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Javier Cruz

Confused about FAFSA parent verification - can I start application before son sends invite?

I'm completely lost about what order we need to do things for my son's FAFSA! He created his studentaid.gov account back in October, but my husband and I just set up our contributor account yesterday. Our account shows we're not 'Verified' yet, and our son hasn't sent us an 'Invite' to contribute. But the weird thing is, when I log in, the system says I'm 'good to begin the FAFSA' process. I'm nervous about clicking forward since we don't have that parent-student connection established yet. Will the system even let me start without the invite? Could this mess up his application completely? Will I have to re-do everything once we get verified? Anyone been through this confusing parent verification process recently?

Emma Thompson

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your fine, just start the application. my daughter and I just went thru this last week. the invite thing happens DURING the application process itself, not before. once u get to the contributor part in the aplication, it sends the notification to your son and then he can accept it. don't worry about being verified yet either, that part takes time but u can still work on fafsa

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Javier Cruz

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Really? That's such a relief! The wording on the website made it seem like we needed to be connected first. I've been stressing about this for days. So does my son need to be actively online when I'm working on it to accept the invite or can he do it later?

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Malik Jackson

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The parent actually has the process a bit backwards. Here's the correct order: 1. Student creates their FSA ID and starts the FAFSA application 2. When the student reaches the contributor section, they will add parent information and send the invitation 3. Parent creates FSA ID (which you've already done) and awaits verification 4. Parent receives invitation and completes their section You should NOT start a separate FAFSA application as a parent. You need to wait for your son to start it and invite you. The "good to begin" message is misleading - it just means your account is ready to be used when invited. Verification of your FSA ID can take 1-3 days but doesn't prevent you from working on the application once invited.

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Javier Cruz

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Oh no, I think I misunderstood the whole process! Thank you for clearing that up. So I need to tell my son to start the application himself, and then wait for his invitation? I was about to mess everything up.

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I clicked that "good to begin" button with my daughter's FAFSA and it completely messed things up!!! Had to call FSA support FOUR TIMES to fix it. DON'T DO IT!!!!

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Javier Cruz

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Oh my goodness, that sounds like a nightmare! Thanks for the warning. Did they explain why it happened or how to prevent it?

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They said parents should NEVER start the FAFSA process - only students should. They had to delete the duplicate application and it took FOREVER. The whole system is so confusing!!

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StarSurfer

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I'm a financial aid advisor, and I see this confusion all the time. The correct process is: 1. The student initiates the FAFSA application with their FSA ID 2. During the application, the student enters parent information and sends an invitation 3. The parent receives the invitation and completes their section As for verification - your FSA ID itself needs to be verified (which can take 1-3 days), but this doesn't prevent you from working on your child's FAFSA once invited. The "good to begin" message is just letting you know your account setup is complete, not that you should start a new application. If you haven't received an invitation yet, your son needs to start or continue his application and reach the point where he adds contributor information.

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Javier Cruz

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Thank you for explaining! I was definitely confusing the account verification with the invitation process. I'll have my son start his application this evening. One more question - does he need to complete his entire section before it lets him invite us, or can he send the invitation partway through?

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StarSurfer

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He doesn't need to complete his entire section first. When he gets to the contributor information page (about midway through the application), he'll be prompted to enter your information and send the invitation. He can do this before finishing his own sections. After you complete your part, he'll then need to go back in to submit the final application.

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Ravi Malhotra

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im having a similar issue but my daughter says she already sent the invitation and i never got it?? checked my email and everything. could it be going to spam or something? dont wanna mess up her financial aid!

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Lol same thing happened to us! My wife freaked out about the whole process. Turns out the FAFSA emails were going to my son's spam folder for some reason. Check there or have him login and resend the invite. The new system is a total mess compared to how it used to be imo

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Omar Hassan

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I went through this last month with my daughter and it was a nightmare. The FSA website kept timing out, and we couldn't get phone support for days. Finally used Claimyr (claimyr.com) to get through to an actual FAFSA agent who explained everything. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ The agent confirmed what others said - student must start the application and add you as a contributor. That "good to begin" message is super misleading and caused us problems too.

