FAFSA 24/25: Divorced parents confusion - who should fill it out for maximum aid?
My daughter just started college this fall, and now we're dealing with the FAFSA for 24/25. Her mom and I were never married and haven't been together since she was little. I'm getting conflicting information about who should complete the FAFSA. I've read that only the custodial parent needs to fill out the form. Is this true? I've also heard that the parent with lower income should complete it to maximize financial aid. Is there any truth to this strategy? One more thing - if I do fill out the FAFSA, will my ex be able to see my income information? We don't exactly have the best relationship, and I'd rather keep my finances private. Just trying to help my daughter get the most aid possible without creating additional drama. Thanks for any advice!
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Omar Farouk
For the 24/25 FAFSA, the rules are that the parent who provides MORE financial support completes the form (not necessarily the custodial parent anymore). The new FAFSA has changed how this works. As for choosing the lower-income parent - that's somewhat true but not officially how it works. The FAFSA uses the parent who provided MORE than 50% of the student's financial support. You don't get to pick based on who has lower income. Regarding privacy - the other parent won't have access to your income details through the FAFSA. Your financial information is protected.
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Freya Andersen
AuthorThanks for clarifying. So it sounds like we need to figure out who provided more financial support rather than just going by custody. This gets complicated because we've never really tracked exact percentages of support...
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CosmicCadet
my ex and me went thru this last yr. we just decided who paid more for kid stuff and that person did the fafsa. nobody sees ur income on the other side dont worry bout that part
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Chloe Harris
The FAFSA for 24/25 has COMPLETLY changed how they calculate everything! The old rules about custodial parents don't apply anymore. Now they use this new formula with the Student Aid Index (SAI) instead of the old EFC. The parent who provides MORE financial support (over 50%) is supposed to complete the form. BUT - and this is important - they totally eliminated the question about which parent the student lived with more! So it's all about financial support now, not where they physically lived. And yes, using the lower-income parent CAN result in more aid IF that parent truly provided more support. But you can't just choose - it has to be accurate.
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Diego Mendoza
wait so the SAI is different than EFC? i thought they were the same thing just renamed
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Chloe Harris
They're similar but not exactly the same. SAI is calculated differently and some of the allowances and protections have changed. For divorced/separated parents, the biggest change is focusing solely on financial support rather than physical custody.
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Anastasia Popova
I work in a financial aid office, and I can tell you the 24/25 FAFSA has been causing lots of confusion for parents in your situation. To answer your questions: 1. FALSE about custodial parent being the only one responsible. For 24/25, it's the parent who provides MORE THAN 50% of financial support, regardless of custody arrangements. 2. PARTIALLY TRUE about using lower-income parent. If the lower-income parent legitimately provides more financial support, then yes, this could result in more aid. But you can't just pick - you must follow the 50% support rule. 3. Will your ex see your income? NO. The FAFSA information is confidential, and the other parent won't have access to your financial details. Word of caution: Don't try to game the system by claiming the lower-income parent provides more support if that's not true. Verification is common, and misrepresenting this could lead to problems later.
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Freya Andersen
AuthorThis is really helpful, thank you. I think I do provide more than 50% financial support, but we've never tracked it exactly. Is there a specific way to calculate this? Like does paying for health insurance, cell phone bills, clothing, etc. all count as financial support?
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Anastasia Popova
Yes, all of those count as financial support! Financial support includes: - Housing costs - Food - Medical/dental expenses and insurance - Clothing - Transportation costs - Education expenses not covered by scholarships - Cell phone, utilities if you pay them - Any regular allowance you provide There's no official worksheet for this calculation, but you should be able to make a reasonable estimate based on the total value of everything you provide compared to what her mother provides.
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Sean Flanagan
OK but did anyone else notice the FAFSA website STILL doesn't explain this clearly? I spent 3 hours on the phone trying to get someone to explain the "more than 50% support" thing to me last week. Every time I called, I got disconnected or put on hold forever. The whole system is set up to be impossible to navigate 🤬
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Zara Shah
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Freya Andersen
Update: I made a list of everything I pay for (housing during breaks, health insurance, car insurance, cell phone, clothing budget, etc.) and I'm definitely over the 50% mark. I'll be completing the FAFSA since it sounds like I'm the parent who should be doing it according to the new rules. Thanks everyone for the help!
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Diego Mendoza
good luck! my daughter got way more grant $ when we figured out the right parent to use on fafsa
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Omar Farouk
Excellent approach! And just a heads-up: when you complete the FAFSA, be ready to answer questions about your assets too (savings, investments, etc.), not just income. That's another factor in the SAI calculation.
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NebulaNomad
My daughters college financial aid office told us that if there's any question about who provides more support, they recommend keeping receipts or a log for a few months to document it. just in case you get selected for verification. apparently thats happening alot with the new fafsa especially for divorced parents
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Freya Andersen
AuthorThat's smart. I'll start documenting everything just to be safe. Wouldn't want to deal with verification issues later.
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Chloe Harris
Just want to add one more important point - the 24/25 FAFSA also considers contributions from non-custodial parents differently than before. They eliminated the question about which parent the student lived with more and now ONLY care about financial support. Also, remember the federal student aid amounts are the same regardless of which college your daughter attends. It's the institutional aid (from the college itself) that might vary based on her SAI score. Some colleges ask for the CSS Profile too, which asks for BOTH parents' information even if separated.
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Romeo Barrett
Just wanted to chime in as someone who went through this exact situation last year. The new FAFSA rules definitely focus on financial support rather than custody, which was confusing at first but actually worked out better for us. One thing I learned the hard way - make sure you're consistent about who files the FAFSA each year. If you file this year because you provide more support, you'll likely need to file again next year unless your financial situation changes significantly. The colleges expect consistency. Also, don't stress too much about calculating the exact percentages down to the dollar. As long as you can reasonably justify that you provide more than 50% support (which it sounds like you clearly do), you should be fine. The key is being honest and having documentation if needed. Your daughter is lucky to have a parent who's taking the time to figure this out properly!
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