divorce timing impacts his SAI calculation or which parent should be the contributor. Any advice appreciated!!!
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Eli Wang
I went through something similar last year! The campus financial aid offices can be frustratingly vague. Since your divorce was finalized in 2023, for the 2025-2026 FAFSA, your son will report the finances of whichever parent he lived with MORE during the past 12 months. Doesn't matter who claims him on taxes!
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Nora Brooks
•Thank you! He actually split time pretty evenly between us, maybe slightly more with me. Does that mean I should be the one listed on the FAFSA? And do we need to include my ex's info at all?
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Cassandra Moon
For the 2025-2026 FAFSA application, since your divorce was finalized in 2023, your son will use the financial information of the parent he lived with the most during the 12 months prior to completing the application. If time was split equally, then it would be the parent who provided more financial support. Regarding your question about appointments - yes, you absolutely can schedule a one-on-one meeting! Most college financial aid offices offer personal appointments, but you need to be specific when scheduling. Don't just ask general questions - request a "special circumstances review" or "professional judgment appointment" specifically mentioning the divorce situation. Also, make sure your son completes the CSS Profile if any of his target schools require it (many private universities do). The CSS Profile treats divorce differently than FAFSA, and they'll want financial information from both parents in many cases.
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Nora Brooks
•This is incredibly helpful! I didn't know about asking for a "special circumstances review" - I'll definitely use that language when I call back. His state university doesn't require the CSS Profile, but that's good to know in case he decides to apply to any private schools as backup options. Thank you!
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Zane Hernandez
my son went to community college too!!!! best decison ever, saved sooooo much $$$. when he transfered we got really confused about the fafsa too. for us the school financial aid ppl were useless tbh, they just kept telling us "check online" like we hadn't already tried that lol
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Nora Brooks
•Yes! So glad we started with community college. Definitely the smart financial move, and the classes were actually really good. I'm getting the same runaround with the "check online" responses. So frustrating!
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Genevieve Cavalier
The FINANCIAL AID SYSTEM IS COMPLETELY RIGGED AGAINST DIVORCED PARENTS!!! I went through this nightmare last year with my daughter. They make it INTENTIONALLY CONFUSING so they can give you LESS MONEY! We got practically NOTHING even though we qualified for aid before the divorce. The government doesn't care about your "special circumstances" - it's all algorithms now. Be prepared for your SAI to go way up after divorce because they only count one parent's income but still expect the same contribution! It's OUTRAGEOUS! And good luck getting anyone on the phone at Federal Student Aid - I spent HOURS on hold only to get disconnected EVERY SINGLE TIME.
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Ethan Scott
•I had similar frustrations trying to reach FSA agents about my divorce situation last month. After multiple disconnected calls and hours on hold, I finally used Claimyr (claimyr.com) to get through to a real person. They connected me to an agent in about 20 minutes who actually helped explain how the divorce affected my daughter's SAI calculation. You can see how it works in their video demo: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ It was seriously worth it because the agent was able to document our divorce circumstances in the system, which helped when we submitted additional documentation to the financial aid office.
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Lola Perez
Technically for the 2025-2026 FAFSA, only one parent's information is required post-divorce - specifically the parent who provided more financial support during the past year (regardless of custody arrangements). HOWEVER, this can actually work against you in some cases because the FAFSA no longer considers the total household size of both parents, potentially resulting in a higher SAI. Here's what I recommend: 1. Calculate your son's potential SAI both ways (with either you or your ex as the contributor) to see which results in the lower SAI 2. Document all housing arrangements for the past 12 months in case verification is required 3. Contact both your state's higher education assistance foundation AND the university financial aid office directly 4. When your son's admission is confirmed, immediately request a "Professional Judgment Review" due to the recent divorce 5. Get his transfer credits evaluated ASAP as this can affect his grade level for loan limits Good luck!
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Nathaniel Stewart
•wait how do you calculate SAI both ways? is there like a calculator somewhere?? my parents are divorced too and i have no idea which one should fill out my fafsa
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Ethan Scott
I work in college admissions and deal with this exact situation frequently. Here's what most people don't realize about transfers from community college after a divorce: 1. Your son qualifies as a "continuing student" since he's already in college, which means he can sometimes request expedited processing 2. For 2025-2026, the parent who provided MORE financial support during the preceding 12 months should complete the FAFSA (regardless of where the student lived more) 3. You ABSOLUTELY can get a 1:1 appointment, but you need to contact the university financial aid office directly - not the general admissions office 4. Make sure to specifically mention that you need a "professional judgment review due to change in family circumstances" - this is the official language that will get you the right appointment 5. Bring documentation of the divorce finalization and financial support records to the appointment 6. If your son's community college has a transfer counselor, they often have direct contacts with university financial aid offices that can expedite this process Hope this helps!
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Nora Brooks
•This is exactly what I needed! I've been talking to the general admissions office, not specifically financial aid. And I didn't know about the "continuing student" status - that's great news. I'll reach out to his community college transfer counselor tomorrow. Thank you so much for these specific steps!
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Nathaniel Stewart
ur son should do the fafsa himself tbh. im in college and did mine myself and got way more $ than when my parents did it for me lol. also ur divorce might actually help him get more aid cuz they only count one parents money now not both!!
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Nora Brooks
•That's an interesting point! He has been pretty independent with the process, but we're all trying to figure out the divorce implications together. I hadn't considered that it might actually help his aid situation by only counting one income. I'll talk to him about taking the lead more, thanks!
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Cassandra Moon
I want to add an important detail about the transition from community college to a 4-year institution that many miss. For transfer students, there's often special "transfer scholarships" that aren't automatically considered with the general financial aid process. Make sure your son specifically asks about: - Phi Theta Kappa transfer scholarships (if he's a member) - Academic merit scholarships specifically for transfer students - Departmental scholarships from his intended major - Community college partnership scholarships (many 4-year schools have special relationships with local CCs) These are completely separate from the FAFSA/federal aid process and require separate applications with different deadlines. I've seen transfer students miss out on thousands in scholarships simply because they focused solely on FAFSA and didn't realize these other options existed.
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Nora Brooks
•Oh wow, this is gold! He is actually in Phi Theta Kappa! I had no idea there were specific scholarships for that. I'm going to have him look into all of these options right away. The FAFSA process had us so stressed we haven't even thought about these other possibilities. Thank you!!!
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Zane Hernandez
i just remembered someting else..... make sure u tell ur son to request his official transrcipt from the community college ASAP!!! my son almost missed a deadline because they take forever to process those requests especially during graduation time. the university wont finalize his aid package without the final transcript!!
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Nora Brooks
•That's such a good reminder! I'll have him request that this week. With graduation coming up, I bet there will be a backlog of transcript requests. Thank you!
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