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Javier Cruz

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I've never heard of that service, but might need it if we run into problems. The FSA phone system is so frustrating! We were on hold for over an hour last time before giving up.

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Omar Hassan

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It saved us hours of frustration. The agent also helped fix the duplicate application issue we had (made the same mistake you almost did). Much better than waiting on hold forever only to get disconnected!

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Javier Cruz

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Update: My son started his FAFSA application tonight and successfully sent us an invitation! The email came through right away, and I was able to log in with my FSA ID and complete my portion. Even though my account still shows as "verification in progress," it let me complete everything. Thanks everyone for preventing me from making a huge mistake by starting a separate application!

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Malik Jackson

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That's great news! Glad everything worked out. Make sure your son goes back in to review and submit the final application once you've completed your section. The SAI (Student Aid Index) calculation won't happen until the entire application is submitted.

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ugh we're still having problems with the verification part... my husband's SSN isn't matching for some reason even though we triple-checked it's correct. such a headache

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StarSurfer

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That's usually caused by a mismatch between how his name appears on his Social Security card versus how it was entered on the FSA ID. Even small differences (like using a middle initial vs. full middle name) can cause verification issues. You'll need to call FSA support to resolve this specifically.

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Yuki Sato

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Just wanted to chime in as another parent who went through this recently! The whole process is definitely confusing at first. I made the same mistake of thinking I needed to start the application myself. What really helped me was understanding that the FAFSA is technically your son's application - we're just contributing our financial information to it. The "good to begin" message on the parent portal is just confirming your FSA ID is ready to be used when invited, not that you should start a new application. Once your son sends that invitation, the process becomes much clearer. Also, don't stress too much about the verification timing - as long as you can log in and complete your section when invited, you're good to go!

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Hannah White

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Thank you so much for sharing your experience! It's really reassuring to hear from other parents who went through the same confusion. You're absolutely right about thinking of it as our child's application where we're just contributors - that mental shift really helps clarify the whole process. I was getting so stressed about that "good to begin" message, but now I understand it's just about account readiness. Really appreciate everyone in this community helping each other navigate this maze!

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Liam Duke

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As someone who just went through this exact same confusion last month, I can totally relate! The FAFSA system's messaging is so misleading for parents. I also thought I needed to start my own application when I saw that "good to begin" message. What saved me was calling my daughter's high school guidance counselor who explained that the student ALWAYS initiates the process. The key thing to remember is that verification of your FSA ID and receiving the invitation are two completely separate things. Your verification can still be "in progress" and you'll still be able to complete your portion once your son sends the invite. Just make sure he knows to start his application soon since you've already got your contributor account ready to go. The whole family will feel much better once you're actually working through it together rather than stressing about the confusing setup process!

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Rachel Tao

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This is so helpful to hear from someone who just went through it! You're right about the messaging being really misleading - I was getting so anxious about whether I was doing something wrong. It's reassuring to know that even with verification still pending, I'll be able to complete my part once my son sends the invitation. I really appreciate you mentioning the guidance counselor resource too - I hadn't even thought about reaching out to them for help with this process. Thanks for taking the time to share your experience!

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Luca Bianchi

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I'm so glad I found this thread! I'm in almost the exact same situation - my daughter created her FSA ID months ago but we just set up our contributor accounts last week. I was also completely confused by that "good to begin" message and was about to start what I thought was my own FAFSA application. Reading everyone's experiences here has been incredibly helpful, especially learning that we need to wait for our kids to start the process and send us the invitation. It's frustrating how unclear the system's messaging is for parents - they really need to fix that wording! Thanks to everyone who shared their stories and advice. I'm going to have my daughter start her application this weekend so we can get the ball rolling properly.

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I'm so relieved to find this thread too! I was literally about to make the same mistake with that confusing "good to begin" message. It's crazy how many of us parents are going through the exact same confusion - the FSA really needs to update their wording to make it clearer that we need to wait for our kids to invite us rather than starting our own applications. This community has been a lifesaver! I'll definitely have my son get his application started this week so we can move forward properly. Thanks for sharing your situation - it's nice to know we're all figuring this out together!

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